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"If you have no job, long-term, shut your legs/keep your peter in your pants. Simple, really."
What about the profound psychological need to have a child? I can be logical right now and put off ttc, although it takes willpower. If I had no job and no prospects of finding one, the idea of having something warm and my own to nurture is a pretty powerful one. I mean, that's fact, it's visible all over the world. You can't change it, even though obviously it's a problem. And when you can't change something, you look at ways of making the situation easier, ie benefits. It doesn't hurt you or I, so leave them be. Tories have an ideological hate of poor people and their motivations, but we're better than Tories on MNet, we can be logical rather than knee-jerk.
There really isn't any point in being judgey about less well-off families IMO, it's like judging overweight people and saying 'well, just eat less, fatty!'