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What thing was ruined because it turned into a rich person's hobby?

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NewLion · 30/03/2026 21:34

attending Premier League football

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willowstar · 31/03/2026 07:48

@MeganM3 the price of timber has soared in recent years. A lot used to be imported from Russia.

Also glass. Practically no glass manufacturers left in the UK so much of it is imported from China and prices have risen hugely, as have lead times. Very difficult for small businesses. And actually same situation with iron mongers. It is virtually impossible (if not impossible) to buy nails and screws manufactured in the UK now as businesses have closed, so again, has to be imported from China and the quality is far worse. All of these things have an impact on the prices of sheds/greenhouses etc ...

TheKateColumbo · 31/03/2026 07:49

AncientBallerina · 31/03/2026 07:33

Going for a swim in the sea, which I have done for my entire life because of where I live. It’s not exactly ruined because I still go but my god the drama around ‘sea swimming’.

My Mum who at the slightest ray of sunshine had us in the North Sea in our pants until we were blue, told me off for spending longer in the sea than the recommended few minutes during a recent trip to the beach thanks to all her ‘cold water swimming’ buddies.

EvangelicalAboutButteredToast · 31/03/2026 07:49

Trains. I used to be able to get to alondon for a fiver in my youth. Now peak time is over £50.

Tretweet · 31/03/2026 07:50

Swimming at local public swimming pool. Easy to spend £25 for family of four. This isn’t much in itself but it used to be affordable to go swimming once a week and that is a lot per week on a low income.

Totally agree about theatre, used to be around the £40 mark for the very posh seats in the 00s. I saw loads of Donmar Warehouse shows for £5 through under 26 schemes. Bus trips from my undergrad university to the RSC were £16 for coach and ticket!

Carla786 · 31/03/2026 07:50

KidsAndDogsGalore · 31/03/2026 07:48

If you are happy to read on a tablet, Libby or BorrowBox are the apps most council libraries use for e books. It's free and convenient.

The only downside is that I love to browse and discover new titles... apps are just not the same. Plus push notifications mean they suggest similar genres to your last few reads.

Yes, that is good but we need physical libraries too..

KidsAndDogsGalore · 31/03/2026 07:51

Matildatoldsuchdreadfullies · 31/03/2026 07:45

Books - so easy to get cheap or free books now. You can’t go anywhere without seeing a book exchange.

There are 1000's of free accessible books online. It's just shifted from hard copies to e books. You can read them on your phone or tablet...

Scarfitwere · 31/03/2026 07:51

CarlaLemarchant · 30/03/2026 21:41

This! There have been a few things that I’d love to see as a family but just decided against it because it costs hundreds. The best we’ve done is one parent takes one child but it feels a bit miserable.

Booking really far ahead, and booking cheaper seats but using viewfrommyseat to check the view is the way forward! We had amazing seats for My Neighbour Totoro for £25 each when seats 7 or 8 rows forward were £200.

ChamonixMountainBum · 31/03/2026 07:54

Hohofortherobbers · 30/03/2026 22:17

A large glass of wine in a pub....£13 last Friday!!!!!😲

Its insane isn't it! Got stung for £16 for a glass of something reasonable last week. A glass of wine and a pint is £24 near me (SW London).

Carla786 · 31/03/2026 07:55

KidsAndDogsGalore · 31/03/2026 07:51

There are 1000's of free accessible books online. It's just shifted from hard copies to e books. You can read them on your phone or tablet...

There's also so many cheap books available via Ebay, thriftbooks, & a lot of others

KidsAndDogsGalore · 31/03/2026 07:58

Carla786 · 31/03/2026 07:50

Yes, that is good but we need physical libraries too..

Why? I used to be a frequent library visitor for pleasure reading. But with the advent of e books I don't go anymore.

Our local library is now a community hub. Book clubs, mums & baby groups, knitting club, coffe morning for xyz ... they all use the space. It still has some books but the children's section is bigger than the adult one. There just isn't enough demand.

Imdunfer · 31/03/2026 07:59

Driving an insured car for an under 21. Used to be popped on Mum or Dad's insurance policy for a few quid extra, now thousands of pounds for some young people.

Wellthisisdifficult · 31/03/2026 08:00

tnorfotkcab · 30/03/2026 21:40

You're unlikely to be going to 19 concerts a year...

You sound like those companies who know they're expensive and have to break it down to something that sounds reasonable ... like a over priced farm play area family membership or whatever" " only £3.72 per day pp!"

Ha ha ha, 19 gigs a year- amateur level!!!! I and other people I know have done more than that in a year for one band.

Carla786 · 31/03/2026 08:01

Tretweet · 31/03/2026 07:50

Swimming at local public swimming pool. Easy to spend £25 for family of four. This isn’t much in itself but it used to be affordable to go swimming once a week and that is a lot per week on a low income.

Totally agree about theatre, used to be around the £40 mark for the very posh seats in the 00s. I saw loads of Donmar Warehouse shows for £5 through under 26 schemes. Bus trips from my undergrad university to the RSC were £16 for coach and ticket!

