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Neighbour demanded proof of our hosepipe ban exemption

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HoseBan · 11/07/2026 16:35

My NDN has just demanded to see proof that we are exempt from the local hose pipe ban !!!!

I have said to them I won’t be showing them anything as it’s private but they can report me if I want and the water company can check.

We literally have just been filling a small paddling pool daily for the dc for after school and today have a little sprinkler toy as it’s boiling.

I know some people aren’t aware that there are exemptions (eg being on priority services register or certain tariff) but I’m so shocked they demanded proof !!!

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ThreadGuardDog · 13/07/2026 16:41

whynotwhatknot · 13/07/2026 13:16

my neighbour who is in a wheelchair is exempt. his able bodied wife is out every day with the hosepipe watering her plants. i don't get how that's allowed

It’s really not. The exemption is for the benefit of the disabled person themselves.

ThreadGuardDog · 13/07/2026 16:43

BlueFahrenheit · 13/07/2026 16:34

All of my sprinklers are on, and my grass looks wondrous.

Water shortages are none of my concern. We pay water companies to invest in the infrastructure.

I don't think running a sprinkler will prevent disabled people from drinking a glass of water.

Might mean they can’t run their washing machine, or take a shower when they need to though.

JenniferBooth · 13/07/2026 16:43

BlueFahrenheit · 13/07/2026 16:39

What's the correlation between your choosing to live in social housing and me using my garden sprinklers?

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A, no one CHOOSES to live in social housing
b. i live in a top floor flat with no garden. I would quite like to turn my tap on and actually have some water come out of it. I dont have a garden because i didnt have kids which is part of the reason i have to live in this shithole sauna that passes as a flat. I dont get to have a garden to escape to. I dont see why i may have to go without basic water for washing because someone has chosen to have their sprinklers on for hours YOU are the one who mentioned choice THERES your choice

BlueFahrenheit · 13/07/2026 16:47

godmum56 · 11/07/2026 22:32

so you might be using more than 100 quidsworth

Oh, I most definitely am. I feel no way about it either.

I'll never install a water meter. My friend did, and her basement annex flooded, damaging precious artwork and valuables.

BlueFahrenheit · 13/07/2026 16:53

ThreadGuardDog · 13/07/2026 16:43

Might mean they can’t run their washing machine, or take a shower when they need to though.

Handwash. If the water pressure drops, wait a while.

The UK is far from being arid and devoid of rain.

BlueFahrenheit · 13/07/2026 16:56

JenniferBooth · 13/07/2026 16:43

A, no one CHOOSES to live in social housing
b. i live in a top floor flat with no garden. I would quite like to turn my tap on and actually have some water come out of it. I dont have a garden because i didnt have kids which is part of the reason i have to live in this shithole sauna that passes as a flat. I dont get to have a garden to escape to. I dont see why i may have to go without basic water for washing because someone has chosen to have their sprinklers on for hours YOU are the one who mentioned choice THERES your choice

Be grateful you have social housing. Many people will gladly take your home from your hands.

Decorate it. Make it look nice. Open the windows and enjoy the views from the top floor.

Water is available to you. You are not living in an arid desert.

sittingonabeach · 13/07/2026 16:57

@BlueFahrenheit is that what you will do if your water pressure is impacted, or can’t flush the loo?

We know the water companies are shit but that doesn’t mean we can’t be sensible to help our neighbours especially if they are more vulnerable. Won’t help them if they have an exemption but the water pressure in their area drops. What if they have medical equipment reliant on water supply. But as long as your lawn is green

BlueFahrenheit · 13/07/2026 17:04

sittingonabeach · 13/07/2026 16:57

@BlueFahrenheit is that what you will do if your water pressure is impacted, or can’t flush the loo?

We know the water companies are shit but that doesn’t mean we can’t be sensible to help our neighbours especially if they are more vulnerable. Won’t help them if they have an exemption but the water pressure in their area drops. What if they have medical equipment reliant on water supply. But as long as your lawn is green

Once again, it is not my responsibility to correct the aged infrastructure. Summer isn't a new phenomenon.

