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cardibach · Yesterday 11:17

NoisyHiker · Yesterday 11:16

The asylum system is not fit for purpose in 2026.

You simply cannot sustain a large percentage of the global population who want to live in a better/easier country. It is just making it shitter for everyone.

I am a child of immigrants, and my elders have been complaining about illegal immigration for years. My father, before he passed, was very angry at young men being allowed to come here, who view women as nothing more than dumb beasts to be used or abused, and don't even have their criminal history checked properly.

He wanted his wife and girls to feel safe in a country, which could only happen in one with Western values. He was enraged that the scum he tried so hard to protect us from can just waltz on in.

(Just to add that of course white men can do evil things, but the difference is your society and social circles do not condone or encourage it).

Well we need to sort out the system then, because climate change and increasing instability are going to create many more asylum seekers. An international approach is needed in my view. Campaign for that.

AlternateLook · Yesterday 11:18

PinkandPerky · Yesterday 11:14

Children are in the UK stabbed every day.

I didn't see this one reach the main news headlines.
Is it because this child was black?

https://metro.co.uk/2026/06/05/shopkeepers-battled-save-life-boy-stabbed-death-front-families-28661392/

Yes, because not a word was said when white racists horrifically stabbed Stephen Lawrence to death, eh..?

EasternStandard · Yesterday 11:18

ReleaseTheDucksOfWar · Yesterday 11:17

for anyone who's interested in some actual facts - Immigration is very heavily down.

Net migration was 171,000 in 2025, lower than the levels seen during the 2010s and a sharp decline from the unusually high levels in 2022 and 2023. In 2025, 67% of non-EU immigration was for work and study purposes.

Between March 22 - 23 1,470,000 people immigrated - ten times as high. (For the people who love blaming Labour for immigration, in 2023 the Conservatives were in power. Not that I expect silly things like facts to influence hate-filled opinions).

And in fact:

There is net emigration of British citizens, with more leaving than returning. In 2025, this was estimated at 136,000, although the figures are highly uncertain. This is higher than previously published figures due to a change in methodology. There is not currently any evidence that emigration has increased since 2022, although fewer Brits are returning to the UK.

What has this got to do with the asylum system?

ReleaseTheDucksOfWar · Yesterday 11:18

Watermelonsugar44 · Yesterday 11:17

While I agree with your first sentence, you would have to be pretty odd not to be morally outraged by this wouldn’t you?

And whereas in the past this sort of thing was very rare, it feels like something like this is reported much more often now.

And it does seem to be downplayed nowadays I agree. If they are scared of civil unrest, they need meaningful action to prevent these occurrences in the first place.

It was reported less. If you think that worse - much, much worse - than this didn't go on 40 years ago, it's because it wasn't reported. Unfortunately I had first hand experience of seeing this 'worse'.

Ginmonkeyagain · Yesterday 11:19

Imagine being so dumb you don't understand why it might take reputable media organisation a bit longer to check a story and report it in a factual and truthful way than it takes davy23543 to upload a video on to twitter with no verification.

Monty36 · Yesterday 11:20

ReleaseTheDucksOfWar · Yesterday 11:17

for anyone who's interested in some actual facts - Immigration is very heavily down.

Net migration was 171,000 in 2025, lower than the levels seen during the 2010s and a sharp decline from the unusually high levels in 2022 and 2023. In 2025, 67% of non-EU immigration was for work and study purposes.

Between March 22 - 23 1,470,000 people immigrated - ten times as high. (For the people who love blaming Labour for immigration, in 2023 the Conservatives were in power. Not that I expect silly things like facts to influence hate-filled opinions).

And in fact:

There is net emigration of British citizens, with more leaving than returning. In 2025, this was estimated at 136,000, although the figures are highly uncertain. This is higher than previously published figures due to a change in methodology. There is not currently any evidence that emigration has increased since 2022, although fewer Brits are returning to the UK.

Many people I think do not realise a lot of the brown people they see are British. They cannot be deported anywhere.
The boats do need sorting out. They need to find a solution so they do not land or claim they have landed in the UK.
The pretend shops selling drugs need closing. All of them.

cardibach · Yesterday 11:20

ForeverPombear · Yesterday 10:00

I agree with everything you say apart from my only concern with not censoring somethings is where it comes to court cases and the right to a fair trial. Imagine if it were shared around the country all over social media and his lawyers managed to argue that he didn't get a fair trial because of that. I'm not sure what the answer is though because if that video wasn't out it would just be seen as a stabbing rather than beheading.

if that video wasn't out it would just be seen as a stabbing rather than beheading
Sorry - are you arguing that the court, with medical evidence of the victim’s injuries, wouldn’t be able to know how vicious the attack was unless people circulated the video on social media? Really?

