How to actually pull in a club?

[hannah181]

All my friends seem to do it but I always seem to be the one left out or getting rejected by guys after approaching them. What do I need to do? Change what I wear change my approach I honestly have no idea now

Wear sexy clothes that show your legs or/and boobs. Go to pubs/clubs that have a late licence. Dance in a suggestive manner towards the end of the night and wait for the men to leer/grope at you. It will likely be a ons and he probably won’t get it up due to all the alcohol.

Can you say that in English please?

Brief eye contact. If they are interested, they will come over.

Copy your friends....apparently they are successful when you are not!
Improve your social skills. If you talk like you type even the most desperate incel is unlikely to bother approaching you.

The OP sounds very robotic. People like someone easygoing to chat to and have a laugh with …

Its been a long tine since i have pulled in a club but excess alcohol and catching the eye of someone who looked fanciable sermed to do the trick.

When "Hannah met Harry"or Hannah is harry another male attempt to try and get women to talk about wearing tight clothing.

Look until he looks and then drop eye contact, and peek after a second. Suppress a smile and turn away. Worked every time.

For men, standing at the side looking moody seemed to be the winning formula.

I used to find being drunk helped a lot.

How do you look more attractive as a women tho? Is it about getting more curvy

No, it isn’t. Men, as you know fancy women.

Why don’t you ask these friends of yours who are so successful with the men? That seems the obvious solution.

Sir, how do you think a woman can get more curvy, your thread is weird.

I was once given the advice ‘tits, arse, hair’ and IME that’s generally true

You need to give us some info about you if you actually want some help.

What age group are you in? And a rough geographical region?

Honestly, dating/courtship is basically like a wildlife documentary. It’s all about finding your tribe and being attractive to the real prospects you will be infront of.

It’s no use advising you how to dress to be attractive to 25 year old men in a swanky major city centre bar if you are 45 and like going to a bikers/metal venue in the North East.

Sounds a bit like someone looking to get a few kicks from asking women about being 'more curvy' and tight clothes...

Though Karen Gillan is so ridiculously attractive that no hair flicking is needed.

I do always enjoy Jack Black’s lip-biting and hair flicking, though.

(New Jumanji film out next month, I believe?)

This. Wear a nun’s habit, OP. Always gets them going on the dance floor.

😂

I think we're all been taken for a bit of a ride here.....

It’s no use advising you how to dress to be attractive to 25 year old men in a swanky major city centre bar if you are 45 and like going to a bikers/metal venue in the North East.

I don’t know. 🤔 It’s still ’just exist’.

Dress that barely covers your arse and a padded bra. Look like you're having the best time ever and are super confident. When someone catches your eye look over at them and smile a couple of times. Walk past them to the bar and smile but let them come over to you. Have good banter. Avoid saying bitchy things like 'Can you say that in English please'.

Every single person I've ever been out with including my husband I met in a bar or club. Thankfully that was before the horror that is online dating existed.

I think most people realise it’s a 42yo accountant sitting in his mums spare room. Lol

You don't know what tight and revealing clothes are?

This tight enough? https://www.mountainwarehouse.com/p/021496/mw/womens-full-2-5-2mm-wetsuit/Dark%20Purple/

Ideally make sure your cock isn’t visible poking out of your tiny mini skirt. Especially if you’re aroused at the thought of yourself being so curvy.