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AIBU to go and stick up for my little sister?

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thebrightside · 25/09/2010 20:45

My younger sister, (just turned 18) babysits for a family with 3 kids aged 3, 6 and 9. She's been doing this for 2 years. Middle boy has epilepsy, can have fits during the night, but it is rare.

AShe charges £5 an hour, pretty reasonable! It's all unofficial, no contract/agencies involved.

They're a bit tight about money,although being pretty well off, but are generally quite a nice family who relied on and trusted my sister a lot.

Anyway, she sat for them last night. Expected them to be back at about midnight but was left till 4.30am. Rung them 3 times, each time they said they were on their way.

She fell asleep on the sofa at about 3.30 she reckons. She's never done this before and was cross at herself for it, but bloody hell anyone would struggle to stay awake at that time. They arrived home and found her asleep.

The Dad had had a few and shouted at her calling her 'negligent, useless etc,' and refused to pay her for the whole night, (nearly 10 hours - so should have been £50)

She's mortified, it's completely knocked her confidence. I'm furious at them.

I understand, especially with having an epileptic child, you want the sitter to be alert and responsible. BUT parents were 4 and a 1/2 hours late. They know she wasn't asleep for long as she had rung them at 1.30, 2.30 and 3 am. They sleep through the night when they're at home.

So are there any reasons that I shouldn't go round and demand her money back? £50 is a lot for an 18 year old.

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jabberwocky · 26/09/2010 23:12

Well done, brightside. I've been lurking and hoped you would take the matter in hand precisely as you did.

Cannot believe the nerve of some people to treat others that way! At least this is one time they didn't get away with it.

mumeeee · 26/09/2010 23:31

Well done for getting your sister her money.
I work with young people with learning disabilities in supported lib=ving. One of them has epilepsy and I'm not espected to stay up all night when I doaslep in. Her bedroom is actually downstairs and the sleep in room is upstairs,

aurynne · 27/09/2010 01:51

Congratulations for getting your sis' money! And yes, the cheek of them, assuming she would be back to babysit for them Angry

Please let your sister read this thread, so she knows all the support she has. I would hate for her to be feeling guilty. She must be an amazing, responsible 18-year-old, able to take care of 3 children for a whole evening!

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