I would presume one who relies on medical equipment requiring access to water would have a reserve reservoir.

And yes, I want a green lawn. I paid enough money for my property, and I am paying through the roof in council tax. Naturally, I want it to look presentable.

JenniferBooth · 13/07/2026 17:05

BlueFahrenheit · 13/07/2026 16:56

Be grateful you have social housing. Many people will gladly take your home from your hands.

Decorate it. Make it look nice. Open the windows and enjoy the views from the top floor.

Water is available to you. You are not living in an arid desert.

Many ppl will gladly take my home????????????? Hah yeah thats why the flat opposite has been empty for two years.
Be grateful? It isnt free and the water bill is paid seperately just like yours is. DH is 76 with COPD So at higher risk
Guess i should also be grateful for the druggies that broke into DHs scooter shed.

BlueFahrenheit · 13/07/2026 17:09

JenniferBooth · 13/07/2026 17:05

Many ppl will gladly take my home????????????? Hah yeah thats why the flat opposite has been empty for two years.
Be grateful? It isnt free and the water bill is paid seperately just like yours is. DH is 76 with COPD So at higher risk
Guess i should also be grateful for the druggies that broke into DHs scooter shed.

Well, the private market is available.

Feel free to peruse the offerings and return your flat to the local authority.

JohnnieFedora · 13/07/2026 17:18

ThreadGuardDog · 13/07/2026 16:17

Or are you saying that able bodied people who can carry buckets of water back and forth should be the only people allowed?

Yes. Bang on. The exemptions are issued for the benefit of the disabled person. Not the rest of the household. In OP’s case a child. So OP is using the exemption to fill a paddling pool with a hosepipe which is not in the spirit of the ban, because she’s perfectly capable of using a watering can like everyone else.

So what if it's not "in the spirit"?

If the child holds the hosepipe and turn on the tap then what? Is that suddenly all fine?

JenniferBooth · 13/07/2026 17:19

BlueFahrenheit · 13/07/2026 17:09

Well, the private market is available.

Feel free to peruse the offerings and return your flat to the local authority.

Its not owned by the local authority Its always been HA Incidentally it has a bath but no shower. Perhaps i should fill the bath EVERY time i need to cool off rather than jumping in and out of the same water every couple of hours. Because im sure that a, someone like you would call me entitled if i asked again for a shower to be fitted so thems the breaks and why the fuck should i be made a mug of and conserve water when ppl more well off than me cant be bothered. By the way i DO agree with you about the water companies making mugs of us all but you lost me when you told me to be grateful for a sauna that has caused a bilateral ear infection due to the heat and humidity in here (DIAGNOSED) and led to hearing loss

JohnnieFedora · 13/07/2026 17:21

ThreadGuardDog · 13/07/2026 16:04

If you have a disabled child and their disability is adversely affected by the heat, then it’s perfectly reasonable to use a hosepipe to fill a paddling pool OR a sprinkler for them to cool off. That’s what the exemption is for, but there has to be evidence that the heat makes the condition worse.

Who's policing that?

Nobody.

You have one child with a need, and 2 others without...are the other two not allowed to use the sprinklers etc?

AlwaysExtraHot · 13/07/2026 17:21

Are they generally a busybody or is this new?
Either way, a brief silence, a Paddington hard stare and a 'Why on earth would you say that?' should do the trick.

ThreadGuardDog · 13/07/2026 17:25

JohnnieFedora · 13/07/2026 17:21

Who's policing that?

Nobody.

You have one child with a need, and 2 others without...are the other two not allowed to use the sprinklers etc?

The ban doesn’t apply to the actual use ot the sprinklers or whatever, it’s how they are filled. It’s primarily for the benefit of the disabled person. And of course no-one polices it. That’s why it’s an easy piss take - unless of course NDN decides to be an arse.

