AIBU to think that childfree living forum is sick!!!

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but the language used on this site is just shocking! if you all got such a perfect , selfulfilling life, why are you wasting it by ranting on this forum, even more..wasting time looking through mums forums to show off how negative parent?s life is. This is just pathetic!!!! You show such a strange hatred to mums and whole idea of parenthood, and created new concepts and meanings around this hate. This looks almost like hitlero style site. I cannot comprehend how can you be so spiteful and why to women that choose to have children, although you are yourself children of mothers that are just the same as the ones that you attacking. Moos.....baybee....that is so childish and sick! And i think you all like little never- to ? grow up children, and that?s why having kids scares you so much. This forum could be a perfect source of perfect psychology PhD thesis.....
sick ideology of never milked cows...mooooooooooo!!!!!!!

They are bitter and twisted because they've got such fucking ugly personalities they can't can't anyone stupid enough to get them pregnant that's all.

Or they're all 17.

I think they may well be teenagers thinking it's funny. Baby in blender jokes seem to amuse teenagers.

At the moment there are two registered users and 64 guests. Wonder how many guests are "moos" then?

YANBU To claim to celebrate child free living and then have 50 % of the posts being vile about other peoples choices is, well, vile.

What AnyFucker says.

Infact more likely 15.

Chyald ?

What the fuck!

I had no idea people like this existed in the world - I was about to say yabu, people can believe what they want blah blah blah, but then I actually read the site.

People filled with that much anger really do have ishoos...

Now I'm never going to look at that forum again and climb back inside my bubble and pretend it doesn't actually exist.

Their board doesn't accept any new members.

Who really cares what these dafties think. Ignore it and please God don't give them the satisfaction of linking to their comments - particularly if they are being rude and offensive about individuals on mumsnet. Let them get on with - this reading other sites then linking and commenting on a different one seems bizarre and in that the OP is as bad as the people on this site.
If it aligns with your outlook on the world read it and join in, if not leave it alone.

You're right GiddyPickle, there is no excuse for that type of language and it almost physically hurt to read what some of these women think when they see me or my child to be in real life.

I chose not to get an iPad but I don't lurk on the Apple website and create threads saying how much I hate iPad users and say vile things like I wish they would be raped by a battery charger or give them dirty looks when they're using them on the train etc. If I genuinely don't want something I just go on with my day and don't think about it and I guess that's how most normal people behave too.

These women, one in particular, aren't well and need help. How can you wish rape one people and call babies those names?

Who cares and why? That's why forums exist, non?

Yabu, stop trawling the Internet for forums you'll find offensive, you'll be there forever.

Leave them to it.

Do they feel like that about their own mothers, I wonder?! Bet they wouldn't say any of those sorts of things to their own family members but say it when they can hide on the internet.

I feel sorry for them.

some people are just horrible

quite sad they have so much vitriol about others,

loads of my friends don't want kids but don't have that anger in them

live and let live

There was an interesting post there complaining about the construction of a skate park in a generally adult park when there's achild friendly park down the road in which one of the users said :

"I think part of the reason I hate so much care, consideration and power being given to children is because I did not have that when I was a child. I did not have the power to decide what happened in my area when I was young."

I think this sums up much of the root cause of the bitterness on that site.

I'm another who thought she couldn't have children and can understand the denial thing, but it just seems really weird to me that anyone would join a forum where all you had in common with the other users was something you didn't have.

the older I get, the sadder I am that there are more horrible people in this world than I realised.
I am actually speechless at the nastiness on this forum.

Agree with Naetha

See it would be easy to just say "they is all jealus barren biatches" as the most obvious reason but in actual fact many of these people are genuinely child-free by choice.

I think it might be a bit to do with being controlled too much in their own childhood.

I have known a couple of people with slightly less extreme views (I think - unless they kept them to themselves) but along the same lines go on to have children as an afterthought (after suddenly meeting the man of their dreams a bit later in life and falling quickly) and they end up making very child centered parents. As a child-free group they are vile, as parents they turn very quickly and dont end up repeating the mistakes of their own upbringing.

That's a bit of a sweeping generalisation and super quick analysis based on a small handful of people so may well be wrong but its an observation I have made and therefore I felt it was relevant to share it.

Sorry but this bit did make me chuckle...

"Tough fucking shit, I'm disabled but I don't feel the need to wear a badge to say so and push it in people's faces all the time. In a few weeks, you'll be able bodied. I won't be. So fuck off you smug bitch and I hope your chuff maggot comes out sideways. "

I love this one though

"Breeder bitch in her Volvo. Came fast out of a road on the right, turning right, dim cunt slowed down to a stop then started up again ramming my husband in his car. She hit him on the side, putting a dent in the back door, damaging the wheel and leaving scratches over that half of the car. His car had right of way and was bloody well in fucking front of her, there's no way she couldn't see him-if she was looking out the farking windscreen. Oh and she had her 'get of jail' card with her, her pweshus little girl. Couldn't be arsed to actually watch the fucking road she was turning on to but too busy paying attention to da holee sprog. Fucking parunts-ban them all from the roads.
Oh the damage is likely to be just under £500 to fix, which is the excess he has so a nice bill for us if cunt face doesn't admit liability. Next time she should just drive into the path of an oncoming train and save everyone the time and trouble of poking up with her and her twat nugget"

Smurk...because only "moos" in volvos can drive badly. Serious, serious issues.

Sorry Dolly, I understand the sentiment behind their post but I'm not seeing the humour in that at all. Anyone who can use language like that about an unborn child just isn't on my radar. But whatever floats your boat.

that was one of the posts that made me feel really disturbed actually

I love the fat that they've got cartoons as profile pics... you know, being so grown up and all.