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Jason Arday dead

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ThisWiseRobin · 14/08/2026 22:01

Just putting this out there, but just heared.A sad end to a whole sorry mess.

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Switchnow · 17/08/2026 14:28

Queenncat · 17/08/2026 14:16

Fascinating discussing the concept of intelligence isn't it.

One of my favourite discussion subjects about Intelligence, one everyone has a view on, and one that is relevant to this particular Arday discussion - is this:

Is it possible for person be intelligent and racist? Why do you think that?

For example many people over time, and today, were/are labelled as highly intelligent. They were / are also evidently, racist.

On the other hand 'Low intelligence' people are often viewed to be more racist or vice versa. See many Left (yes Left for those at the back) views of Reform supporters, repeated ad nauseum on this platform without much critical thinking.

There's a recent view that many intelligent people are quite racist, but hide it better. so are they intelligent all.

Of course there are often specific motivations for calling people 'stupid' or 'clever'.

What's your view? Rhetorical really, sorry to divert even more.

It is interesting. I think you’re highlighting how we do attach value to perceived intelligence, at both an individual and group level. Lots of people ascribe their opposing tribe, whether left/right, racist/anti-racist as less intelligent, and themselves by default as more intelligent.

Lots of intelligent racists, in history and now, Education isn’t inoculation against any kind of prejudice unfortunately.

GeneralPeter · 17/08/2026 14:31

noblegiraffe · 17/08/2026 14:11

I'm a secondary teacher so the idea that I'm unaware of people with a range of academic abilities is rather funny.

What's also funny is the idea that IQ is a calibrated and accurate measure of how smart someone is. Or that having a high IQ means your life is on an easier mode than at 'lower levels'.

It seems there’s a lot you are finding fun in this convo, which is great.

If we move away from the argument from mirth, however, tested IQ correlates strongly with educational outcomes, lifetime earnings and negatively with schizophrenia, mortality, incarceration, dementia in women, and many other things.

There are of course some bad things that correlate positively with tested IQ.

So how are we going to work out which is “harder” or worse?

Here’s my proposal: your child. You can choose for them to be one sd above the mean or one sd below in tested IQ. Which one are you choosing?

noblegiraffe · 17/08/2026 14:36

GeneralPeter · 17/08/2026 14:31

It seems there’s a lot you are finding fun in this convo, which is great.

If we move away from the argument from mirth, however, tested IQ correlates strongly with educational outcomes, lifetime earnings and negatively with schizophrenia, mortality, incarceration, dementia in women, and many other things.

There are of course some bad things that correlate positively with tested IQ.

So how are we going to work out which is “harder” or worse?

Here’s my proposal: your child. You can choose for them to be one sd above the mean or one sd below in tested IQ. Which one are you choosing?

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Correlation does not equal causation....

IsEveryUserNameBloodyTaken · 17/08/2026 14:37

How terribly terribly sad this whole situation is.
I feel bad for JA that he could not find a way through this without taking his life.
He was set up and used by the ideological disgracefulness of Cambridge University.
Without them and other guilty establishments he would not have been in this position and would still be alive.
You cannot blame him for taking advantage of the disgrace that is DEI.
He should never have been appointed, it’s as ridiculous as appointing an airline pilot based on ideology rather than competency, with the catastrophic results that could follow.
Cambridge University, he was their poster boy and it’s massively backfired on them.
Disgracefully they are trying to blame anyone else but themselves.

Queenncat · 17/08/2026 14:37

Switchnow · 17/08/2026 14:28

It is interesting. I think you’re highlighting how we do attach value to perceived intelligence, at both an individual and group level. Lots of people ascribe their opposing tribe, whether left/right, racist/anti-racist as less intelligent, and themselves by default as more intelligent.

Lots of intelligent racists, in history and now, Education isn’t inoculation against any kind of prejudice unfortunately.

'Lots of intelligent racists, in history and now, Education isn’t inoculation against any kind of prejudice unfortunately.'

You see my personal view - is that one cannot be intelligent and racist. To be intelligent means to understand how ridiculous it is to think that race affects innate intelligence. Environmental factors - eg. education quality obv then affect perceived intelligence.

Queenncat · 17/08/2026 14:41

IsEveryUserNameBloodyTaken · 17/08/2026 14:37

How terribly terribly sad this whole situation is.
I feel bad for JA that he could not find a way through this without taking his life.
He was set up and used by the ideological disgracefulness of Cambridge University.
Without them and other guilty establishments he would not have been in this position and would still be alive.
You cannot blame him for taking advantage of the disgrace that is DEI.
He should never have been appointed, it’s as ridiculous as appointing an airline pilot based on ideology rather than competency, with the catastrophic results that could follow.
Cambridge University, he was their poster boy and it’s massively backfired on them.
Disgracefully they are trying to blame anyone else but themselves.

