In answer to the op. Yes sometimes I am being scared. It's not as simple as Seeker makes out.
Quite a while back there was a thread on mn and on it I found out that people find it offensive to call a child a monkey. I hadn't even considered it as an all inclusive thing before more that some people would find it hurtful as it could be used as an insult.
Roll on more recently. I was about to label a photo of my prem dd with something to do with a monkey. The reason being she looked like a baby rhesus monkey when she was born. Then I remembered that thread and thought twice.
In the end I ended up posting on mn asking if it really would offend as much as I had found out on that original thread. (turns out not but that's by the by).
Some people who posted on the first thread may be the kind who would read my label and think I was racist. Others may have read my thread and thought fancy having to ask but I truly didn't want to offend so wanted to get it right.
The threads probably moved on loads while I typed that