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New manager told role is now a job share after 10 days

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JobSharingNitemare · 22/07/2026 21:25

I'm 10 days into a new role as a manager in a new start up.

Today the owner informed me that my role was now a job share with a person that has no management experience and very little experience in what the start up specialises in.

It caught me by surprise and I'm really disappointed.

I've been pulling 12-14 hour days for the past 10 days to get them up and running and now I'm thinking why on earth did I bother?

I don't know if I should make it work or if I should just jump ship now.

OP posts:
SweetnsourNZ · 24/07/2026 10:32

JobSharingNitemare · 24/07/2026 06:07

I asked for an outline of what our roles would look like etc. and it wasn't acceptable to me, they wouldn't compromise or even discuss, so I walked away.

Disappointed but also relieved.

Thanks for the advice everyone.

Good luck for the future OP. Take it as a learning experience and have confidence that you know what to look out for in an employer next time.

SweetnsourNZ · 24/07/2026 10:34

Cailin66 · 24/07/2026 06:47

Goodness me but you’re a strong and brave woman. A very hardworking one too. Their loss. Of course it’s disappointing. But you did the right thing. Were they shocked when you walked? They have now lost a dedicated knowledgeable manager, and are left with an inexperienced new hire. A person who went behind your back. That shall not go well. New hire may walk as well as they don’t have the skill set to do your role.

And won't be getting an easy ride on OPs coattails either.

SweetnsourNZ · 24/07/2026 10:39

Pancakeorcrepe · 24/07/2026 09:22

You did well in walking away, you saved yourself lots of aggravation.
Some start-ups really are a nightmare, I would never work for one because of this sort of mentality. You will find a much better job.

Wonder how many start ups these guys have had. Could check the companies office. Bet they have a history of removed companies if this is how they act.

Gardenisablooming · 24/07/2026 10:43

On LinkedIn you can review companies you have worked for....
Just an idea.

ninanonk · 24/07/2026 10:50

Highlandgal · 24/07/2026 08:15

Just curious, why did you start without a contract? It’s awful you’re in that situation but I think I’d be jumping ship asap.

Edited

RTFT

Viviennemary · 24/07/2026 10:53

You'll be carrying this person. They sound like a bunch of charlatans. I'd be making exit plans and wouldn't be giving advice to this new person. Is she one of their relatives or something.

nomas · 24/07/2026 10:54

Are they even going to pay you? When is first pay day?

Maybe they are on a lower salary and want you to train then up so they can pay less for the role?

It's so unprofessional, whatever their rationale is.

Freddiefisher · 24/07/2026 10:55

Hope your ok op
Can't of been easy for you xx

DressOrSkirt · 24/07/2026 11:06

If you are working 14 hours a day then that does seem like a 2 person job!

Francestein · 24/07/2026 11:09

Get out asap and whatever you do, don’t train them.

PrincessofWills · 24/07/2026 11:41

Now file a claim at an Employment Tribunal for constructive dismissal and breach of contract.

snowmichael · 24/07/2026 11:45

Thelnebriati · 22/07/2026 21:42

Talk to ACAS asap. You'll probably be better off leaving, but it might be handy for future employees for ACAS to know there were long standing problems.

ACAS will tell OP that at ten days she has (almost literally) no rights

IJustMight · 24/07/2026 11:51

I suspect you've dodged a complete shitshow, OP.

If they didn't pay you the hours you've worked, invoice them, and be prepared to pursue it.

squarez · 24/07/2026 12:11

IJustMight · 24/07/2026 11:51

I suspect you've dodged a complete shitshow, OP.

If they didn't pay you the hours you've worked, invoice them, and be prepared to pursue it.

Could do via small claims court but there’s a cost (time and energy, and financial if she doesn’t win) to that too.

Not trying to minimise the awfulness - and we don’t know if she definitely didn’t get paid - but there are times when it’s better to just take the lesson and move on. Getting out after 10 days is in itself a win.

GreenCandleWax · 24/07/2026 12:14

They are dishonest - not being upfront with you about your role - and extremely unprofessional to change the goalposts after your employment terms were agreed. You have been treated badly, OP. Really hoping you can get redress in some form - for constructive dismissal and if appropriate sex discrimination, and not providing written contract - there is probably a legal time requirement. But you do have a contract anyway re. what the role entailed, hours to be worked and pay. Take everything written that you have to someone who can advise - maybe ACAS or lawyer. Bastards like this employer should not get away with treating anyone like this. Well done for walking out. 💐

SuburbanCrofter · 24/07/2026 12:14

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ThreadGuardDog · 24/07/2026 12:32

JobSharingNitemare · 22/07/2026 21:34

I have not signed a contract yet. They've been slow with that. Kicking myself now.

To be honest, they appear to have just been winging it until I got on board.

What was the verbal agreement before you started - a contract doesn’t have to be written.

squarez · 24/07/2026 12:59

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Are you just making things up?

Under the Copyright, Designs and Patents Act 1988 any copyright or IP created by an employee in the normal course of their employment automatically belongs to the employer.

WellConfusedandDazed · 24/07/2026 13:06

I’m flabbergasted that you started working for them in a senior role without a signed contract. I recently started a new senior role and signed electronically before my first day then in ink within a few hours of being in the office. Not trying to sound smug but that almost purposeful in their part. Do you even have recourse? They could refuse to pay you.

SuburbanCrofter · 24/07/2026 13:08

squarez · 24/07/2026 12:59

Are you just making things up?

Under the Copyright, Designs and Patents Act 1988 any copyright or IP created by an employee in the normal course of their employment automatically belongs to the employer.

Not making things up, I was basing it on the fact that OP had not signed a contract, based on my own experience in self employment. But I fully acknowledge I am wrong on this if that is the case.

SuburbanCrofter · 24/07/2026 13:12

Just to add, I have asked to have my post removed as I don't want to have inaccurate information out there.

Mygiddyvalentine · 24/07/2026 13:14

Sereine · 23/07/2026 07:54

You need to be firm that you were offered a full time job with full personal management responsibility, and that is what you expect to continue to have.

This.

Mygiddyvalentine · 24/07/2026 13:15

Mygiddyvalentine · 24/07/2026 13:14

This.

Also I would write this in an email to document the conversation and to take pressure off your response when he inevitably comes back with a totally BS response.

Mistymagic77 · 24/07/2026 14:32

Even without a written contract, you still have a contract of employment. On what terms did you join - email, text, etc.? Where are your salary, hours, etc. mentioned?

Rosegard · 24/07/2026 15:04

Nearly50omg · 24/07/2026 07:15

Don’t forget to bill them for the 10 days you worked for them!! Including the overtime!!!

Every hour you worked, as you were misled.

Small claims court if they refuse to pay you.

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