smellsofsick I think it's possible to believe that a man called Jesus existed, but that he wasn't the son of God, isn't it?
Similar to what you're saying, someone on the telly (or was it my sister - I can't remember!) said that if Jesus was to return to earth he'd be apalled by the lavish luxury in which the Pope lives. Oh, poor old Pope. He's never done any harm. Oh, no, sorry, yes he has.
God in the Old Testament was an utter tyrant.