MaturingCheeseball · Yesterday 11:21

I think we’ve had enough of “it’s just a mentally-unwell individual” narrative. This is a crime particular to a certain demographic. I’m sorry, but we have to say No to asylum from Somalia. This country is over-represented in violent crime and failure to find employment. See also the situation in the US: rampant fraud and sending of government benefits to corrupt and terror-related organisations.

ReleaseTheDucksOfWar · Yesterday 11:21

@EasternStandard It has a great deal to do with the far-right agenda that the UK is being flooded with asylum seekers.

Those figures don't take into account illegal immigrants, admittedly. Not sure what those are.

Persephonia1966 · Yesterday 11:22

WaitingForSomeone · Yesterday 11:07

It's not good for the victims family you are right, but if the footage isn't posted there are definitely attempts from the media and gov to minimise the incident.

I saw it with my own eyes this morning, daily mail first reported it as a stabbing and now changed the title to beheading.
I guarantee for a fact if the video wasn't circulated everywhere they would not have mentioned the race (Somalian man) and put beheading.

Just like when those little girls got killed in Southport and they refused to mention the race of the guy who did it until they basically had to.
There is some strange agenda going on from the government, maybe because Labour have a large minority vote proportion?

Southport it's because he was under 18. That is NOT me saying he isn't responsible, but the UK police have rules on not revealing the identity of under 18 year olds. Look through any news report and you will see the over 18s on trial are named but the younger ones are referred to by age and sex only. It was very unusual for them to release his identity but they had to because of false rumours.

Recently there was a case of a suspected rape in a churchyard and there was immediate outrage that the police hadn't released the ethnicities/names of the suspects. So people rioted. In that case it turned out (very fortunately) that the lady had not been raped at all. But even when rapes do occur, women don't always know the identity of their attackers don't always see who attacked them in order to give a description. Especially when they have a head injury/are unconscious. That there was no awareness of this fact at all, just an instant demand for all the details shows that the shit stirrers weren't really concerned with the well being of the victim.

We live in a 24 hour media world now. It wasn't that long ago you had to wait at least a day for the paper to see a story, or at least a few hours till the regular news. It's great that information is much quicker but most news sources will still report the main details as breaking news and only a little later give details on the suspect etc. that's normal and nothing to do with them being forced to do it by the details being shared online first. I would rather the BBC waited an hour to fact check everything before reporting details actually. Waiting an hour longer to find out if the attacker was black won't hurt you.

BeamFloorDoor · Yesterday 11:22

Monty36 · Yesterday 11:09

I was raised in the 70’s when violence was a norm. Football riots were normal.
In the 80’s riots were normal. Rioting against poll taxes, police and miners fighting each other. The violence in Northern Ireland was talked about almost daily.
We have always had violence in this country. Violent criminals, murders, from the East End to Manchester.
Pretending we have all lived in some rosy chocolate box world for decades is kidding yourself.
More of it we do not need. I agree with that. But please don’t pretend violence was unknown to us in generations prior to mass immigration. We have managed to be violent for a long time.

I think the current violence is of a completely 'new' character and prevalence.

I do not recall football, poll tax or miner rioters getting people on the floor and trying to methodically saw their head off with a knife without so much as a flinch.

Perhaps our recollections vary.

Monty36 · Yesterday 11:23

BeamFloorDoor · Yesterday 11:22

I think the current violence is of a completely 'new' character and prevalence.

I do not recall football, poll tax or miner rioters getting people on the floor and trying to methodically saw their head off with a knife without so much as a flinch.

Perhaps our recollections vary.

You never heard of the Krays then. Or similar….

Wishing14 · Yesterday 11:23

@Ginmonkeyagainwhy the personal insults? Does it make you feel good to put people down?

EasternStandard · Yesterday 11:24

ReleaseTheDucksOfWar · Yesterday 11:21

@EasternStandard It has a great deal to do with the far-right agenda that the UK is being flooded with asylum seekers.

Those figures don't take into account illegal immigrants, admittedly. Not sure what those are.

It’s more likely not someone on a work visa, your figures are for legal migration.

A pp mentioned checks for asylum process, there are not checks.

CurlewKate · Yesterday 11:24

Incidentally-Starmer and the local MP and the Stormont Justice Minister have all made statements on this incident that is apparently not being reported. Farage has made a political point out of it.

