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Police investigating death of Ann Widdicombe

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GoodHonest · 10/07/2026 15:42

Very strange

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HowManyHints · 10/07/2026 18:36

And many of them are on Mumsnet, showing their collective arse every single day.

PeopleWatching17 · 10/07/2026 18:36

EnquiringMindsWantToKnow · 10/07/2026 15:44

Seems like she fell and died from a head injury. But of course the Daily Mail exaggerate the "police investigating a murder" because obviously the police have to rule that out.

Keep talking…

CrossPurposes · 10/07/2026 18:37

Noodledog · 10/07/2026 17:07

"Heather" Herbert also posted this about Anne Widdecombe on X. Truly a vicious and warped man.

This just to be clear, Heather Herbert posted this on Bluesky not X. You know the place that the be kind people went to because X/Twitter is a cesspit.

Starsnrainbows · 10/07/2026 18:42

They've arrested a 26 year old male.

HoraceCope · 10/07/2026 18:42

PeopleWatching17 · 10/07/2026 18:36

Keep talking…

Why such a smart alec attitude? Time moves on

LoudTealHare · 10/07/2026 18:48

EnquiringMindsWantToKnow · 10/07/2026 15:44

Seems like she fell and died from a head injury. But of course the Daily Mail exaggerate the "police investigating a murder" because obviously the police have to rule that out.

Wrong! They’ve arrested someone in connection with her death! It’s on Dky News and other more reputable outlets than the DM!

Sidebeforeself · 10/07/2026 18:49

LoudTealHare · 10/07/2026 18:48

Wrong! They’ve arrested someone in connection with her death! It’s on Dky News and other more reputable outlets than the DM!

And now you’re the fool for not reading that posters updates!!Sorry to piss on your chips.

Owly11 · 10/07/2026 18:56

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Jane379 · 10/07/2026 18:59

SerafinasGoose · 10/07/2026 17:26

This woman had guts, intelligence and the courage of her convictions. All are qualities I admire. She could debate robustly with those who disagreed with her, without trying to stymie or stifle their opinions. I respect genuine religious conviction - on which a lot of her views were predicated - albeit I don't share that political or spirtual worldview.

I'd take a hundred Ann Widdecombes over one cardboard cutout 'royal'. This was a woman of substance, the kind this country sorely needs. Nor do I care in the circumstances what her views were. Nobody, nobody deserves this - nor do they deserve the kind of ridicule she got in life, to which she responded with such grace.

I'm sorry about her death irrespective of the other awful details now unfolding.

'I respect genuine religious conviction - on which a lot of her views were predicated '

  • not sure about this. More generally than specifically Widdecombe, a lot of bad things have been done by people due to genuine religious conviction. Was Queen Mary I burning Protestants less bad because it was from genuine religious conviction that she was saving their souls?

On Anne Widdecombe specifically, I definitely agree that she had good qualities. I would say re the royals, that I'm a Republican but don't they have a different job? They can't by definition be outspoken the way an MP can, so if course they seem like cardboard cutouts.

On this though: 'nor do they deserve the kind of ridicule she got in life, to which she responded with such grace'

  • not sure about this either. Widdecombe was ridiculed but so were, and are, many politicians. Arguably being a politician comes with that caveat.

It could be said she was treated unfairly due to her sex but Widdecombe herself rejected that. Sophy Ridge's book The Women Who Shaped Politics is excellent and in it, Widdecombe says that she wasn't mocked any more than male colleagues like Ken Clarke and that 'somehow we only focus when a woman's getting it', although maybe she was just being stoic.

It's also arguable that Widdecombe contributed to the ridicule herself by playing up her eccentric image on Strictly, and similar.

DeanElderberry · 10/07/2026 19:00

It could be the usual, local addict (alcohol or otherwise), known to her, demanding money with menaces.

Terribly sad. I didn't always agree with her but I admired her honesty and spirit.

MegJoBethandAmytoo · 10/07/2026 19:00

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An MP being interviewed on the radio just said that she was blungoned to death. That is awful enough. I do hope there was no sexual violence. She must have been terrified.

