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Most heartbroken songs ever

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Smallestwomanthateverlived · 11/10/2026 21:06

I'm currently divorcing my husband. I've been strong and angry, but totally I'm just feeling heartbreakingly sad. I've tried some Taylor swift songs but they just aren't sad enough. Anyone got any recommendations for some songs I can just be utterly broken to for an hour before I sick it all back up and crack on. I've currently got hurt by Jonny cash on but it's not quite the vibe I want.

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bababamama · 11/10/2026 21:53

Tears in Heaven is the ultimate in sad songs, not only is it the lyrics but the story behind it

Aweekoffwork · 11/10/2026 21:53

What Becomes of the Broken Hearted
Jimmy Ruffin

SinuousTendrils · 11/10/2026 21:54

Band of Gold also good for singing loudly to, might be wuite cathartic.

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Smallestwomanthateverlived · 11/10/2026 21:46

Nothing compares to you is very sad but I think it's wrong for my situation because he is awful and I'm not sad about him, I'm sad for me! I'm looking for a real sad song about feeling like I wasted my life loving someone that didn't even care about me, let alone love me back. And now I'm old and damaged and I feel like I'll never have anyone love me in my whole life.

In Too Deep is perfect for this, heartbreaking lyrics.

IsEveryUserNameBloodyTaken · 11/10/2026 21:54

Impossible James Arthur.

MimiGC · 11/10/2026 22:04

It doesn’t fit your theme, but if you want a sad song to make you cry, they don’t come much sadder than Old Shep by Elvis Presley. It makes me howl every time (and I don’t even especially like dogs!)

Fuckmyliferightnow · 11/10/2026 22:04

If you could read my mind - Gordon Lightfoot.
River- Joni Mitchell
Sophia-Nerina Pallot
Romeo and Juliet- Dire Straits
Untitled-The Cure
Disarm-Smashing Pumpkins
Madam George-Van Morrison
April come she will-Simon and Garfunkel.
There is a light that never goes out-The Smiths

sightingday · 11/10/2026 22:05

Snuff by slipknot
song 3 by stone sour
everybody’s fool by evanescence
and for when yore ready to go back to angry
i hope you’re miserable until you’re dead by Nessa Barrett. (I clearly didn’t take my last break up very well)

Fuckmyliferightnow · 11/10/2026 22:07

Also Song to the Siren-Tim Buckley

seagullsandbeachhuts · 11/10/2026 22:08

My suggestion for an angry song would be Good 4 You by Olivia Rodrigo - I find it very cathartic to sing along to this at full volume!

bunsnroses1 · 11/10/2026 22:08

Hurt is by Nine Inch Nails, not Johnny Cash. You might also like 'Something I can Never Have', also by Nine Inch Nails and even more devastatingly sad x

Smallestwomanthateverlived · 11/10/2026 22:09

sightingday · 11/10/2026 22:05

Snuff by slipknot
song 3 by stone sour
everybody’s fool by evanescence
and for when yore ready to go back to angry
i hope you’re miserable until you’re dead by Nessa Barrett. (I clearly didn’t take my last break up very well)

Ooh I like that one! Maybe I'm not as sad as I thought, possibly just misplaced anger.

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Smallestwomanthateverlived · 11/10/2026 22:09

Jellycatspyjamas · 11/10/2026 21:54

In Too Deep is perfect for this, heartbreaking lyrics.

Yes this is a good one!

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runnersfeet · 11/10/2026 22:09

ABBA. The Winner takes it all. Sung with such emotion. Hang in there OP. It does get better ☺️

Smallestwomanthateverlived · 11/10/2026 22:12

bunsnroses1 · 11/10/2026 22:08

Hurt is by Nine Inch Nails, not Johnny Cash. You might also like 'Something I can Never Have', also by Nine Inch Nails and even more devastatingly sad x

Ahh
I didn't know they did it originally. Jonny cash covered it.

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Dollymylove · 11/10/2026 22:12

Leo Sayer : I cant stop loving you
Robert John: Sad eyes
Sad Cafe: Every day hurts

northernplatform · 11/10/2026 22:13

Another Love by Tom Odell

Smallestwomanthateverlived · 11/10/2026 22:13

seagullsandbeachhuts · 11/10/2026 22:08

My suggestion for an angry song would be Good 4 You by Olivia Rodrigo - I find it very cathartic to sing along to this at full volume!

I love Olivia for a good angry sing along. Traitor is my fav. And drivers license.

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Kevinbaconsrealwife · 11/10/2026 22:14

DistantEarlyWarning · 11/10/2026 21:15

Late for the Sky by Jackson Browne

It’s Over by Level 42

Also “ Leaving me now” by Level 42 x

BeardySchnauzer · 11/10/2026 22:24

Smallestwomanthateverlived · 11/10/2026 21:46

Nothing compares to you is very sad but I think it's wrong for my situation because he is awful and I'm not sad about him, I'm sad for me! I'm looking for a real sad song about feeling like I wasted my life loving someone that didn't even care about me, let alone love me back. And now I'm old and damaged and I feel like I'll never have anyone love me in my whole life.

I found the unrequited love songs got me not because of stbxh but because I don’t feel anyone will love me again. So I guess it’s unrequited from every other male on the planet🤣

Maybeitllneverhappen · 11/10/2026 22:25

Not quite right for your sentiment, but Alan Parsons Project Old and wise is powerful. 💐

WillieBanjo · 11/10/2026 22:31

Getting away with it (all messed up) by james

Help me make it though the night Gladys knight version

Also Gladys’s version of the way we were

Last one was my Covid cry song Big Star 13 gets me every time

mrslimpet · 11/10/2026 22:34

Back to Black - Amy Winehouse

ToadRage · 11/10/2026 22:34

Everybody hurts - REM
Nothing compares to you - Sinead O'connor
When your gone - Avril Lavigne
One of us - Abba

PhilomenaFitzFilopardi · 11/10/2026 22:34

FookFookFook · 11/10/2026 21:14

Also Exile by Taylor Swift and Bon Iver if you like Taylor

Yes to Bon Iver.
‘How to Save a life’ -The Fray.