Neighbour in flats asked me not to place my wheelie bin nearby

[PerkyOchrePeer]

Am I being un̈reasonable? I live in a flat. A young person has recently moved opposite and I do not like her. We each have our own. Wheelie bin and apparently I place my bin too close to hers so she has asked me not.\nTo put it so close and then she said, it's not her job to move it.So she can get her bin in and out to take it out for the bin. If that was me, I would just move the oven bin along, so I could get my bin in and out, I think she's being totally out of order.

OP you need to realise you sound really nasty. She didn’t want to do your bins as your old arrangement was unusual and not how it’s done in most places. She was kind when she saw you with a heavy bag and you were rude back and now call her a bitch. You’re not behaving normally.

1 day I was coming back with heavy bag of shopping and she said to me, would you like me to help you carry that up the stairs? And I said, no, why would I flaming? Well, want her to help me carry the bag.

The selfish cow. What an absolute bitch she was to want to help you out with a heavy bag. That was an unimaginable act of cruelty, really. Obviously every right-thinking person in the block should hate her.

In terms of being an adult living in your block of flats, she's 100% your equal. She has the same rights and responsibilities as you do, including the right to a bit of consideration and give-and-take.. That's really all that counts in this scenario.

OP with all due respect you are the problem. What worked or did not work with the previous tenants does not matter. That is the past forget about it. Move your bin. Opening the window in the hallway is a good thing. It airs the place and means that stale air is getting out.

To be honest you sound very jealous of this lady and quite unhappy in general. I think you should seek help for yourself. Your behaviour is not normal.

These posts are incoherent.

This is 100% a wind up

To give you another example this neighbour keeps opening the upper landing window and leaving it wide open.\n And before she moved here, nobody bothered to open that window, nobody could care less.

What a bitch.

How DARE she want fresh air to circulate through the flats to stop it getting musty.

It's probably best not to stir up OP further. If you read all her other posts there is obviously something different about her that she refuses to recognise - perhaps neurodivergence or learning difficulties, I don't know. But all her threads just result in her getting irrationally angrier and angrier.

Stop being an obnoxious mare.

Maybe prior people didn't want to deal with you and your reaction....

There's something wrong with you.

Just the 1 bin per property ?
Imagine the scenario with the usual 5-6 bins in U.K. !

When I first moved into this street (detached houses so room between) there was an NDN who always parked her bin opposite my gate on bin day. I have no idea why as there was plenty of room along her frontage for it to go. Several times i moved it back but it was always there the next week. Then over the christmas vacation there was the overflowing bin opposite my gate along with several black bags of her rubbish. My nephew shifted it back and left it on the pavement in front of her gate. It was a windy night and the bin blew over. Foxes got into the bin bags which were torn and the rubbish ended up all over her path and pavement. Oh dear!

She never left her bin in front of my gate again.

You don’t like your neighbour because she: asked you to be considerate with your bin, opened a window that you don’t care about, and offered to help you with heavy shopping? You’re ridiculous.

Im not jealous at all.

Do you have anyone you actually get on with @PerkyOchrePeer

It must be awful to have so many disputes with so many people, on such a regular basis😂

I dont like her because she reported me about the bin. I just think she throws her weight around and acts like she's lived here for years when, in fact she hasn't even been here a year.. in all the years I've lived here and it's over 20 years. Nobody has reported me. In fact, when we had recycle boxes here and a previous tenant is to fill the recycle boxes with her young toddler's nappy and other things.And foxes would come and tear the boxes open and all the rubbishes to be over the front garden i used to be the one to clear it all up, but I never reported her because I knew it records problems between her and me. And a situation with a bin is nothing compared to finding baby's nappies all over the garden that should put out for the rubbish in the recycle boxes. I think that's absolutely disgusting.

School holidays again. Next, 'she looked at my boyfriend and he smiled'.

Have a look at this posters posting history. She’s notorious. Her life is filled with very weird and angry/obsessive interactions with others who she feels has slighted her in some way.

Opened a window - great get fresh air in the building. Plus what’s it to you as you said you don’t care about the window.

Each person having their own bin as it should be. Then others are putting leaking smelling items in your bin. Especially if you keep your own bin cleaned out.

Not blocking someone else’s bin with yours making it easier for everyone to get there bin out. Of course you should. Why would you be a dick and make life harder for people.

I am curious. Do you rent or own?

In regards to reporting you regarding the bin. Did she talk to you first and ask you to put it elsewhere first and you didn't?

You seem very fixated on the past and how things were done.

The fact that previous neighbours were ok (maybe) with the bins or that someone in the past put out leaky nappies are irrelevant to your new-ish neighbour because (a) she wasn’t there and (b) people are individuals, just like you

Someone could buy you a bunch of flowers and you'd still start a thread complaining about them. It must be exhausting to be so pissed off by the mere existence of other people around you

OMG it's you again. Are you able to have any normal interactions with anyone at all? It really must be horrible living your life like this, just furious with everyone all the time.

Inconsiderate nightmares, expecting OP to find a vase!