Sidebeforeself · 10/07/2026 19:10

MegJoBethandAmytoo · 10/07/2026 19:00

An MP being interviewed on the radio just said that she was blungoned to death. That is awful enough. I do hope there was no sexual violence. She must have been terrified.

I very much doubt he knew that for sure and that’s the kind of distasteful comment that is unnecessary at this stage ( his not yours!)

GisGasGus · 10/07/2026 19:12

Sidebeforeself · 10/07/2026 19:10

I very much doubt he knew that for sure and that’s the kind of distasteful comment that is unnecessary at this stage ( his not yours!)

Probably true though as head wound and a lot of blood has been widely reported

SerafinasGoose · 10/07/2026 19:15

Jane379 · 10/07/2026 18:59

'I respect genuine religious conviction - on which a lot of her views were predicated '

  • not sure about this. More generally than specifically Widdecombe, a lot of bad things have been done by people due to genuine religious conviction. Was Queen Mary I burning Protestants less bad because it was from genuine religious conviction that she was saving their souls?

On Anne Widdecombe specifically, I definitely agree that she had good qualities. I would say re the royals, that I'm a Republican but don't they have a different job? They can't by definition be outspoken the way an MP can, so if course they seem like cardboard cutouts.

On this though: 'nor do they deserve the kind of ridicule she got in life, to which she responded with such grace'

  • not sure about this either. Widdecombe was ridiculed but so were, and are, many politicians. Arguably being a politician comes with that caveat.

It could be said she was treated unfairly due to her sex but Widdecombe herself rejected that. Sophy Ridge's book The Women Who Shaped Politics is excellent and in it, Widdecombe says that she wasn't mocked any more than male colleagues like Ken Clarke and that 'somehow we only focus when a woman's getting it', although maybe she was just being stoic.

It's also arguable that Widdecombe contributed to the ridicule herself by playing up her eccentric image on Strictly, and similar.

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I have already explained my response to this upthread.

Jane379 · 10/07/2026 19:22

SerafinasGoose · 10/07/2026 19:15

I have already explained my response to this upthread.

I'm sorry, I hadn't looked at page 8 yet. Thank you.

Whatever her views were, it's disgusting people are gloating over an elderly woman being murdered in her own home. I didn't read her column but did see her when I bought the Daily Express and it seems surreally terrifying that this has suddenly happened.

I wonder if she had been offered a bodyguard/protection? I can imagine she might have refused from stoicism though.

Gonnagetgoingreturnsagain · 10/07/2026 19:24

Jane379 · 10/07/2026 19:22

I'm sorry, I hadn't looked at page 8 yet. Thank you.

Whatever her views were, it's disgusting people are gloating over an elderly woman being murdered in her own home. I didn't read her column but did see her when I bought the Daily Express and it seems surreally terrifying that this has suddenly happened.

I wonder if she had been offered a bodyguard/protection? I can imagine she might have refused from stoicism though.

I feel quite sad about her death now. She was harmless enough and a good sport appearing on Strictly.

Jane379 · 10/07/2026 19:26

Sinescure · 10/07/2026 17:51

She left the C of E and converted to Catholicism in protest at the ordination of women. Not a conviction I can even remotely respect, and I was raised Catholic.

I didn't like anything about her but a very sad way for a life to end.

Yes, she took some very strong positions on women that I disagreed with. I remember during the Ched Evans case she defended the use of the victim's sexual history. Otoh she was a devoted champion of animal rights...she could be very hard but also compassionate. She equalised the state pension age, and she was very hurt by the myth (which people are repeating now!) that she shackled female prisoners while in labour.

It's interesting also that despite her stress on traditionalism, she was quite open about enjoying the pros of the (arguably non-traditional) life she had without a husband (or children, though she regretted this) and focused on energetic debate in the House if Commons.

Jane379 · 10/07/2026 19:29

Gonnagetgoingreturnsagain · 10/07/2026 19:24

I feel quite sad about her death now. She was harmless enough and a good sport appearing on Strictly.

I wouldn't say Widdecombe was necessarily harmless. She was astute to play up the eccentric image in Strictly but that didn't negate the fact she remained an active politician supporting a lot of things I thought were harmful through her career (though of course you may disagree).

