I think it's now agreed that whereas in the 70s Tom Good was seen as a bit of a hero, he was actually loathed as a character by Richard Briers for essentially jacking in his job and forcing Barbs into subsistence farming because he couldn't cope with the idea of being 40.
You could see her starting an AIBU thread 🧵 on it. "My DH came home before his 40th birthday and announced he was ploughing up our front garden and buying 20 bags of horse manure to set up a suburban farm..."