AIBU?
My MIL seems to assume that she can invite herself to my dd's birthdays without caring for what we have planned.
She asks my 6 and 3 yr old dd's if they would like her to come rather than asking my dh and I what we have planned and whether it would be ok.
My 3yr dd is having her party at the weekend, her actual bday is in the week and I would like this to be family time for the 4 of us but my MIL has effectively invited herself.
AIBU to want to spend my dd's actual birthday without extended family?