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To think that resources are being wasted on underserving scrubbers

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rezbites · 20/01/2011 10:12

It makes me very angry to think that deserving parents, like Riven and her partner, are being denied the help the help they so clearly need when there are others in our society who are bleeding the system dry and giving nothing back. Please let me explain what I mean.

Where I live (and in other parts of the country too, I'm sure) there is a certain "underclass" of young women - you know the ones I mean - little scrubbers who clearly model themselves on Vicky Pollard - who are provided with everything by the State. They have not suffered abandonment, divorce or bereavement. They have not been made redundant or struggled to find a job - they have never tried to get one. They have chosen to become single mothers, straightout of school in many cases, so that they qualify for social housing and benefits to live on, claiming that they cannot work because they have a child. They think the world owes them a living and it is their right to claim all these things. I do not mean to suggest that they are typical of single parents or council tenants generally because I know that they are not. They are a feckless, but very visible, minority.

Why should the country waste resouces on these selfish, irresponsible deadbeats who have chosen that lifestyle, at the expense of people in genuine need of help - the disabled, the vulnerable and those who through no fault of their own have ended up in very difficult circumstances?

OP posts:
ILoveItWhenYouCallMeBoo · 20/01/2011 15:19

loveitalia, this is a looong thread and i have no idea what post you are talking about. there has been a lot of shite on here today. can you clarify please?

DameShirleyKnot · 20/01/2011 15:20
VinegarTits · 20/01/2011 15:21

at 'didnt think MN would allow that language, but thats for another day' Grin

do only the uneducated swear? best give back my degree then Grin

Hullygully · 20/01/2011 15:21

Oh good, that's all right then.

Loveitalia · 20/01/2011 15:24

It was to do with post on previous page. I think it was aimed at me anyway. Never mind. Ttfn

OldMumsy · 20/01/2011 15:26

I wouldn't give a toss about them except they expect me to pay for their chosen lifestyle. At that point I feel I am entitled to disapprove, and I do. And you can stuff your Biscuits I don't really care if you disapprove of my disapproval.

ILoveItWhenYouCallMeBoo · 20/01/2011 15:27

which post and I'll let you know if you are right in hoisting your cleavage?

Anniegetyourgun · 20/01/2011 15:27

Educated people swear better, because we can spell it properly. See: fukc

Loveitalia · 20/01/2011 15:27

Give me a break you lot. We all swear at some point but I think it just looks bad. Sorry for joining in!

ILoveItWhenYouCallMeBoo · 20/01/2011 15:28

oh yes, that was aimed at you. hoist away!

Hullygully · 20/01/2011 15:28

For all those that object to paying for this luxurious hand-out lifestyle, just imagine that your liberal amounts of tax are going on military hardware to bomb the shit out of Iraq and Afghanistan and let those of us with bleeding hearts imagine our taxes helping the needy.

Mishy1234 · 20/01/2011 15:30

The fact of the matter is that the result of these "scrubbers" getting pregnant are children who shouldn't have to suffer for the actions of their parents.

These children have a pretty rough start as it is, even with the provision from the state. In order to break the cycle, we need to be putting more effort into supporting these families, not less. If we don't, the cycle will just continue.

lifeinlimbo · 20/01/2011 15:31

'chosen' in what way, OldMu?

I never used to swear but on this thread its too much fun! ..

ThePosieParker · 20/01/2011 15:31

How much do benefits cost us? Because that money is 99% very needed, unlike the £15 billion we'll (tax payer) give to the fucking bankers.

mumsgotatum · 20/01/2011 15:32

Do you read the Daily Mail

lifeinlimbo · 20/01/2011 15:35

Yeh, the fuckin bankers! Robbing this country blind! And the F'in Tories who then gave them a f'in TAX BREAK for it!

lifeinlimbo · 20/01/2011 15:36
  • sorry that should be Robbin'
theywillgrowup · 20/01/2011 15:36

FFS does a day ever go past without one of these threads

ThePosieParker · 20/01/2011 15:37

OldMumsy Thu 20-Jan-11 15:26:52
I wouldn't give a toss about them except they expect me to pay for their chosen lifestyle. At that point I feel I am entitled to disapprove, and I do. And you can stuff your s I don't really care if you disapprove of my disapproval.

There's not really anything Mumsy about you and so I take it you're just old. Whilst you cast your eyes downward at the scrubbers, just remember we're all just a decision or disaster away from benefits ourselves. These young girls accept feckless twatty boys who use and abuse them because that's what they've witnessed their whole lives. Have some compassion. Besides soem of these young women make amazing parents, unlike some of the middle class overly precious painful women I mix with a playgroup.

ReclaimingMyInnerPeachy · 20/01/2011 15:41

I sowre on this thread

It is a joy of Mn that the right to swear has been fought over and won many times in the history of it.

I am uneducated, I don;t finish the taught element of my MA until may, sorry about that!.

I'd rather have a bleeding ehart than a bitter one that shouts what about me every time. In fact I pretty much got employed for having a bleeding heart and plan to do the same working for myself.

I'm 37, I;ve faced down every kind of shit bar bereavement (thank you Lord) and I am not going to start disliking the very things I value in myself just because of a thread on MN I read whilst I wait for ds4's biscuits to bake.

Chil1234 · 20/01/2011 15:43

I wish to make a complaint. I am an undeserving scrubber but I qualify for no resources. Shall be marching on parliament in my pyjamas and fluffy high-heel mules.

ReclaimingMyInnerPeachy · 20/01/2011 15:44

Oh and a final thought before I go blow my diet:

this country got so able to help by capitalist means.

Capitalism requires a pool of very poor people ready to take on the shit work for a pittance at all times.

The benefit system is a way of ensuriong these people neitehr starve nor revolt; begrudging it whilst we benefit from the poils of capitalism shows severe lack of self awareness.

IMO

GooseFatRoasties · 20/01/2011 15:55

ROFL at chil1234

Would you like one of my state subsidised ciggies chil?

ReclaimingMyInnerPeachy · 20/01/2011 15:59

Is scrubber here defined as someone who ahd a lot of sex as a teen?

If it is then i hold up my hands ( smiles at memories and looks at aging Dh with sadness ) but am I therefore a deserving scrubber?

Just wondering.

Whilst I am not sure DH is up to it I would quite like a lot more sex too if that counts? Although only with him (unless he dies in whcih case - after grieving- wahey)

(poor Dh, he's only 40 in march LOL)

Chil1234 · 20/01/2011 16:00

@GooseFatRoasties... got me roll-ups luv, ta everso.