How to actually pull in a club?

[hannah181]

All my friends seem to do it but I always seem to be the one left out or getting rejected by guys after approaching them. What do I need to do? Change what I wear change my approach I honestly have no idea now

Well I can tell you that I was never any good at it because I made a shit first impression (still do!)

I don't mean to but I just don't do well with people I don't know (male and female) and I have no idea how to flirt to be able to pull successfully.

I met my husband through a friend which helped.

If I wanted to go out and pull right now? I would struggle big time. I do better when people get to know me although then it's always a long term thing based on my past relationships and subsequent people who have tried to go there.

Bizarre really because I'm not even a nice person 🤣