Of course I agree the baby dangling was absolutely terrible, and he was clearly on drugs (which I also can understand due to the pressure cooker that was his life, plus the physical pain he was in coupled with the physical and mental demands of his role in a very abnormal life) and he was quite unstable at that point but this thread is about the allegations.
I just want to address the settlement to the families, because now I’ve read the full thread I’ve noticed some people think he actually chose to settle out of court (assuming this was because he was guilty)
MJ desperately wanted to fight the allegations in a court , he was absolutely desperate to clear his name but the insurance company weighed up the cost of him doing so and cancelling his tour vs them paying out and without the tour they stood to lose millions, so they forced the payout and forced him to proceed with his tour instead.
Being MJ he was often a prisoner of the system and did not have free choices and this was one of those times! He was forced to settle and go on tour anyway.
I cannot imagine the pain of living within this trap, controlled and pushed around by money making control systems all the time despite being a real person at the eye of the storm, and now that I no longer believe the allegations I’ve had chance to really think about how that must have felt for him and it’s truly sad.
He didn’t so much ‘invite’ kids into his life for sleepovers as just let many many families come and go as they pleased to Neverland, he wasn’t even there a lot of the times when many many other families were staying there. He just let people stay and use Neverland and he loved the children and let them stay over with him but in doing so he made himself the biggest target. I think it was wrong for sure but just sad, rather than sexually motivated
So yeah I believe it WAS a storm of his own making by not having boundaries with these grifters, but then there was no way out and so he got tarred a pedophile