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How many men have you slept with?

203 replies

NameChangeBooBoo · 05/04/2011 23:36

Tell the truth, if you can.

And how many do you confess to?

OP posts:
scottishmummy · 07/04/2011 00:30

well hello to you rude boy.calling people slags is hardly a way to ingratiate or dazzle us with your wit.now is it. justa wee tip us lassies like a wee tender word, a fond thoughtful murmur

and slag isnt it

so do piss off

Ryoko · 07/04/2011 00:33

1

EvenLessNarkyPuffin · 07/04/2011 00:34

Women who've had experience know that size does matter, it's not what you do with it that counts and it doesn't happen to everyone.

Mssoul · 07/04/2011 00:35

Getting Trolled, bless you (if you really are a 19 yo man). I don't hold out much hope for you having many relationships in the future with your current attitude. You're at an age where you should be respecting women (and people in general), not being abusive ie calling people slags. And your quote is very infantile and sexist.

Although, you are right when you say that women are all different and you need to learn what they like. No two people are the same.

You should read the feminist thread to see the error of your ways... Oh, and grow up. You are now old enough to marry and get a mortgage etc.

MotherMucca · 07/04/2011 00:36

An old saying springs to my mind, too.

Expect any abuse to be for your lazy attempt, rather than your lack of experience.

Try again, GT, poppet.

GettingTrolled · 07/04/2011 00:39

@scottishmummy

Do you really think I was posting here with the intent of pleasing all the lovely ladies of Mumsnet? Have you seen some of the numbers posted? 80+, seriously.

Please revert back to my post where I stated 'some' are complete slags. Proof read before posting next time and get your grammar and punctuation right. You wouldn't want 'Darling Child' dropping marks on exams for this now would you?

EvenLessNarkyPuffin · 07/04/2011 00:42

Are women not supposed to like sex then? A bit of a nouveau puritan troll aren't you.

scottishmummy · 07/04/2011 00:43

dearie me,you see its riposte and online chat not proof reading and you bellyaching "oh i never said that - take it back right now.or i'll tell my mum"

next

MotherMucca · 07/04/2011 00:46

On behalf of SM - how very, very yawnworthy

Night, pet. I shouldn't worry about that thing any more.

MotherMucca · 07/04/2011 00:48

x-posted... I thought all were asleep.

scottishmummy · 07/04/2011 00:50

toddling off now.work in morning.night lassies
nighty night troll boy.

GettingTrolled · 07/04/2011 00:52

@ Mssoul

I agree with everything you're saying. Especially with the quote, it isn't one of my own and does have a very sexist view about it, I agree.

I wasn't calling everyone a slag by any means, but 'some' of the posters in this thread are saying 80+ men, which is in no way attractive, show experience or is something to be proud of IMO, in the same way I'm sure a man having had 80+ sexual partners may be off putting.

I must say I'm not sure why you think I should grow up, I fully understand all the things I can do as an adult, so I'm not sure I understand the context of what you're saying there.

Off to find this 'feminist' thread...

CheerfulYank · 07/04/2011 01:00
  1. First one at 19, started dating DH at 21, so there you are. Sure there would have been plenty more if I'd met him later, but I'm satisfied with the way it all turned out. :)
MsScarlettInTheLibrary · 07/04/2011 01:02
  1. Met DP at 18 and no-one else since then.
startail · 07/04/2011 01:12

Just DH, not for any moral reason, we slept together pretty much from the day we met.
(my previous boyfriend was painfully shy, he was never going to ask and by the time I realised this I knew I'd only be using him if I asked).
And before that I lived in a small town with a lot of dim blokes, who drank too much and didn't understand why I wanted to go to Uni. Sad

dontcallmepeanut · 07/04/2011 08:51

Eight. and I'm 26... I feel so inexperienced, now Grin

Olifin · 07/04/2011 10:00

GT I do see what you're saying although I feel the use of the word 'slag' is unnecessary.

If I'm honest, I would probably be a bit put off a man who had had more than 20 or so partners. Not for any moral reason though as I think it's entirely up to the individual how they conduct themselves sexually as long as they're not hurting anyone. Personally, I wouldn't like it because, although I never expected every sexual partner to fall in love with me, I suppose I hoped they would at least remember the encounter with some degree of fondness or pleasure and I would imagine that if you've had loads of partners it becomes difficult to remember the details of many of those experiences.

sheeplikessleep · 07/04/2011 10:02

1

TitsMcGee89 · 07/04/2011 10:13

19 year old lad my arse.

upyourdiva · 07/04/2011 10:29

1 properly, just DP.

2 if you count the virginity loss debacle, which I don't :o.

I am 24.

bristolcities · 07/04/2011 11:05

15
6 in the last year.
Am 24, was in a reltionship from 17 to 23.

nocake · 07/04/2011 11:11

bristolcities - the summary of this thread when it appears under "last 15 minutes" shows the first part of your post as "156 in the last year". I had to come in and find out who this sex crazed woman was Grin

JanMorrow · 07/04/2011 11:15

About 30 I think

TobyLerone · 07/04/2011 11:23

I think 30-ish. I'm 33.

ginnny · 07/04/2011 11:30

8 Shock
Thats really not many is it - I should have got out more Grin

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