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What little acts of rebellion or activism do you do?

960 replies

Steelworks · 20/04/2026 07:25

I’m not talking about going on marches, but minor things, that you know about.

Mine is I won’t play Michael Jackson songs, after all the alleged behaviour, which certainly wouldn’t be accepted by today’s standards.

The second is I won’t buy McCain products, after they put out an advert for Smileys, which referred to ‘knocker’s’ in them. I thought that language had died out in the seventies.

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vickylou78 · 20/04/2026 17:47

godmum56 · 20/04/2026 17:36

I have aged out of all but bowel screening and have never been rung to give me an appointment or to chase me to make one. Maybe you have a medical condition that requires regular monitoring? When I was being offered screening, I just used to get an invitation letter and destroy it if I didn't want to go.

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I've got several relatives who had cancer picked up by screening, my mum has breast cancer and she survived because they caught it early. I would prefer more screening!!

Purplebunnie · 20/04/2026 17:48

Tortephant · 20/04/2026 17:31

  • use Ecover washing up liquid, surface cleaner and laundry powder
This isn't. They are owned by Johnson and Johnson who animal test etc etc.

They put a botanical in a formulation to add 'natural' to the label. Its not an eco brand at all, just big brand marketing

We used to stay at holiday cottages where the owner is very eco minded and every cottage is supplied with Ecover. Washing up liquid, cleaning products, everything. It makes my hands sting, no idea what's in it but I can't use it. Now maybe I understand why

vickylou78 · 20/04/2026 17:49

LazyCatLtd · 20/04/2026 17:46

WTF? He most certainly wasn’t innocent.

He was found not guilty in court.

Tortephant · 20/04/2026 17:50

Upanddownandup · 20/04/2026 17:41

That set-up sounds like an accident waiting to happen! 😦

@NovaF call me what you want, I take golf course safety very seriously and so do all golfers I have come across. If you find that entitled and dull that's your business, I call it responsible.
It sounds like a very risky place to play and a dangerous place to walk. I wouldn't be there with a toddler, and if I was I would be moving promptly along paths that crossed the course, for safety and respect.

tequilam0ckingbird · 20/04/2026 17:51

ComfyKnickers · 20/04/2026 16:57

You're taking this way too seriously!!

And you don't actually know how incredibly wealthy I am 😉

I live in an area of very wealthy and not so wealthy. Lots of wealthy people have "normal" cars, nothing flash... and a lot of the less well off people have expensive cars they bought on credit. The young men with souped up cars aren't wealthy either.

TorroFerney · 20/04/2026 17:52

speakball · 20/04/2026 08:46

I refer to animals as she and try to assume drs are female unless told otherwise. I do not remind other adult humans of anyone else’s birthday. I’m that relative.

I do the animal thing. I did it when referring to a bird and my husband said how do you know it's female, he then added I am not trying to be funny I genuinely am interested. Well in the same way you "know" that everything is male my love.

Patriarchy chicken although I live in a nice area and I honestly find it's less necessary than when I go back to the town of my birth which is a bit rough, men are genuinely confused what to do. I also just sit on mens legs if they spread into my seat, just pretend I haven't seen them.

Phoenixfire1988 · 20/04/2026 17:52

nopiesleftinthisvehicle · 20/04/2026 08:31

I suppose he never had any surgery and was alabaster white due to "vitiligo" too?

Guilty as the day is long.

Its well documented he had vitiligo 🙃 many children have said he was protecting them from the predators in Hollywood he had an abysmal childhood and yes that left him mentally unwell but he wanted to keep children safe and protect them from abuse .those parents wanted an easy payday why on earth would you allow a child to continue going somewhere they were being abused and you knew why wait so many years 🤔

GrandmasCat · 20/04/2026 17:53

greymalkinsmum · 20/04/2026 15:06

This was a long time ago, when I was working as an au pair. My duties were supposed to be looking after 2 preschool children, getting them washed dressed and breakfasted, taking them to nursery, cleaning their rooms, laundering their clothes, collecting them from nursery, playing with them, making their tea, getting them washed and ready for bed, so my working day lasted from 7.30 to 8pm Monday to Friday.

