to think that size DOES matter???

[dogdaze]

in your DH/DP's trouser department...

Suppose it's up to the person in question.
It's all subjective.
As a man there's certain traits in a woman which, if absent, I wouldn't consider being with them so I'm not going to complain about women having their own criteria.

Too big or too small would be a problem for me. I've tried too small. Gave him a blow job and his pubic hair kept getting up my nose.

Too thin AND too long isn't a problem. Just fold it in half before you use it.

another of my exes had a 'button on a fur coat' and that was it really.

But he sure knew how what to do with it.

Draw a happy face on it?

You know though, (not to inject a sense of gravitas or anything) if you love the person, it really does not matter.

Thankfully. MY DH puts up with all sorts with me and my body.

What Mayorquimby said. I think it's the relative sizes of male and female parts (or male, if that's your thing) that matters (because it's the friction generated that helps, no?).

Some women like X size, some like Y size.

Simples.

Yes it matters.
Technique sure, but when you're too tired (and worried about waking a baby) for anthing but a lovely quick vanilla shag, a good fit is vital.

Anything

Doesn't really matter to me. I think I would struggle with an absolutely ENORMOUS or very tiny one, but I really am not fussed about size otherwise (and DH, if you are reading this, yes you are every well endowed ).

I think it's important to put it in perspective, too. They are human parts and not much people can do about what they are given. Would you like a man commenting on the size of your fanny? Probably not much.

I've had a really great time in bed with someone who was very small, because he was just so sexy and erotic in every other way. Then again I've had a crap time with someone else very small because I just didn't fancy him enough to start with, so sleeping with him was a bit of a leap of faith, and discovering the tiny dick was the nail in the coffin (ahem ) for me.

Have only ever experienced those two small ones. And only ever one so large that if I'd have been sober enough I might have actually got up and gone home to moment I clapped eyes on it. It was good, but God did I hurt in the morning. I would find that very hard to live with long term I think.

In my (not too) limited experience most people are nicely average, and inventiveness and an unselfish lover is by far the most important thing.

All depends on how they use it...

Or if they use it.

It does matter I think, in a horses for courses way. I did spend a long time trying to have sex with somebody who, unknown to me (at the time!) had a huge penis. It was not good.

I'm sure he's making somebody else very happy though!

@ TiggyD

Tbh I'm more interested in how good 'he' is with his tongue

Of course it matters. You want a man with a tiny cock. That way you get to borrow his flashy sports car.

seeyoukay that figures... my DH's best friend has (apparently.... ) the World's Biggest Cock and he drove, correspondingly, the World's Most Beat Up Car

Mayorquimby, please spill the beans

Ooh yes MayorQ tell us your criteria, please?

I'm not sure I dare on a womens forum.
It's all well and good you denegrating us small cocked men in the name of light-heartedness. I have a feeling if I return the compliment in cold black and white text there will be little left for the vultures after I've been torn limb from limb.

But we never get any insight into 'what men want in a womwn', so please do tell.

or even what they want in a woman.

YANBU.

Pencil dicks are awful, I have experienced one or two in my time.

Too huge also not good, although better than too small.

DH is very blessed in the trouser department