But that's immaterial to her brutal murder. No one deserves to be murdered, and the circumstances are particularly awful. I'm a carer for an elderly person & I just thank my stars that I am able to be there with them. Widdecombe probably relished her independence as she had a right to, but I wish she had had some protection with her in the house....

MegJoBethandAmytoo · 10/07/2026 19:30

Sidebeforeself · 10/07/2026 19:10

I very much doubt he knew that for sure and that’s the kind of distasteful comment that is unnecessary at this stage ( his not yours!)

I think he forgot himself and let his guard down. To be fair a couple of other friends of hers said the similar. They said they'd been told how she was found and the state of her body. For all we know, the autopsy has already been completed but I take your point.

Ponoka7 · 10/07/2026 19:44

Noodledog · 10/07/2026 17:07

"Heather" Herbert also posted this about Anne Widdecombe on X. Truly a vicious and warped man.

That's what I predominantly remember Widdicombe for, saying it was appropriate for women to be transported in handcuffs and shackles, while needing labour/antenatal care. Also being put back in handcuffs, straight after birth. 10 women, non had violent offences, had escaped while attending all hospital visits, over 10 years. Around one violent man, for some reason wasn't handcuffed and managed to escape, weekly. She refused to allow midwives/antenatal care to go into prisons, even though birth charities were begging for it. She was gleefully in interviews about it. Very much had the punishment attitude that mirrored the laundries/mother and baby homes. Your description of truly vicious and warped was most apt.

kittensinthekitchen · 10/07/2026 19:44

OhBuggerandArse · 10/07/2026 16:11

Exactly that. @Mumsnet, why isn't my posting of the same image allowed?

Not read beyond the comment I'm replying to btw, but maybe your image submissions don't get through because of your username

upinaballoon · 10/07/2026 19:47

JulietteHasAGun · 10/07/2026 18:07

Heather Herbert is the man who took photos of himself lying on the floor of a woman’s toilet in an airport dilating an orifice after surgery. I’m not 100% sure if he was just shoving a vibrator up his arse and getting off on it or had had a “neo vagina” made. Even so, no need to do that in such a venue.

For a start, who would want to lie down on the floor of a woman's toilet at an airport. Did he/she put a blanket down first?

GoodHonest · 10/07/2026 20:01

upinaballoon · 10/07/2026 19:47

For a start, who would want to lie down on the floor of a woman's toilet at an airport. Did he/she put a blanket down first?

It's a he. Definitely a he and will always be a he.

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Jane379 · 10/07/2026 20:18

Ponoka7 · 10/07/2026 19:44

That's what I predominantly remember Widdicombe for, saying it was appropriate for women to be transported in handcuffs and shackles, while needing labour/antenatal care. Also being put back in handcuffs, straight after birth. 10 women, non had violent offences, had escaped while attending all hospital visits, over 10 years. Around one violent man, for some reason wasn't handcuffed and managed to escape, weekly. She refused to allow midwives/antenatal care to go into prisons, even though birth charities were begging for it. She was gleefully in interviews about it. Very much had the punishment attitude that mirrored the laundries/mother and baby homes. Your description of truly vicious and warped was most apt.

I hadn't realised the full extent of this

If that's what she did, that was callous, no other word for it.

Odd in the light if her religious convictions too, arguably. Catholicism does have a punitive side in some manifestations but plenty of schools of thought within it would be opposed to treating pregnant women that way. Odd for a woman who claimed to support the traditional role of women- you'd think compassion to mothers in about to give birth would be part of that.

Still, whatever she did doesn't mean she deserved the brutal murder (I know you weren't saying that but it's worth reinforcing given the kind of comments on some of SM)

JulietteHasAGun · 10/07/2026 20:21

upinaballoon · 10/07/2026 19:47

For a start, who would want to lie down on the floor of a woman's toilet at an airport. Did he/she put a blanket down first?

Didn’t look like there was a blanket. Yes, my first thought was that he might be lying in wee if he was in a cubicle. Followed by how was there enough room to lie down in a cubicle. Then worried that he lay full,stretch by the sinks with a dilator/vibrator up an orifice while taking selfies.

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