The mother in the family was an heiress who owned a lot of expensive properties that were managed by other people. Her life was all about fashion, throwing extravagant parties and holidaying in her other homes in Tobago, Monaco and Paris. After I'd been working for them for a few months she started adding extra jobs to my daily list, hoovering the entire mansion, cleaning all the bedrooms that had been slept in, and doing all the laundry. Her husband shouted at me for not ironing his shirts as neatly as the professional laundry!

One morning after I'd walked the children to nursery I cleaned all the bedrooms, starting with the huge master bedroom and en suite. Then I cleaned the children's bedrooms and as I was hoovering the upstairs corridor she shouted from the master bedroom that she wanted me to COME HERE!

She was lying on the bed with her eyes closed and asked "Did you clean my bathroom?" I replied that I had done it first thing when I started cleaning upstairs. She opened one eye, glared at me and said "Well, clean it again, there are still spots on it!" I opened the ensuite door and reeled at the reek of shit. She'd only just taken a dump and had left skid marks on the toilet bowl the she was demanding I clean for her.

I was living in a tiny flat that belonged to her, I had nowhere else to go. She was so sure that I had no option but to do as I was told. So I did exactly that.

In fact, while I was cleaning the toilet bowl, wearing marigolds and using her own face flannel for the job, I smiled to myself and thought that for thousands and thousands of years slaves will have been doing similar things to retaliate against unjust treatment. It still makes me smile to think of her cleaning herself with the same flannel I used to clean the skid marks off her bog.

I was sharing a flat with a deranged woman who was as a stroppy as a badly raised teenager. She often went traveling leaving me in charge of her cats without even asking me if I would be happy to feed them or clean the overflowing trays, the bathroom was covered with a film of dust of the sand of the trays.

I have never mentioned it but… I often used her toothbrush to clean the bathroom.

At some point we had a proper fall out, I knew she would be waiting for another shouting match or to tell me she wanted me out but at the same time I knew she wouldn’t reimburse any money I had paid when I paid the month in advance and thought she wouldn’t be able to relax if she didn’t know when I was going to show so… went back to the flat on the same day, took all my stuff, locked the bedroom door behind me and left. I posted the keys to her at the end of the month.

Nettie1964 · 20/04/2026 17:54

LiviaDrusillaAugusta · 20/04/2026 16:14

Was the ‘should of’ bit ironic?

Fuelled by Guinness We really didnt care. Irish politics/politicians are about as genuine and lovable as their British counterparts . Also for every election and referendum it means that 1000s of signs bigger than an estate agents for sale sign appear overnight. The whole thread was just getting a bit preachy, so I thought dome good old middle aged misbehaviour might entertain.

TescoFiasco · 20/04/2026 17:54

I refuse to click on obvious click bait links. If it's about something that piques my interest, I can usually figure out what to google and look it up on another website.

Yes, it's petty and pointless but feels better than clicking on all this shite.

ThejoyofNC · 20/04/2026 17:55

nopiesleftinthisvehicle · 20/04/2026 08:31

I suppose he never had any surgery and was alabaster white due to "vitiligo" too?

Guilty as the day is long.

Even if he didn't have vitiligo, maybe you should consider what the world must have been like for black men if they would pay to change the colour of their skin given the chance?

godmum56 · 20/04/2026 17:55

ComfyKnickers · 20/04/2026 17:43

Absolutely. My DH inherited over a £1m and bought a 15 year old Defender.

old Landrovers are money pits. You need to be rich to have one.

nodramamama · 20/04/2026 17:55

LazyCatLtd · 20/04/2026 17:46

WTF? He most certainly wasn’t innocent.

Proving my point above.

Anyone who has a modicum of curiosity about the veracity of the Michael Jackson allegations can discover more, and maybe have the maturity to just listen to a different viewpoint , instead of hanging on to what they 'know'.

This recent video from a true crime investigative YouTuber is illuminating and she went to a great deal of work,bi found it fascinating:

shehardlysleeps · 20/04/2026 17:58

I refuse to use a really popular chain of fish and chip shops in my area. I applied for a job there at 13, did the interview and got it. I was so excited, I ironed my uniform myself and spent my months of saved pocket money on some decent shoes.

