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Neighbour demanded proof of our hosepipe ban exemption

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HoseBan · 11/07/2026 16:35

My NDN has just demanded to see proof that we are exempt from the local hose pipe ban !!!!

I have said to them I won’t be showing them anything as it’s private but they can report me if I want and the water company can check.

We literally have just been filling a small paddling pool daily for the dc for after school and today have a little sprinkler toy as it’s boiling.

I know some people aren’t aware that there are exemptions (eg being on priority services register or certain tariff) but I’m so shocked they demanded proof !!!

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BlueFahrenheit · 13/07/2026 17:37

BelieveInCher · 13/07/2026 17:33

Oh my god this thread is nuts. Who cares why the OP has an exemption? She just does, and it’s up to her to decide how to fill a paddling pool! People need to get a grip, I think all hosepipe bans should be ignored anyway but that’s another thread entirely.

The water police are watching every millimetre poured and sipped.

BlueFahrenheit · 13/07/2026 17:38

JenniferBooth · 13/07/2026 17:35

Siri show me someone who knows fuck all about social housing apart from what they have read in the Daily Mail
NO KIDS = NO HOUSE

You missed my humour.

Of course, you don't deserve a house with a garden.

sittingonabeach · 13/07/2026 17:39

BlueFahrenheit · 13/07/2026 17:32

It certainly wasn't wasted, dear. I am not 'struggling' like you.

You can receive a diagnosis and still explore alternative treatments, or perhaps you could ask your Housing Association to give you a house with a garden.

Could you be more patronising

BlueFahrenheit · 13/07/2026 17:41

sittingonabeach · 13/07/2026 17:39

Could you be more patronising

🤷🏼‍♀️

JenniferBooth · 13/07/2026 17:41

BlueFahrenheit · 13/07/2026 17:38

You missed my humour.

Of course, you don't deserve a house with a garden.

True but that also means i cant be expected to care about other ppls kids during times like these. You want individualism You can have it

BlueFahrenheit · 13/07/2026 17:43

JenniferBooth · 13/07/2026 17:41

True but that also means i cant be expected to care about other ppls kids during times like these. You want individualism You can have it

Why don't you donate a bottle of water to the nearest food bank?

ThreadGuardDog · 13/07/2026 17:43

BlueFahrenheit · 13/07/2026 16:53

Handwash. If the water pressure drops, wait a while.

The UK is far from being arid and devoid of rain.

Not everyone can hand wash if they’re disabled. And if you were incontinent as a result of disability would you really want dirty washing/bedding hanging around in this weather ?

BelieveInCher · 13/07/2026 17:51

BlueFahrenheit · 13/07/2026 17:37

The water police are watching every millimetre poured and sipped.

It’s pathetic. If we had fewer bootlickers then the massive conglomerates that limit our resources to fatten up their shareholders would have to actually provide us with the services we pay for. I can’t believe there are hundreds of people on this thread berating a person for daring to fill a paddling pool. Have a word with yourselves.

It’ll be a cold day in hell before I snitch on my neighbours for doing perfectly normal things.

BlueFahrenheit · 13/07/2026 17:54

BelieveInCher · 13/07/2026 17:51

It’s pathetic. If we had fewer bootlickers then the massive conglomerates that limit our resources to fatten up their shareholders would have to actually provide us with the services we pay for. I can’t believe there are hundreds of people on this thread berating a person for daring to fill a paddling pool. Have a word with yourselves.

It’ll be a cold day in hell before I snitch on my neighbours for doing perfectly normal things.

I echo your thoughts.

Begrudging a child the enjoyment of a hot summer's day in their paddling pool.

You would almost think they're producing the water themselves, playing the role of nature.

Scornful.

JenniferBooth · 13/07/2026 17:57

BlueFahrenheit · 13/07/2026 17:54

I echo your thoughts.

Begrudging a child the enjoyment of a hot summer's day in their paddling pool.

You would almost think they're producing the water themselves, playing the role of nature.

Scornful.

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But thats exactly the individualism that you are touting

Kamilaa · 13/07/2026 17:58

Honestly don’t understand why you cannot fill a small paddling pool for your kids in this heat, whilst Ronald next door can have 30 minute showers and baths filled to the brink several times a day. What is happening to the water just because it’s outside all of a sudden?

2026letsgo · 13/07/2026 17:59

BlueFahrenheit · 13/07/2026 16:47

Oh, I most definitely am. I feel no way about it either.

I'll never install a water meter. My friend did, and her basement annex flooded, damaging precious artwork and valuables.

Yeah right 🥹

BlueFahrenheit · 13/07/2026 18:02

Kamilaa · 13/07/2026 17:58

Honestly don’t understand why you cannot fill a small paddling pool for your kids in this heat, whilst Ronald next door can have 30 minute showers and baths filled to the brink several times a day. What is happening to the water just because it’s outside all of a sudden?

It's nothing but provocative tomfoolery at its finest.

To think some individuals lose sleep over a child innocently playing in their paddling pool.

JohnnieFedora · 13/07/2026 18:26

BlueFahrenheit · 13/07/2026 18:02

It's nothing but provocative tomfoolery at its finest.

To think some individuals lose sleep over a child innocently playing in their paddling pool.