BlueFahrenheit · 13/07/2026 17:26

JenniferBooth · 13/07/2026 17:19

Its not owned by the local authority Its always been HA Incidentally it has a bath but no shower. Perhaps i should fill the bath EVERY time i need to cool off rather than jumping in and out of the same water every couple of hours. Because im sure that a, someone like you would call me entitled if i asked again for a shower to be fitted so thems the breaks and why the fuck should i be made a mug of and conserve water when ppl more well off than me cant be bothered. By the way i DO agree with you about the water companies making mugs of us all but you lost me when you told me to be grateful for a sauna that has caused a bilateral ear infection due to the heat and humidity in here (DIAGNOSED) and led to hearing loss

Yes, fill the bathtub each time you want to cool off. Reuse the water if you are energy-conscious.

Why would you think I care whether your home receives a shower? Your mind is running wild with you, dear. I can only presume it's the heatwave.

You'll need to speak with your GP about your ear infection and explore what can be done to prevent it.

JohnnieFedora · 13/07/2026 17:27

SquirrelGG · 13/07/2026 08:31

So? We sometimes have hosing restrictions where I live, I've never heard of anyone being exempt for any reason and we are far more likely to have drought conditions than the UK is.

So? Read a bit more and you'll discover lots of people are exempt.

ThreadGuardDog · 13/07/2026 17:27

JohnnieFedora · 13/07/2026 17:18

So what if it's not "in the spirit"?

If the child holds the hosepipe and turn on the tap then what? Is that suddenly all fine?

If you like. Can’t be bothered explaining again.

BlueFahrenheit · 13/07/2026 17:27

Hopefully, I never have the misfortune of having an altercation with the 'water police'.

JenniferBooth · 13/07/2026 17:28

BlueFahrenheit · 13/07/2026 17:26

Yes, fill the bathtub each time you want to cool off. Reuse the water if you are energy-conscious.

Why would you think I care whether your home receives a shower? Your mind is running wild with you, dear. I can only presume it's the heatwave.

You'll need to speak with your GP about your ear infection and explore what can be done to prevent it.

I already have What the hell do you think diagnosed means Sounds like your uni education was wasted

BestZebbie · 13/07/2026 17:28

HoseBan · 11/07/2026 16:35

My NDN has just demanded to see proof that we are exempt from the local hose pipe ban !!!!

I have said to them I won’t be showing them anything as it’s private but they can report me if I want and the water company can check.

We literally have just been filling a small paddling pool daily for the dc for after school and today have a little sprinkler toy as it’s boiling.

I know some people aren’t aware that there are exemptions (eg being on priority services register or certain tariff) but I’m so shocked they demanded proof !!!

Why are you filling the pool fresh every day?? Fill it once a week and top it up with one bucket in between if it evaporates noticeably - you don't need a complete change daily, it isn't a bath.

HauntedBungalow · 13/07/2026 17:31

Mosquitoes

BlueFahrenheit · 13/07/2026 17:32

JenniferBooth · 13/07/2026 17:28

I already have What the hell do you think diagnosed means Sounds like your uni education was wasted

It certainly wasn't wasted, dear. I am not 'struggling' like you.

You can receive a diagnosis and still explore alternative treatments, or perhaps you could ask your Housing Association to give you a house with a garden.

BelieveInCher · 13/07/2026 17:33

Oh my god this thread is nuts. Who cares why the OP has an exemption? She just does, and it’s up to her to decide how to fill a paddling pool! People need to get a grip, I think all hosepipe bans should be ignored anyway but that’s another thread entirely.

JenniferBooth · 13/07/2026 17:35

BlueFahrenheit · 13/07/2026 17:32

It certainly wasn't wasted, dear. I am not 'struggling' like you.

You can receive a diagnosis and still explore alternative treatments, or perhaps you could ask your Housing Association to give you a house with a garden.

Siri show me someone who knows fuck all about social housing apart from what they have read in the Daily Mail
NO KIDS = NO HOUSE

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