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AIBU?

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to believe that sex addiction is all just a load of bollocks?

232 replies

mrsmindcontrol · 23/09/2010 21:30

Don't know if anyone saw this interview on This Morning earlier this week.
Woman claims to be a sex addict and has slept with 1000's of men. Is married and her husband is aware of situation; even waiting in wine bars while she takes men home for a shag.

Her 42nd birthday present to herself was to sleep with 42 different men. Including all members of a stag party. At once.

AIBU in thinking this is all just a load of old bollocks? The woman is a slag, plain and simple. Surely if she was addicted to sex, she could just have lots and lots of sex with her husband. Why is there a need to sleep with so many men?

OP posts:
Heracles · 24/09/2010 12:15

"Why get married in the first instance if you can't live without sex with others?"

Maybe she gets cold feet during the night...? Wink

OrmRenewed · 24/09/2010 12:16

I wonder what a conversation over coffee with her would be like

cupcakesandbunting · 24/09/2010 12:17

Very one-sided I would imagine, OrmRenewed.

RageAgainstTheTeen · 24/09/2010 12:18

Heracles

Should think it was quite drafty in her bed Grin

Oblomov · 24/09/2010 12:20

Agree with Rage, never ceases to amaze me some of the twaty reasons people have for getting married:
will make our crap relationship better;
so i can hide my sexuality in pretense;
general denial
etc etc

staggering really.

Heracles · 24/09/2010 12:20

"Lots of people work on assumption."

And it's always dangerous to do so when making summary judgement.

"It would be naive to say that people only ever work on hard facts."

Which is why it is the wise person who hold their council until all possible results are in.

"One can assume something and be fairly accurate, you know?"

And yet one can also be way out due to only missing one tiny piece of evidence. Reasonable doubt is a powerful tool...

"I am assuming that out of a party of 42 men not all of them were single but go on, think about it honestly, and the laws of probability will tell you that they weren't all single."

The laws of probability that you can't get 42 single men in a room? I'd say that was very easy. Or that you won't find 42 men all screwing the same woman are single? Well, I confess I'm not sure I have a sample base large enough to make any assumption about that at all. Perhaps you have more experience with huge gang-bangs or are party to a body of research I'm not familiar with...?

vanillacupcakes · 24/09/2010 12:21

OrmRenewed - LOL yes me too

Heracles · 24/09/2010 12:22

"Should think it was quite drafty in her bed"

Oh for sure. Have you ever tried sharing a duvet with 43 other people? The laws of probability say at least 5 will be duvet hogs, am I right cupcakes...?

vanillacupcakes · 24/09/2010 12:23

"margarine legs" perturbs me greatly

Heracles · 24/09/2010 12:24

You're more of a real butter kind of girl then...? Smile

cupcakesandbunting · 24/09/2010 12:24

The laws of probability that you can't get 42 single men in a room? I'd say that was very easy. Or that you won't find 42 men all screwing the same woman are single? Well, I confess I'm not sure I have a sample base large enough to make any assumption about that at all. Perhaps you have more experience with huge gang-bangs or are party to a body of research I'm not familiar with...?

Oh piss off....

RageAgainstTheTeen · 24/09/2010 12:25

Anyone interested in reading her blog?

I snooped it out..

www.pimpachimp.blogspot.com

SkylineDrifter · 24/09/2010 12:25

I don't want to get into whether this woman is or isn't a slag, whether she is or isn't a sex addict, etc, but I have to admit I'm totally shocked that she felt able to bleat about her life on national tv and admit that her mother and father will find out about her lifestyle in this way. What a nasty piece of work she is.

RageAgainstTheTeen · 24/09/2010 12:29

Well by reading a tiny amount of her blog,seem like she lied on ThisMorning.

Her husband joins in with the 'fun'

So, they are swingers,big fucking news!Hmm.

clam · 24/09/2010 12:31

Not only her parents. Has it ever been said if she has children? If so, that'll be nice for them on the playground.

ChickensHaveNoEyebrows · 24/09/2010 12:31

Lol at MN debating the term 'slag', when the blog is entitled 'pimpachimp' Grin

Heracles · 24/09/2010 12:32

Crikey, a classic bobfoc right there.

2shoes · 24/09/2010 12:33

I can't imaging 42 blokes would want to shag the same woman.......yuck
I assume she will pay them

cupcakesandbunting · 24/09/2010 12:33

Am reading her blog now. She is repulsive. She is not an addict, she is an attention-seeker. She is proud of what she does. Her little stint on This Morning probably served as a kind of advertisement feature for her.

Bleugh.

cupcakesandbunting · 24/09/2010 12:34

Bobfoc?

Naughty step for you, Heracles.

RageAgainstTheTeen · 24/09/2010 12:36

she also mentions that she is a 'private escort'.

ITV researchers didn't do their job then.

Heracles · 24/09/2010 12:36

Just the facts ma'am, just the facts... Wink

ChickensHaveNoEyebrows · 24/09/2010 12:37

What's a bobfoc?

cupcakesandbunting · 24/09/2010 12:37
Grin

Turns out I was right though. She does seem a bit slaggy...

Heracles · 24/09/2010 12:38
Grin