Indeed. Agree .

(Bit like immigrants coming to the UK for cash, health care and a roof over their head. Why wouldn't they take advantage of that open offer. I know I would if I was born in a place where I had none of those things.)

Bulgebracket · 17/08/2026 14:45

IsEveryUserNameBloodyTaken · 17/08/2026 14:37

How terribly terribly sad this whole situation is.
I feel bad for JA that he could not find a way through this without taking his life.
He was set up and used by the ideological disgracefulness of Cambridge University.
Without them and other guilty establishments he would not have been in this position and would still be alive.
You cannot blame him for taking advantage of the disgrace that is DEI.
He should never have been appointed, it’s as ridiculous as appointing an airline pilot based on ideology rather than competency, with the catastrophic results that could follow.
Cambridge University, he was their poster boy and it’s massively backfired on them.
Disgracefully they are trying to blame anyone else but themselves.

Strong agree.

Cambridge have simply compounded their failings.

Utterly shameful.

GeneralPeter · 17/08/2026 14:45

Switchnow · 17/08/2026 14:24

It absolutely is mainstream, and it’s also contested for the reasons you’ve discussed with others re IQ as a measure. Also when you look at the data there are swathes of countries where there is no independent testing and scores are assumed by proximity. It’s a shaky dataset, and not one that can ethically be used to draw conclusions. It doesn’t - and shouldn’t - preclude Cofnas and others from collecting further data or talking about what does exist. My problem is he is politicising what’s there, rather than really investigating it.

I hope that IQ will seem dated to future generations! But intelligence - maybe better characterised as problem solving, consequential thinking, strategising etc - probably won’t be, because (as you said) intelligence (or even perceived intelligence) = access to a more comfortable life. And that’s why it’s a problem to condemn certain groups of people to a genetic destiny that doesn’t even exist.

I agree it’s shaky across countries, though much less reason to treat it as shaky within countries.

And although I’m arguing against taking it as a measure of worth, I do recognise that it in fact often is.

I just think that we’d have a much more healthy long-term outcome if we tried to remove as much of the moral freight from it as we can, and replace taboo with understanding.

I also note that denying there could be differences often creates problems of its own. Harvard going to the Supreme Court to argue that Asians have defective personalities which is why they are admitted at much lower rates than their test scores would predict, because the idea that rates could be different is a moral taboo in elite circles. That leads to direct anti-Asian discrimination. Or how do we explain why such a massively disproportionate share of Nobel prize winners are ethnically Jewish. They must be cheating, right? Probably got it all stitched up between them. These logical consequences aren’t harmless either.

GeneralPeter · 17/08/2026 14:49

noblegiraffe · 17/08/2026 14:36

Correlation does not equal causation....

So a coin flip for your child?

GeneralPeter · 17/08/2026 14:54

Marasme · 17/08/2026 14:24

i think it is because modern western society treats intelligence as a very valuable trait, that leads to greater capacity, success, value creation, etc and thereby superiority.

Yes. That is definitely true. So I do at base understand why it’s going to be treated as a mark of worth and thus as a taboo. I just think it’s the wrong way to go.

Like, if everyone thought women were inferior to men because they are weaker, the right answer isn’t “actually there’s no sexed strength difference”, it’s “that’s a stupid mesure of value”.

CloverAndGrass · 17/08/2026 15:01

IsEveryUserNameBloodyTaken · 17/08/2026 14:37

How terribly terribly sad this whole situation is.
I feel bad for JA that he could not find a way through this without taking his life.
He was set up and used by the ideological disgracefulness of Cambridge University.
Without them and other guilty establishments he would not have been in this position and would still be alive.
You cannot blame him for taking advantage of the disgrace that is DEI.
He should never have been appointed, it’s as ridiculous as appointing an airline pilot based on ideology rather than competency, with the catastrophic results that could follow.
Cambridge University, he was their poster boy and it’s massively backfired on them.
Disgracefully they are trying to blame anyone else but themselves.

You cannot blame him for taking advantage of the disgrace that is DEI.
He should never have been appointed, it’s as ridiculous as appointing an airline pilot based on ideology rather than competency, with the catastrophic results that could follow.

I totally disagree with this. Why can’t you apportion blame to someone for exploiting DEI, exaggerating their achievements and using accusations of racism to close down scrutiny? I apportion blame the same as I would to anyone taking a job as a pilot whilst knowing they were not qualified for the job and so presented a hazard.

Phewmcgrew · 17/08/2026 15:03

DestituteDesperate · 16/08/2026 19:06

Enjoy your histrionics.

There your ilk go again.

