congratulations and good luck for tomorrow
i knwo you didnt ask for advice but i cant resist...........
remember to learn EVERYTHING about her routine from her foster carers - write it down- and try to follow it as much as possible. unless it conflicts with attachment parenting
once she comes home, only you and DH should hold her and do all the care for her eg bathing, feeding, changing etc. once she is securely attached to you and knows you are her parenst, THEN comes the turn of granny etc
no parties and very few visitors for teh first few months. nice quiet days at home or to the park etc with you and DH. she needs stability and routine. no visits to all your friends to show her off, however tempting. no playgroup or toddler groups for quite a while
if she is still on a bottle then DONT wean her onto a cup, whatever the HV tells you. you must give her the bottle yourself and hold her in your arms, dont let her hold it
remember that parenting a child who has suffered so much loss and trauma is very different from parenting a child who has been with you since minus 9 months. you have nearly two years bonding to catch up on. you may need to ignore well meaning advice from bio parents