Ok stuffing,we all get the point, but we are entitled to disagree so stop calling everyone mundane because they don't enjoy your sex life.
And, while you are in your foursome, and you turn to the guy who wants to join in and tell him you are not invited, now sod off - what does that do for his self esteem then? And how do you stop him just standing there staring at you? Or do you somehow then feel uncomfortable and threatened? And if he persists on watching you? Do you flounce out with the condom between your legs and complain to a bouncer on the door in a bow tie making the whole evening rather mechanical? We aren't animals, I didn't conceive my son because my husband broke free from the herd, bit me on the neck, pounded me and then went off to eat a half dead gazelle....we are supposed to be cognitive individuals.
Does the uninvitee get thrown on to the street with his clothes in a bin bag? How does it stop getting nasty? How do you stop people you don't want involved from standing there masturbating over you and looking up your box watching you? How do you stop them commenting on your personal self? What does it do to your self esteem if you sit there all night not making a connection? Does someone feel sorry for you and ask you to join for a mercy fuck? How do you feel knowing that your hole is just a goal to some people? Anyhow I don't think anyone on here is complaining about the choice of group sex if you are single and free of commitment.
If sex isn't intimate in a marriage, why do so many people feel cheated when someone had sex with another person? If it was as mundane was washing the car, as you make it out to be amongst marrieds, then we'd be jealous if our partners agreed to wash someone elses car on a Sunday?
What if you had ended up with a disease whilst pregnant after having sex with that couple? Would you have felt guilty or blasé?
All I see is you repeating the same line over and over, "you are all mundane, what people do is there own choice, you could meet a bloke tomorrow and he could be a cheating disease carrying twunt." yes yes, but it smacks of a little bit of jealousy and loneliness and lack of self respect if you ask me.
And of course you will all come on here and say, yep I'll tell my kid that when I carried him/ her I went to have sex with a stranger because he got off on it and I would be happy for you to get gang banged every which way when you are 16, because it is you choice, but in reality, I bet you wouldn't say that.