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to be getting fed up with people who want to change MN to be more like other sites?

78 replies

Sickofsquashingfrogs · 01/11/2010 20:13

So far in the last few months there have been a number of requests for changes that would make mn more like other sites and less like mn

This is mn:
No tickers
No signing off
no like/dislike button etc

If you make all the changes that have been suggested then mn wouldnt be mn. it would lose part of the ruggardness about it. it would become threads of like/dislike but no real discussion.

eg AIBU: like 21 dislike 12. less effort needed to post, less likely that people in a hurry would bother to make the effort.

PLease few free to enjoy the site but try no to change the mn esscence. simple to the point no fancy ability to connect with thousands of witty smart women and the brave men folk amongst us. Who are more then capable of making their feelings know without tweeness and all singing dancing buttons.

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tandytowers · 01/11/2010 20:16

YANBU where's the like button? btw Grin

WhyHavePets · 01/11/2010 20:16
Hmm

But MN changes all the time, towers looks at suggestions and takes on some and not others - things like topics, local, option for classic and so on have all been suggestions from posters.

I agree that tickers etc are awful and I, personally, would hate them but that doesn't mean people can't suggest it!

Sickofsquashingfrogs · 01/11/2010 20:19

facebook only atm as far as I can see. I hope it stays there.

I think want grates a bit is a lot of the people making the suggestion when they are fairly new to the site and havent had chance to full adjust and appreciate the beautiful simplicity of the site.

Some changes make sense. Changing the site just to make it more like other sites doesnt.

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tethersend · 01/11/2010 20:20

53 seconds since I put on judgypants*

89 seconds since I called someone a cunt*

SuePurblybilt · 01/11/2010 20:22

Nobody seriously wants tickers do they? Or "like" buttons. Nooooooooooooo.

Sickofsquashingfrogs · 01/11/2010 20:24

There is another thread asking for them today. Not the first, wont be the last.

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SuePurblybilt · 01/11/2010 20:26

Off to inspect Grin

WhyHavePets · 01/11/2010 20:27

But new posters are the old posters of the future...
MN is pretty unusual in its appearence, people tend to like what they are used to so it is to be expected that new posters will have their own ideas.

What is wrong with a discussion about new ideas - from new or old posters?

I do understand insofar as things like tickers have been asked for over and again by newish posters however there are also some really good ideas that come out of those discussions. If it helps though I have seen old posters defending the lack of tickers who had posted in support of them in their early times!

scaleymcnamechange · 01/11/2010 20:29

Yanbu.

They can fuck the fuck off with their suggestions.

1percentawake · 01/11/2010 20:29

YANBU - all those changes are unnecessary IMO. Please don't make it more like FB

SuePurblybilt · 01/11/2010 20:31

I see the like/dislike threads - agree it's not a good plan.
I couldn't see a ticker one, maybe for the best as it would make me hoick the judgypants again.
The only thing I want to add to MN is a vom emoticon. And possibly an Oooogetyoumissus one.

ThighsBurntOnABigRocket · 01/11/2010 20:39

* 9 minutes since telling them to fuckoff

tethersend · 01/11/2010 20:42

3 minutes since I disagreed with tickers***

mumbar · 01/11/2010 20:46

whats a ticker??

whats signing off - surely if you log out its the same??

How do you 'like' a question?? AIBU think dp was a twunt?? like Hmm Yep that helps Wink

I think making suggestions is fine improving things is not a problem but I do think that being too similar to other sites will take away mn uniquness.

BTW, I 'like' the vom emotion suggestion Grin

SuePurblybilt · 01/11/2010 20:47

YY, everyone wants a vom. I may start a thread.
Like buttons will make me vom certainly.

WhyHavePets · 01/11/2010 20:55

I think cats bum face emoticon would be better!

Sickofsquashingfrogs · 01/11/2010 20:55

Mumbar - thethersend's post above yours holds what i undeerstand a ticker to be. I havent been able to bear the darkside long enough to investigate properally.

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AnnieLobeseder · 01/11/2010 20:57

I do like the idea of an YABU button!!

Hullygully · 01/11/2010 20:57

I simply cannot give my name to this.

Mumcentreplus · 01/11/2010 21:02

I agree we need a vom emo and I suggest a emo too Wink

mumbar · 01/11/2010 21:05

thanks sickoffrogs. Can you imagine it

1 minute since I last said YABU***

WTF???

No, sorry don't think I like that idea. Like th 'vom emotion' and the cat-bum one. Warming to annies idea of YABU butoon too. Grin

FlamingMagnaFlow · 01/11/2010 21:06

YANBU and thats from a newbie. No No No to tickers but YES please to a vom emoticon.

Anniegetyourgun · 01/11/2010 21:12

I want an evil emoticon. A little devil type smiley. It's the only thing I really feel the need for on a regular basis. Probably because I am evil.

Happy to vote for the vom also. Don't need the YABU as it really doesn't take that long to type four letters.

Mumcentreplus · 01/11/2010 21:17

ooh yess Annie and an angel one with a halo ..us good ones Wink

Anniegetyourgun · 01/11/2010 21:32

Lovely idea, Mumcentreplus, but how often would a virtuous emoticon really be useful on here - other than ironically of course?