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Most heartbroken songs ever

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Smallestwomanthateverlived · 11/10/2026 21:06

I'm currently divorcing my husband. I've been strong and angry, but totally I'm just feeling heartbreakingly sad. I've tried some Taylor swift songs but they just aren't sad enough. Anyone got any recommendations for some songs I can just be utterly broken to for an hour before I sick it all back up and crack on. I've currently got hurt by Jonny cash on but it's not quite the vibe I want.

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onyxtulip · 15/10/2026 18:33

Diamonds & Rust - Joan Baez

For the Good Times - Al Green

ThatJadeLion · 15/10/2026 18:38

Motley Crue Dr Feelgood album. Without You is a song that reminds me of awful dark times going through a divorce in 2011 feeling heartbroken. I don't recommend. I think it'd better to listen to music to lifts you even through the hardest times. Time will heal the most.

CoolPlayer · 15/10/2026 18:39

The verve - rather be

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bigvig · 15/10/2026 18:41

Farewell, farewell. - by Fairpoint Convention. Or Your Ghost by Kristin Hersh. They should both come with a warning though as they are so so sad.

Mistysmom · 15/10/2026 18:42

James Blunt/ Celine Dion, Cristiano Leontiou Story of my life, UB40 Red Red Wine, The Streets Dry Your Eyes Mate! Gosh my list goes on. Big Hugs @Smallestwomanthateverlived you will get through this

BarryManilowsWardrobe · 15/10/2026 18:46

I don’t love you by My Chemical Romance
Wake me up by Avicii might fit for you as well.

GrillaMilla · 15/10/2026 18:48

Some older ones for you..

Elton John, Sorry seems to be the hardest word

Air Supply, All out of love

wifty · 15/10/2026 18:53

So late to this but ‘If you’re not the one’ by Daniel Bedingfield (especially the acoustic for a proper cry) sets me off - if you want to sing at full pelt, go for the original!!!

YellowScarfRupert · 15/10/2026 18:54

The smooth voice of Billy Ocean and They’ll be sad songs (to make you cry)

MargaretThursday · 15/10/2026 18:57

Try Red Rubber ball by Simon and Garfunkel
Not sad, but a great song for when you're going through a break up.

Edited to add lyrics:

I should have known you'd bid me farewell
There's a lesson to be learned from this and I learned it very well
Now I know you're not the only starfish in the sea
If I never hear your name again it's all the same to me

[Chorus]
And I think it's gonna be all right
Yeah, the worst is over now
The morning sun is shining like a red rubber ball

[Verse 2]
You never cared for secrets I'd confide
To you I'm just an ornament, something for your pride
Always running, never caring, that's the life you live
Stolen minutes of your time were all you had to give

[Chorus]
And I think it's gonna be all right
Yeah, the worst is over now
The morning sun is shining like a red rubber ball

[Verse 3]
This story's in the past with nothing to recall
I've got my life to live and I don't need you at all
The roller coaster ride we took is nearly at an end
I bought my tickets with my tears, that's all I'm gonna spend

PinkPerpetue · 15/10/2026 18:58

Eric Clapton - Heaven

ETA Also Little Flower by Kylie

thenewaveragebear1983 · 15/10/2026 19:10

Oh gosh, my two absolute weepies at the moment are Into my arms by nick cave, and I will follow you into the dark by death cab for cutie (both found after a thread on here about sad songs/ funeral songs)
i had tears rolling down my cheeks one day last week while walking the dog 😭

McChubble · 15/10/2026 19:10

Smallestwomanthateverlived · 11/10/2026 21:46

Nothing compares to you is very sad but I think it's wrong for my situation because he is awful and I'm not sad about him, I'm sad for me! I'm looking for a real sad song about feeling like I wasted my life loving someone that didn't even care about me, let alone love me back. And now I'm old and damaged and I feel like I'll never have anyone love me in my whole life.

I’m pleased you’re now back in strong woman mode but in case you ever have a day like this again, check out “Lost on You” by LP, which is about everything you’ve wasted on a relationship which ended

TheTecknician · 15/10/2026 19:30

For The Good Times by Perry Como, If You Leave Me Now by Chicago, Just When I Needed You Most by Randy Van Warmer, If You Go Away by various artists, I Will by Ruby Winters, When Will I See You Again by the Three Degrees, Please Don't Go by KC and the Sunshine Band.

I am a 70s child, hence my vintage selection.

misspositivepants · 15/10/2026 21:01

Everybody hurts REM

GG27 · 15/10/2026 21:02

Bye Bye - Mariah Carey always

wavingfuriously · 15/10/2026 21:15

Feelings

Greenjersey · 15/10/2026 21:19

Sorry if already mentioned;
Angie Stone - I Wish I Didn't Miss You Anymore
Hall and Oates - She's Gone ( but from a man's point of view)

ExhaustedRaccoon · 15/10/2026 21:33

You could be happy - Snow Patrol
Look Afyer You - Aron Wright
Die On this Hill - Sienna Spiro
Not Today - Imagine Dragons
You Sang to Me - Marc Anthony
Waiting for your love - Jamie Bowyer ( personal fave)
worst Ways - Rudie Edwards

Lifeomars · 15/10/2026 22:40

Thorn in my side The Eurythmics is a good burst of righteous anger

Thorn in my side

That's all you'll ever be
So don't think you know better
Cause that's what you mean to me
I was feeling complicated
i was feeling low
Now everytime i think of you

I shiver to the bone

Empress13 · 15/10/2026 23:10

I will survive!

Punkyfishes · 17/10/2026 05:18

@Smallestwomanthateverlived

how you doing? Can we lift your spirit with upbeat songs today? Leave the crying behind for a bit.

I recommend going back to music from a time pre husband where you were really happy.

I also recommend you make yourself a new playlist, starting today. Only include new songs that you discovered from today. No dodgy memories. Maybe call it The Future is Bright.

Here are a few songs I like. I hope at least one is new for you.

‘The size of a cow’ The Wonderstuff

’Wheres me jumper’ by Sultans of Ping FC.

NF - The search

Jekyll and Hyde - five finger death punch

Hi Ren by REN

You’re gonna go far kid by The Offspring

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