Only for the manager to call my mum the day of my first shift and say that actually, there wasn’t a job, I had been offered it by mistake and the person doing the interviewing didn’t have the authority to hire people. This was about ten days after the interview.

I was heartbroken. I can still remember how gutted I was and how much I cried. Still won’t go in there now.

InconsequentialFerret · 20/04/2026 17:58

I do the 'assuming' that everything's female.

Apart from the obvious like blackbirds.

One of many depressing things I've heard over the years was a little boy ask his mum what an optician was, and she said it was a man who looked after people's eyes. I lost a little bit of hope then as I'd thought younger people were more switched on until that point.

keepincool · 20/04/2026 18:01

Haven't spent a penny in Argos since trying to return a faulty kettle. A transgender employee treated me to a lecture on all the ingenious ways that customers try and defraud Argos by returning used goods - when I argued back that the kettle was faulty he (M) said "am I meant to give you a refund because of the way you look?" - I looked like the white middle aged woman that I am, and presumably was trying to use that privilege to get a refund 🙄. I did get my refund in the end but haven't spent a penny with Argos since - and I had spent thousands with them before that.

Refuse to watch Carol Vorderman on TV because she did adverts for loans with sky high interest rates - being a mathematician she should have known better.

Neither do I watch or listen to anything that Joanna Page from Gavin & Stacey is in as she has done betting adverts.

Won't watch anything that Meryl Streep is in either - for her support of Roman Polanski.

Also refuse to shop in Lush or any bookshop that refuses to stock J. K. Rowling or Robert Galbraith novels.

Speaking of JK - also refuse to watch anything that any of the TWAW brats, who made a fortune from starring in her films, are in.

Honestly thought not shopping with Lush was my only act of rebellion until I thought about it 😁

shehardlysleeps · 20/04/2026 18:02

InconsequentialFerret · 20/04/2026 17:58

I do the 'assuming' that everything's female.

Apart from the obvious like blackbirds.

One of many depressing things I've heard over the years was a little boy ask his mum what an optician was, and she said it was a man who looked after people's eyes. I lost a little bit of hope then as I'd thought younger people were more switched on until that point.

Depending on the age of the child that’s surely a normal thing to say?!

Northermcharn · 20/04/2026 18:04

tequilam0ckingbird · 20/04/2026 17:34

probably my bad, when I pressed send I thought it might be come across wrong :)

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Bless. What is an expensive car to you?

WildCats24 · 20/04/2026 18:06

TorroFerney · 20/04/2026 17:52

I do the animal thing. I did it when referring to a bird and my husband said how do you know it's female, he then added I am not trying to be funny I genuinely am interested. Well in the same way you "know" that everything is male my love.

Patriarchy chicken although I live in a nice area and I honestly find it's less necessary than when I go back to the town of my birth which is a bit rough, men are genuinely confused what to do. I also just sit on mens legs if they spread into my seat, just pretend I haven't seen them.

With your bum on their legs, or draping a leg over his?

Dodorogers · 20/04/2026 18:06

This thread is fucking batshit

TorroFerney · 20/04/2026 18:08

Dogmum74 · 20/04/2026 12:20

how old are you? 10?

Is this to all of us? I am 54. Sadly at 10 I didn't know what misogony was.

Dodorogers · 20/04/2026 18:08

TescoFiasco · 20/04/2026 17:54

I refuse to click on obvious click bait links. If it's about something that piques my interest, I can usually figure out what to google and look it up on another website.

Yes, it's petty and pointless but feels better than clicking on all this shite.

I think everyone on this thread needs to Google activism and also actually start giving a shit about the world and the people in it

Salyexley · 20/04/2026 18:08

That's not rebellian that's standing up for your beliefs

Northermcharn · 20/04/2026 18:08

Dodorogers · 20/04/2026 18:06

This thread is fucking batshit

ha ha yes, fun though. harmless.. what car do you drive Dodo? how much is it worth?