Lots of theatres still do discounts for under 25s :

https://www.google.com/search?q=cheap+theatre+tickets+london+undrr+25&client=ms-android-samsung-ss&hs=osH&sca_esv=816abb5a51ae04a7&sxsrf=ANbL-n6-xfCsWnajo3bd-5f7feLuAZrGcA%3A1774939984245&ei=UG_LadKLDY-zhbIP6KzAgQc&biw=384&bih=723&oq=cheap+theatre+tickets+london+undrr+25&gs_lp=EhNtb2JpbGUtZ3dzLXdpei1zZXJwIiVjaGVhcCB0aGVhdHJlIHRpY2tldHMgbG9uZG9uIHVuZHJyIDI1MgcQABiABBgNMgYQABgWGB4yCxAAGIAEGIYDGIoFMgsQABiABBiGAxiKBTILEAAYgAQYhgMYigUyCxAAGIAEGIYDGIoFMgcQIRigARgKMgcQIRigARgKSOshUIgJWOodcAF4AZABAJgBywGgAZIKqgEFMC44LjG4AQPIAQD4AQGYAgqgAqwLwgIKEAAYsAMY1gQYR8ICDRAAGIAEGLADGEMYigXCAhwQLhiABBiwAxhDGMcBGMgDGIoFGI4FGK8B2AEBwgIFEAAYgASYAwCIBgGQBhG6BgQIARgIkgcFMS44LjGgB-Y9sgcFMC44LjG4B4gLwgcFMy05LjHIB5MBgAgA&sclient=mobile-gws-wiz-serp

Old Vic, National Theatre to name two. Ballet & opera also do this.

Before you continue to Google Search

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FoolOfShips · 31/03/2026 08:03

The internet was ruined because it became everyone's hobby.

It was lovely in the early 90s when only geeks used it.

Carla786 · 31/03/2026 08:04

KidsAndDogsGalore · 31/03/2026 07:58

Why? I used to be a frequent library visitor for pleasure reading. But with the advent of e books I don't go anymore.

Our local library is now a community hub. Book clubs, mums & baby groups, knitting club, coffe morning for xyz ... they all use the space. It still has some books but the children's section is bigger than the adult one. There just isn't enough demand.

My library is like that too, & I love that. But they still have a great adult section.

I think it's nice to be able to browse. I also think it's better for the eyes to limit screen time. Otoh books are great if a physical copy isn't in the library or is too expensive.

Beastieboys · 31/03/2026 08:05

Any ticketed event ! Price on the steep side and then you have to pay fees in top which can often bump the price up .
Taking my daughter and 2 grandkids to a candlelight concert cheapest standing / reduced vision ( all that was left ) and it's cost the price of another ticket in fees ,(£30) . Total rip off !!

Owly11 · 31/03/2026 08:06

Watching sport on TV. It used to be free!!! Well, you had to pay the licence fee but that was it. Free sport all the time. Now you have to pay multiple subscriptions on top of the licence fee. It's so so sad.

Astra53 · 31/03/2026 08:07

Yoga and pilates. Completely overrun with special clothing and expensive memberships to hot yoga and reformer pilates.

Lomonald · 31/03/2026 08:11

Astra53 · 31/03/2026 08:07

Yoga and pilates. Completely overrun with special clothing and expensive memberships to hot yoga and reformer pilates.

Yes this i have an older friend who has been doing pilates for years her teacher retired and my friend struggled to find a reasonable priced class,

Peony1985 · 31/03/2026 08:13

Agree that things like walking in the countryside and swimming have been spoilt by turning them into mc hobbies. Large groups of self congratulatory people wearing identical kit.

Cinema seems to have down in price but theatre is ridiculous.

illsendansostotheworld · 31/03/2026 08:13

columnatedruinsdomino · 30/03/2026 23:27

Agree. The silly buggers who stopped going abroad after Covid decided that £50 a night on a campsite was dirt cheap for a holiday in their new £100k motorhomes and lots of campsites hoiked their prices to match.

Yep. Used to be about £10 a night now it's cheaper to book a Premier inn.

MigGirl · 31/03/2026 08:14

AlmostAJillSandwich · 31/03/2026 07:31

Video games!
The start price is now atleast £70 and thats just for the "base" game, it costs more for the inevitable DLC add on story content, of which there can be several per game, and you can have to wait months for each add on. To end up with "All" game content you can end up in the £120+ region, more for bigger/more popular games. Like Call of Duty, £70 base edition, £100 deluxe edition, then a £30 DLC season pass every 3ish months. Plus tons of in game stuff thats only unlockable by buying it seperately.

Is that console games? Steam on PC has thousands of games that are actually quite cheap and just as good as the really popular one's. I have always avoid the new/most popular games as they have always been the most expensive one's.

PurpleVine · 31/03/2026 08:15

agree that sewing is much more expensive now. have a good rummage through the charity shops to find stuff that I can pull apart and use. got a lovely skirt out of an old cotton bedsheet, which was worn and lovely and soft so it hangs nicely.

music and doing an instrument at school used to be really common. makes me sad at xmas when you see the brass bands and there are so few younger people now who can play. a friend of mine is a talented musician who does community stuff to try and support youth funding to do this. he grew up in tough times, in and out of care, but was able to do music at school - the chances of him being able to do it these days are probably nil.

Carla786 · 31/03/2026 08:16

I think it's also relevant that holidays, eating out & children's extracurricular activities became a lot more common more recently : so that has to be factored in.

TartanCurtain · 31/03/2026 08:17

RosesAndHellebores · 30/03/2026 22:27

Or you could go locally which is what we used to do. DD and I saw Ballet Shoes at the National on 22nd December for about £160 for two of us.

Is this meant to be an example of reasonable pricing?

That would take me 2 extra shifts to earn and would mean leaving 3 members of our family out....

I went to see it in London and only paid £30 pp luckily. Still felt like a very expensive and special treat tbh!

I fond it frustrating that when the west end shows tour there are no cheap tickets avaliable but when they are in London there are lots of offers and deals.