Stop deflecting with emotive language as if anyone is minimising suicide.

Again, asking where his loved ones were when he was lying, is a valid question. Someone has posted his own wife couldn’t keep the story straight.

Dead or not, there are questions to be asked of everyone.

Why didn’t anyone that loved and adore him, not notice he has pathological issues and the most loving thing to have done was go get him some professional health

What you said is this. Let me break down your thinking on this being as you don't seem to be consciously aware of this yourself.

The 'fact' which lies beneath a statement like this is that his loved ones did not notice his issues or do anything about them. Your statement does not make sense without this underlying 'fact'.

Except its not a fact. Its something you made up. To criticise his family. And it is a criticism looking to spread the blame to them.

Ironic really that in a post about a fantasist you are also confusing things you have made up with reality. You perhaps are more Arday adjacent that you care to acknowledge.

Furthermore you cannot ' get someone help' who has mental health issues ( and we don't know if Arday did - no-one knows his motivations), unless they are so severe they can be sectioned. People have to want to seek and engage with mental health support. No-one knows if his family tried and were unsuccessful. Which is why its pointless to speculate as well as immoral in the circumstance.

And btw, interesting that you have dismissed me into a social box with your 'ilk' comment. What ilk do you think I am in? Whatever it is, its not one I am in and I don't even think I have opinions on this story that you seem to think I do. This is yet another fantasy you have created and confused with reality.

Yes your pompous faux intellectual response from someone acting in a grubby tabloid manner, and with even less critical thinking, did make me feel contemptuous of you. Unapologetic for that.

Phewmcgrew · 17/08/2026 15:05

DestituteDesperate · 17/08/2026 09:57

Don’t let the facts get in the way of the pitch fork!

What an ironic comment coming from you!

Switchnow · 17/08/2026 15:06

Queenncat · 17/08/2026 14:37

'Lots of intelligent racists, in history and now, Education isn’t inoculation against any kind of prejudice unfortunately.'

You see my personal view - is that one cannot be intelligent and racist. To be intelligent means to understand how ridiculous it is to think that race affects innate intelligence. Environmental factors - eg. education quality obv then affect perceived intelligence.

For me, on racism is an emotional response (probably fear but maybe something else too) and therefore intelligence is nothing to do with it. Because quite - race does not and cannot influence innate intelligence, criminality, greed or carnality (to list a few things thrown at various groups).

Phewmcgrew · 17/08/2026 15:09

DestituteDesperate · 17/08/2026 11:15

Yet didn’t recognise any traits in her son that may have warranted some medical intervention.

Actually, don’t mention his family, even as a rhetorical question or general question about anyone not seeing the fantasists lies.

As they can’t accuse me of racism; they now tried to paint another faux outrage for even daring to suggest something.

so many people will have questions to answer to, even if it’s just questioning themselves. Far too many people seemed to overlook the obvious.

Yet didn’t recognise any traits in her son that may have warranted some medical intervention

Oh look, here's another 'fact' you just made up.

And beneath it a deflection from the fact you made it up, by attacking the person (me) who pointed out you made it up.

Very, very similar to the tactics Arday and Cambridge took their untruths were exposed in fact...

Switchnow · 17/08/2026 15:11

GeneralPeter · 17/08/2026 14:45

I agree it’s shaky across countries, though much less reason to treat it as shaky within countries.

And although I’m arguing against taking it as a measure of worth, I do recognise that it in fact often is.

I just think that we’d have a much more healthy long-term outcome if we tried to remove as much of the moral freight from it as we can, and replace taboo with understanding.

I also note that denying there could be differences often creates problems of its own. Harvard going to the Supreme Court to argue that Asians have defective personalities which is why they are admitted at much lower rates than their test scores would predict, because the idea that rates could be different is a moral taboo in elite circles. That leads to direct anti-Asian discrimination. Or how do we explain why such a massively disproportionate share of Nobel prize winners are ethnically Jewish. They must be cheating, right? Probably got it all stitched up between them. These logical consequences aren’t harmless either.

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Shaky within countries is potentially explicable by massive social and economic variation though, affecting nutrition, air quality, epigenetics etc.

Agree that denying is not the right route either - though questioning whether there is really a genetic basis for differences isn’t the same as denying they exist. I’ve seen that description of the Harvard case but need to read the detail myself before I form a view - maybe it really was that base but surely not??

Queenncat · 17/08/2026 15:12

Switchnow · 17/08/2026 15:06

For me, on racism is an emotional response (probably fear but maybe something else too) and therefore intelligence is nothing to do with it. Because quite - race does not and cannot influence innate intelligence, criminality, greed or carnality (to list a few things thrown at various groups).

