As I spent most of my time here..I thought I'd use it to say goodbye

[ThePosieParker]

As starkly reminded by recent threads, MN is not the sort of place that I feel very safe, with or without anonymity. I don't expect to be missed, I have often been quite and outspoken bitch on here and haven't exactly made a lot of friends. I am delighted to have met some of the feminists, and will hopefully see them again. But twice in two weeks I've had PMs reminding me of things I've posted about my husband and I'm really upset about it. For me MN has been a quick knee jerk experience, one that captures my mood at any moment. So toodle pip.....about time I did more with the dcs anyway.

I am really aware that this is an attention seeking thread, but I just wanted MN to know that I won't be the only one leaving when apparent heartbreak (not mine) is fodder for someone's 'shit stirring Sunday'.....

beertricks my reference to ALGs politics was on the back of TSCs post that said something along the lines of 'she always was a spiteful Tory bitch' or something similar. fogive me, I'd quote it directly, but I can't it.

And Maryz, if I'd been around at the weekend I might have been able to play Perez de Cuellar or Kofi Annan, and avoid a major diplomatic incident getting out of hand, but sadly I wasn't.

can't find it, I meant.

dude, it was SS's thread about finding her husband's porn in the children's bathroom where this all started

sad is all the gossiping,she said/i said.gripes shouldnt be enacted across mn

take up with mnhq

genuinely if one feels aggrieved,stalked,put out then dont traipse it across mn for mass delectation and speculation

compose facts (and self) contact mnhq

Fellatio - I disagree with you and think there was no need whatsoever for your friend to pm PP about things from her past. So what if she has noticed inconsistencies in her postings, or whatever it was she pm'd her about?

If she felt unable to say anything directly on a thread, then that means she felt a certain sense of restraint. I think she should have taken that sense of restraint a little further and just left it, even if she felt aggrieved by PP or wanted (for whatever reason) to prove her wrong.

I have seen the PMs and I agree with MmeLindt. They were harsh but fair under the circumstances of some shared history between PP and ALG that I won't go into. ALG could have dragged that onto the forum but she didn't - in spite of taking some crap from Posie on the Twitter/Porn thread. She doesn't mince her words - we know that, but she did not threaten her and they were not stalkerish. I'm going to sleep now.

Bluddy hell grow a pair!..someone PMs you and you get bent out of shape?...sad bastards on both sides

maybe she didn't think she had anything to apologise for
lots of threads have been tweeted about facebooked im'd

perhaps she felt this was all a storm in a wine glass
or should have been

maybe she felt that the women on here who loudly hate the use of porn(of which I am one btw) are all frigid uptight bitches (but was not referencing FGM)

perhaps she carried on the argument with posie and posie took it very personally
(but was not stalking her and is appalled to be thought of as such)
i dunno but I do know that we have allowed worse things on here imo

anyway maybe we should all just calm down

MaryZ - I agree with you too.

passive aggressive bullying by op.facilitate others to berate her alleged attacker.a whole thread about alleged maligned op

take it to mnhq.let them figure it an decide

sad...eat bickies

No Bibbity it was not about perceived inconsistencies in facts as such, but I can't say more - sorry.

a PM is a PM...now it's been made public...

Christ on a stick what a load of fuss over nowt.