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To prefer well groomed people to scruffs?

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skankyVswish · 08/01/2011 21:44

So, a friend and I were discussing over lunch today how we felt about meeting others that were perhaps less groomed than us.

Where I work, I have to deal with people that perhaps are not the cleanest or look like they have just rolled out of bed and have not even and wash - basic hygiene costs nothing. It makes me go bleugh.

Does this sort of thing bother you or am I being over sensitive?

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RumourOfAHurricane · 08/01/2011 21:53

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BitOfFun · 08/01/2011 21:57

Maybe they have just got out of bed, you know. Unbrushed hair doesn't bother me, but smelliness isn't nice.

AnyFuleKno · 08/01/2011 21:57

it doesn't bother me in the slightest as long as they don't actively stink

I think it's a rather unimaginative and boring point of view tbh

skankyVswish · 08/01/2011 22:00

Shiney, a bit over ripe and skanky!!

AnyF, sorry I could't think of anything imaginative, but you didn't have to post...

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Stase · 08/01/2011 22:03

I am suspicious of well-groomed people Wink

LoopyLoopsIsNoLongerFestive · 08/01/2011 22:04

Me too Stase, too well-groomed and I tend to dislike them immediately.

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CalamityKate · 08/01/2011 22:06

I couldn't give a hoot unless someone actually smells BO-ey.

I tend towards the slobby myself.

flyingvisit · 08/01/2011 22:06

What about not so well groomed but clean?

Hullygully · 08/01/2011 22:07

I admire the well-groomed because they can be bothered.

I admire the scruffs because they don't feel the need.

skankyVswish · 08/01/2011 22:08

I knew you would be well groomed Shiney, I just knew! Grin

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Stase · 08/01/2011 22:08

I am especially suspicious of well-groomed people who dishevel their hair and wear ready-distressed clothes and footwear. Smile

FabbyChic · 08/01/2011 22:08

What constitutes a scruff please?

If Im only popping to asda quickly I throw my coat on over whatever I am wearing, I brush my hair and teeth and go.

If I am going somewhere specific I put on decent clothes, do my make up.

If I don't need to tart up I don't.

I dress and feel comfortable for me not for others.

I been there and done that, past it all.

Gay40 · 08/01/2011 22:08

I don't like too well-groomed people...they generally turn out to be quite superficial and judgemental.
By scruffs, do you mean dirty, or that studenty look?

TrillianAstra · 08/01/2011 22:10

Be careful making friends with Shiney - we're all a bunch of cunts with barely one brain between us apparently Wink

mutznutz · 08/01/2011 22:12

As others have said...'scruffy' (whatever that is) is fine...smelly is a real no-no.

Mind you one persons 'well groomed' can be another persons OTT and over dressed for every occasion.

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skankyVswish · 08/01/2011 22:12

Flabby & Gay - people that don't use even the basics of hygiene.

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skankyVswish · 08/01/2011 22:14

I have GHD's too Shiney and a Chanel nail varnish.

Fabby - sorry Blush stupid iPad...

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BitOfFun · 08/01/2011 22:14

that's a bit harsh Hmm

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WimpleOfTheBallet · 08/01/2011 22:16

You could put me in Dior and have the best hairdresser in the world do my hair and I would still look like a scruffy hippy. Can't help it.

[Pig Pen emoticon]

BitOfFun · 08/01/2011 22:16

Oh, I thought you were calling Scruggs flabby and gay. I hate gay being used as an insult.

BitOfFun · 08/01/2011 22:17

Scruffs, sorry Blush

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