To a bear we all taste like chicken!

noblegiraffe · 17/08/2026 15:12

GeneralPeter · 17/08/2026 14:49

So a coin flip for your child?

You said: tested IQ correlates strongly with educational outcomes, lifetime earnings and negatively with schizophrenia, mortality, incarceration, dementia in women, and many other things.

The thing is, educational outcomes correlate strongly with those things, and have quite a strong explanatory power. So if you can find anything that correlates with educational outcomes, it will also correlate accordingly with those things.

What else affects educational outcomes? Maternal education level, level of household disadvantage etc. If IQ correlates with educational outcomes, then it will also correlate with level of household disadvantage.

noblegiraffe · 17/08/2026 15:13

Switchnow · 17/08/2026 15:11

Shaky within countries is potentially explicable by massive social and economic variation though, affecting nutrition, air quality, epigenetics etc.

Agree that denying is not the right route either - though questioning whether there is really a genetic basis for differences isn’t the same as denying they exist. I’ve seen that description of the Harvard case but need to read the detail myself before I form a view - maybe it really was that base but surely not??

The Harvard data (discussed by Cofnas) wasn't anything to do with IQ.

Phewmcgrew · 17/08/2026 15:19

HRTQueen · 17/08/2026 11:48

It is not unusual for hcp's to not notice physical or mh issues with family members, he may also have been very good at masking his mh issues

His family will feel enough pain as it is without the questioning how a mh professional missed signs that people are alluding too

Also, she may have noticed them and talked about it and he may have not been receptive to this.

If people are going to make up stuff and present it as true, how are they different from people like Arday?

Plus, its just immoral to spread misinformation about a grieving family.

It also shows a stunning lack of knowledge of mental health issues ( if he had any, we also don't know that) and the feasibility of persuading someone to seek help. Thinking you can just point out to someone that there behaviour is a bit off and they will go, ' gosh yes it is, I must do something about that', is stunningly ignorant. Especially for someone whose alleged MH issues are working really, really well for them as they were for JA until the end.

So to conclude that as he lied his family must not have pointed out him he was a liar is utterly bogus.

I am sure the response posts I will get from @DestituteDesperate will also help to demonstrate that pointing out to someone that what they are saying is not true or known, does not in anyway dissuade them from believing said things. In fact she already has.

DestituteDesperate · 17/08/2026 15:21

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GeneralPeter · 17/08/2026 15:25

Switchnow · 17/08/2026 15:11

Shaky within countries is potentially explicable by massive social and economic variation though, affecting nutrition, air quality, epigenetics etc.

Agree that denying is not the right route either - though questioning whether there is really a genetic basis for differences isn’t the same as denying they exist. I’ve seen that description of the Harvard case but need to read the detail myself before I form a view - maybe it really was that base but surely not??

I’ve just looked it up again and I’ve slightly mischaracterised it. The plaintiffs’ case was along the lines I said (that Harvard penalised Asians on their personality scores in order to justify discriminating against them). And indeed Harvard does score Asian applicants’ personalities lower than other groups and uses this for admissions decisions. But Harvard’s own case was that this reflects differences in teacher recommendations not literally that Asians do indeed have defective personalities.

Phewmcgrew · 17/08/2026 15:31

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Was that aimed at me?

Yes, what you said (repeatedly) and doubled down on was made up and no amount of you not acknowledging this will change that.

GeneralPeter · 17/08/2026 15:36

noblegiraffe · 17/08/2026 15:12

You said: tested IQ correlates strongly with educational outcomes, lifetime earnings and negatively with schizophrenia, mortality, incarceration, dementia in women, and many other things.

The thing is, educational outcomes correlate strongly with those things, and have quite a strong explanatory power. So if you can find anything that correlates with educational outcomes, it will also correlate accordingly with those things.

What else affects educational outcomes? Maternal education level, level of household disadvantage etc. If IQ correlates with educational outcomes, then it will also correlate with level of household disadvantage.

Yes. And thanks to twins studies, we know that tested IQ correlates with educational outcomes even after controlling for maternal/household environment. We also know that the effect diminishes only a little after those controls, ie IQ matters much more than those factors.

Bulgebracket · 17/08/2026 15:38

CloverAndGrass · 17/08/2026 15:01

You cannot blame him for taking advantage of the disgrace that is DEI.
He should never have been appointed, it’s as ridiculous as appointing an airline pilot based on ideology rather than competency, with the catastrophic results that could follow.

I totally disagree with this. Why can’t you apportion blame to someone for exploiting DEI, exaggerating their achievements and using accusations of racism to close down scrutiny? I apportion blame the same as I would to anyone taking a job as a pilot whilst knowing they were not qualified for the job and so presented a hazard.

Absolutely.

It’s the very definition of the verb ‘grifting’, surely?

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