They're the same people that were snooping and telling on people during COVID and exclaiming that people are killing others by having a second 15min walk in a day - and making up rules about how long was allowed etc.

ChardonnaysBeastlyCat · 13/07/2026 18:26

Kamilaa · 13/07/2026 17:58

Honestly don’t understand why you cannot fill a small paddling pool for your kids in this heat, whilst Ronald next door can have 30 minute showers and baths filled to the brink several times a day. What is happening to the water just because it’s outside all of a sudden?

The idea is that neither you, or Ronald should be using water excessively.

Mumtobabyhavoc · 13/07/2026 18:40

sittingonabeach · 13/07/2026 17:39

Could you be more patronising

Do you mean:

Could you be more patronizing?
(genuine question about ability or a request)
or
Could you be more patronizing?

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BlueFahrenheit · 13/07/2026 18:40

JohnnieFedora · 13/07/2026 18:26

They're the same people that were snooping and telling on people during COVID and exclaiming that people are killing others by having a second 15min walk in a day - and making up rules about how long was allowed etc.

A great many of them would do well to channel their vital energies into their own affairs.

sittingonabeach · 13/07/2026 18:47

@BlueFahrenheit what do you suggest my elderly DM with dementia does if we have a drop in water pressure and for a short while she can’t get a drink from the tap or the loo doesn’t flush properly, because a number of people think their green lawn takes priority. How do you want me to explain that to her? How does she prepare for that and then understand and remember why she prepared for it. She would just panic that no water was coming out of the tap.

Now I can be and I am angry with the local water company that the infrastructure is shit, but that isn’t going to help my immediate concern about my DM.

Mumtobabyhavoc · 13/07/2026 18:49

whynotwhatknot · 13/07/2026 13:16

my neighbour who is in a wheelchair is exempt. his able bodied wife is out every day with the hosepipe watering her plants. i don't get how that's allowed

Disabled people with able-bodied house members should not be exempt?

springintospring26 · 13/07/2026 18:54

I have an exemption because a family member has incontinence and therefore a need to use the washing machine and shower very often. There’s no DLA or PIP involved. Each situation is looked at on its own merits

BelieveInCher · 13/07/2026 18:56

JenniferBooth · 13/07/2026 17:57

But thats exactly the individualism that you are touting

No it isn’t. The individualism is actually coming from the water companies that are more focused upon keeping a handful of stakeholders happy instead of using their billions of pounds of profit on essential maintenance and infrastructure that would limit the need for things such as hosepipe bans.

If we, as a collective, said enough is enough rather than snitching on neighbours for filling paddling pools we’d all be in a much better place for it. Because believe me the CEO of a water company will not be adhering to any hosepipe ban.

BelieveInCher · 13/07/2026 18:59

sittingonabeach · 13/07/2026 18:47

@BlueFahrenheit what do you suggest my elderly DM with dementia does if we have a drop in water pressure and for a short while she can’t get a drink from the tap or the loo doesn’t flush properly, because a number of people think their green lawn takes priority. How do you want me to explain that to her? How does she prepare for that and then understand and remember why she prepared for it. She would just panic that no water was coming out of the tap.

Now I can be and I am angry with the local water company that the infrastructure is shit, but that isn’t going to help my immediate concern about my DM.

You need to direct your anger at the appropriate source. Which isn’t the public.

BlueFahrenheit · 13/07/2026 19:03

sittingonabeach · 13/07/2026 18:47

@BlueFahrenheit what do you suggest my elderly DM with dementia does if we have a drop in water pressure and for a short while she can’t get a drink from the tap or the loo doesn’t flush properly, because a number of people think their green lawn takes priority. How do you want me to explain that to her? How does she prepare for that and then understand and remember why she prepared for it. She would just panic that no water was coming out of the tap.

Now I can be and I am angry with the local water company that the infrastructure is shit, but that isn’t going to help my immediate concern about my DM.

Are your taps seriously spitting sand?

Honestly, basic common sense would dictate that you keep a few bottles of water on reserve, rather than helplessly waiting to be rescued. And if the toilet fails to flush, do try to master the art of basic patience and wait a while; it isn't rocket science.

Once again, we are forced to rely on the infrastructure to sort out the complex wonder of ensuring all homes have a bountiful supply of water.

Mumtobabyhavoc · 13/07/2026 19:04

BelieveInCher · 13/07/2026 18:56

No it isn’t. The individualism is actually coming from the water companies that are more focused upon keeping a handful of stakeholders happy instead of using their billions of pounds of profit on essential maintenance and infrastructure that would limit the need for things such as hosepipe bans.

If we, as a collective, said enough is enough rather than snitching on neighbours for filling paddling pools we’d all be in a much better place for it. Because believe me the CEO of a water company will not be adhering to any hosepipe ban.

I agree. Those that control the means keep those of us at the bottom fighting against each other as a way to control us and distract from the actual issues and their profits.

BelieveInCher · 13/07/2026 19:05

JohnnieFedora · 13/07/2026 18:26

They're the same people that were snooping and telling on people during COVID and exclaiming that people are killing others by having a second 15min walk in a day - and making up rules about how long was allowed etc.

It’s genuinely terrifying how easily people can be manipulated to turn on each other like this.