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to question the sanity of those who worship Kurt Cobain/Nirvana?

295 replies

SequinsAndSparkles · 18/02/2011 13:00

I must be missing something.

But why is Kurt Cobain such an 'icon'? Why do people think Nirvana are brilliant?

To me, it sounds like depressing nonsense, and I cannot understand what anybody gets from it. And it appears that some people worship Kurt Cobain. What is there about him to worship? From what I can tell, he was a bit rubbish!

But maybe i just don't 'get' it. I have however just been spoken to very rudely by my aunty when I said that the best thing to come out of Nirvana was Dave Grohl forming the Foo Fighters.

OP posts:
Ormirian · 18/02/2011 19:26

Why are so many songs now about flaunting tits and arse and being hot and stuff. It's so fucking boring!

Ormirian · 18/02/2011 19:29
NinthWave · 18/02/2011 19:30

Kittychat but what about the Babooshka video!

redpanda13 · 18/02/2011 19:34

The feeling I get when I turn up the volume for the intro to How Soon is Now is as far from depression as it is possible to be!

southeastastra · 18/02/2011 19:34

i agree with you ormirian but hoping this government will bring out a passion of some sort, if not then i will be depressed

mozette · 18/02/2011 19:40

I am always amazed when people say "The Smiths are depressing" when they are far from it

southeastastra · 18/02/2011 19:44

my mum moaned when i played the smiths - she hated morrissey's voice

AmazingBouncingFerret · 18/02/2011 19:46

OP, I wouldnt say it was an age thing. You basically have a different taste in music. You and many millions of people out there much prefer RNB and the like (no idea why though ) But many millions also prefer something on the heavier side.

Neither is right or wrong. It's whatever floats your boat isnt it?

PigValentine · 18/02/2011 21:17

I love Pulp lyrics, and also the stern and inexplicable instruction in the sleeve notes; "please do not read the lyrics while listening to the recordings"

If you like songs about sex, OP, you can do worse than Pulp!

harpsichordcarrier · 18/02/2011 21:18

I am seeing Pulp in the summer!

mozette · 18/02/2011 21:21
I was there and they ROCKED!
harpsichordcarrier · 18/02/2011 21:22

I saw that performance on the tv at Christmas and it was AMAZING
Envy

mozette · 18/02/2011 21:24

One of the highlights of my 20's :)

harpsichordcarrier · 18/02/2011 21:26

yeah, I bet
I spent my 20s working working working
Sad

PigValentine · 18/02/2011 21:27

mozette DH was there! We were 16, I wasn't allowed to go, because I had a GCSE on the Friday Angry

harpsichordcarrier me too! At Wireless Grin Grin

Feenie · 18/02/2011 21:33

imum, I saw Andrew Eldritch at The Sisters 30th Birthday party gig at Leeds Poly last night. It was brilliant!

Smile
Morloth · 18/02/2011 21:41

OMG are you saying that people of different generations like different music?! Wow! I never new that!

Personally I think Rhianna needs to talk to whoever it us who is responsible for the atrocities she wears/sings.

My current fav is 30 Seconds to Mars but I will listen to pretty much everything from Metallica to Crowded House and really have a soft spot for Avril Lavigne, now there is a talented female artist who doesn't need to get her tits out for attention, unlike Rhianna.

Does liking Avril mean I am old or young now?

Aseaandthreestars · 18/02/2011 21:43

Ooh, Pink Glove! Someone put that on a mix tape for me, haven't heard it in years (lost the tape ages ago) ( still have friend).

lockets · 18/02/2011 21:56

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Normantebbit · 18/02/2011 22:14

Sorry

Isle of Wight

mumsgotatum · 18/02/2011 22:18

I like Nirvana, their album 'Nevermind' was brilliant, but think Kurt Cobain was a self-obsessed and selfish man, no matter how many demons he was fighting, or his addictions. he took his own life and left his daughter behind

harpsichordcarrier · 18/02/2011 22:21

wotcha lockets

TondelayoSchwarzkopf · 18/02/2011 22:22

I'm probably over-thinking this but commercial pap sung by producers' puppets is ultimately more depressing because it's so disposable and the artist who performs it usually has such a short career - and one that doesn't tend to end happily - that any pleasure you get from listening to the song is transitory. I love a bit of cheesy pop but I can't listen to Hit Me Baby One More Time without getting a bit sad about Britney. A better and even sadder example would be Milli Vanilli perhaps.

If an artist has set the agenda for their work and managed it with integrity and direction - then no matter what their personal failings were and how their lives panned out, there is a richer experience and pleasure to be had.

I was not a fan of the Doors but in When You're Strange, Jim Morrison's dad (who Jim HATED) said something about his son having a unique talent that he expressed without compromise. That bit really moved me - that he recognised for all the many faults of JM - he did give everything to his music and art and that would endure far beyond his death.

harpsichordcarrier · 18/02/2011 22:25

Yes, beautifully put Tondy
Do you mind me calling you that?
You talk a lot of sense but your name is too long Grin

TondelayoSchwarzkopf · 18/02/2011 22:29

I think that's a bit rich coming from someone with a full SIX syllables. Grin

But yes.

I'm a bit upset no-one calls me it IRL.