Should be properly moderated and that the owner of the website the forum belongs to should care at least a little about it? Especially when it's a subscription forum that many people have paid for.
BMC was recently hacked, or so we were told by a moderator who advised us to change our passwords. Many of us were concerned about what other details they may have been able to access but in 24 hours we have had one message from the site owner saying it hasn't been hacked after all and to be kind to the mods.
Thing is, odd things are happening, random people are being banned for no reason - and then getting insults (tosser being one of them) sent to them when they try and request a new password. So we think there is some kind of hacker.
Now loads of new names are appearing, previously banned people are re registering and not being re-banned and it's all a bit of a shambles. Not one single word has been uttered by a moderator since yesterday afternoon, we think they may have all jumped ship and frankly who could blame them.
BMC (badmothersclub.co.uk for anyone who doesn't know it and no we actually are not bad parents) has been a great little site, so many of us have had such great support from it's members over the years.
So anyway AIBU to think someone should be keeping paying members informed and trying to sort this mess out?