Urgent advice needed - think DH wants to give DS back

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DS (14mo) was placed with us 3 weeks ago. He is waking during the night at 2am and then coming in with us - he slept through the night at his foster carers. He whinges when he is put down if you've been holding him. He's very clingy to me but doesn't really want DH yet. DH is constantly telling him "no" because he tries to climb on things he shouldn't etc because, you know, he's 14mo.

All of which I would say is normal behaviour for a 14mo. DH doesn't think so. Says "we can't give him back because then I would be the cunt who denied you your only chance if being a mum". I feel sick. I don't know what to do.

@Haffdonga 🤣

@Actuallyabitgreynow are you the original poster and did you name change part way through too?

If so, well done and all the best.

@Italiangreyhound yes I am, I've name changed a fair few times over the years! DS is now 4.5, absolutely thriving

Brilliant.

Oh my god leave your husband. I feel awful for this little boy 😢

@giantwaterbottle I already did...

And no need to feel sorry for him, he's the happiest, most loved little boy in the world

Sorry I just read the updates, so pleased for you and him 😊

READ THE THREAD BEFORE COMMENTING!!!!!

@Actuallyabitgreynow so glad to hear the update

How’s it going OP? I was on the original

@Yolande7

this is a zombie thread - from 2018

@Ted27 Thanks!

It’s been resurrected by the OP posting an update.

@Nnique

It’s been resurrected by the OP posting an update.

@Nnique It has now been resurrected again by you!

Hehe what a numpty!! I’d missed that OP hadn’t updated again as she’d linked to it on another thread! 😆😆

We are closing this thread now as it was started a while ago (zombie thread).