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To not really care what other people earn, how big their houses are and whether or not they send their children to private schools or down mines?

76 replies

BitOfFun · 17/01/2011 18:39

It's all getting a bit much on here- every other thread seems to be whinging about other people's financal situation, whether it be on benefits or high wages. Is this just what happens in a recession? Or is it shiny Dave?

Whatever it is, may I just announce: do what you like with your money, I Do Not Need To Know, Nor Do I Care.

Ah, that feels better.

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traceybath · 17/01/2011 18:40

I'm so with you Smile

LaurieFairyonthetreeEatsCake · 17/01/2011 18:41

yanbu

but it's because the gap between rich and poor has never been greater

and there's greater anxiety and pressure

valiumredhead · 17/01/2011 18:41

And me :)

DarrellRivers · 17/01/2011 18:42

Hear hear
Some things, like at dinner parties should be avoided on MN
Your income, is one of those I reckon

Honeybee79 · 17/01/2011 18:42

Yanbu

ILovedYou · 17/01/2011 18:42

Count me in..

TanteAC · 17/01/2011 18:43

Oh no, BoF, I love it because I am so nosy. Am trying to come up with a way to get them all to start linking to photos of their houses, their ocado/asda shopping lists, and their childrens' various certificates.

Love lurking with the boasters and competitors! Grin

maddy68 · 17/01/2011 18:43

me too - I dont give a rats ass!

valleyqueen · 17/01/2011 18:43

Yep me to as long as kids are happy, healthy and loved I am happy. of course I hate to see people struggling but wouldn't slate them for it. YANBU

southeastastra · 17/01/2011 18:43

blimey mn would cease to be if people stopped talking about money/houses/schools.

it's always been the case on here

TheFallenMadonna · 17/01/2011 18:44

I care a lot about whether people send their children to private school. The other stuff - not so much.

claricebeansmum · 17/01/2011 18:44

Absolutely.
I don't care in RL or on MN but those who do judge me based on what they think I earn etc drive me mad.

sobloodystupid · 17/01/2011 18:44

Totally with TanteAC. My standards are so far short of others, no nanny, no hols, no ponies . Still, I like knowing who's rich and who's not. Grin

JemimaMop · 17/01/2011 18:45

Mines? We are too poor to have mines. We just dig holes in the ground and pretend that they are mines in order to send them down. We used to pretend to send them up chimneys, but as we are too poor to have a house it was difficult.

AstronomyDomine · 17/01/2011 18:45

Nope - couldn't care less either BoF Grin

NinkyNonker · 17/01/2011 18:48

Yanbu. Though I might raise an eyebrow in the mine scenario!

Pheebe · 17/01/2011 18:49

YANBU

The "The gap between rich and poor has never been greater" comment really had me rolling in the aisles. Sorry Laurie, but really Confused

usualsuspect · 17/01/2011 18:49

can I add, I don't give a fuck what class anyone is either

DarrellRivers · 17/01/2011 18:49

And yes, I am nosey, but I can never remember who is rich and who is poor
[self-flagellates]

Itsjustafleshwound · 17/01/2011 18:49

YANBU

Coming from another country, I find the British fixation with class and money alien .... there will always be those earning less than you and those earning more than you. Poverty and being financially pinched is a subjective thing and the less said the better ..

KatieScarlett2833 · 17/01/2011 18:49

We lick road wit' tongue JemimaMop

Pheebe · 17/01/2011 18:49

jemima Grin

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bibbitybobbityhat · 17/01/2011 18:57

Oh I love knowing all those things Blush but then I am horrendously nosey. I do agree there's been a terrible rash of them lately though.

I am not interested in what people earn but I love love love looking at other people's houses - more so than their children or dogs tbh!

I absolutely want to know who chooses private school over state, tis of great interest to me that one.