I just saw a clip where Matt Fiddes said that an unnamed person told him that Martin Bashir said to hold his hand etc.
And again where's the video footage, Michael had someone recording too?
I am aware that MJ was warned, the rabbi told him not to do it also. But Michael chose to do it anyway, and regardless of what Martin Bashir said or what his intentions were, MJ wasn't forced to put Gavin on camera or hold his hand or say what he said about sleeping in bed with children either. He just did.