Lifeomars · Yesterday 11:25

innalittlepickle · Yesterday 11:10

Bloody hell the Guardian must have had painful fingers typing this sentence out, albeit the 4th para down 'The arrested man was reported to be Somalian in his 30s.'

As I said, it is a brief factual report, if you want drama go to the Mail. Personally I find it appalling and I have no desire to wallow in all the details.

PinkandPerky · Yesterday 11:25

AlternateLook · Yesterday 11:18

Yes, because not a word was said when white racists horrifically stabbed Stephen Lawrence to death, eh..?

Not for years, no.

Stephen's own parents had to lead a prosecution in the end.
The police did nothing.

EasternStandard · Yesterday 11:25

CurlewKate · Yesterday 11:24

Incidentally-Starmer and the local MP and the Stormont Justice Minister have all made statements on this incident that is apparently not being reported. Farage has made a political point out of it.

Has Starmer said what he’ll change to make people safer or was it just some empty word like ‘sickening’.

innalittlepickle · Yesterday 11:25

BeamFloorDoor · Yesterday 11:22

I think the current violence is of a completely 'new' character and prevalence.

I do not recall football, poll tax or miner rioters getting people on the floor and trying to methodically saw their head off with a knife without so much as a flinch.

Perhaps our recollections vary.

Yeah.. Gang rapes at footy matches, not so much

StandingDeskDisco · Yesterday 11:26

Monty36 · Yesterday 11:00

If you cannot work that out I am really sorry. I am struggling to know where to begin.
Power via the media can influence. Advertising has done that for years. Using it to influence politics can change how a nation votes.
Influence persuades organisations to do whatever the influencer wants it to. Lobbyists have sought to influence this way for years. From who gets what contract to build what, etc.
Money comes from all of the influence and power.
Musk is a MAGA man. If America MAGA can persuade via influence the UK to vote Reform in, America would largely manage the UK.
Who manages America is up for question too.
This is a very short version to explain - a bit.

If America MAGA can persuade via influence the UK to vote Reform in, America would largely manage the UK.

I understand media and political influence. But it is a bit of a leap to say that if Reform are voted in, Musk et al will largely manage the UK.
Yes, if Reform get in there will be honours and contracts handed out as rewards, I can see that, but isn't that the case with all political parties now?
Perhaps privatisation of the NHS is the big one - I can see how that would be a strategic goal of American business.

Besides which, if there is widespread civil unrest, no-one will be managing the UK. Once the genie of mob violence on the streets is released, it is not an easy thing to get it back in the bottle.

innalittlepickle · Yesterday 11:27

EasternStandard · Yesterday 11:25

Has Starmer said what he’ll change to make people safer or was it just some empty word like ‘sickening’.

I'm sure he was 'appalled'.

Dandelionsalad · Yesterday 11:27

People "have a right to be angry" they don't have the right to centre their needs/feelings at the expense of justice, the victims or the victims families.

Their need to be safe? Their concern for their families? The suggestion that only those close to a victim get to comment on violence in their communities is just another attempt to shut down and cover up. ‘Justice’ has never been limited to only the immediate victim and their family.

Dollymylove · Yesterday 11:27

MsJinks · Yesterday 10:38

I never said this guy shouldn’t be deported. I said checks obviously failed - that does need addressing yes - but don’t extrapolate this failure to mean no asylum seeker should be allowed out. Checks failed on Huntley, on Couzens - we don’t rampage burning caretakers’ homes or cop shops down and demand they’re all detained.

As PP stated upthread, we have enough murderous individuals of our own. We don't want the rest of the world's detritus as well

Persephonia1966 · Yesterday 11:28

BeamFloorDoor · Yesterday 11:22

I think the current violence is of a completely 'new' character and prevalence.

I do not recall football, poll tax or miner rioters getting people on the floor and trying to methodically saw their head off with a knife without so much as a flinch.

Perhaps our recollections vary.

There were horrific murders back then. But they weren't shared online. It wasn't normal to regularly see videos of people being murdered, filmed by bystanders. Instead you read it in the paper or heard it reported by a news reader.
It is good, as a previous poster said, that we have videos now as it does make public authorities more accountable (I agree there). But it doesn't follow that following normal procedures not to jeopardize a trial is automatically a cover up.

If you do follow the logic that if it weren't for Elon Musk sharing the video on twitter the media would have covered it up (as other posters have argued) then logically also maybe there were loads of horrific public murders being done in the 70s and 80s that we don't know about because Twitter and Elon Musk didn't exist to expose them.

EasternStandard · Yesterday 11:29

innalittlepickle · Yesterday 11:27

I'm sure he was 'appalled'.

Oh yes. That’s useful then.

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