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What thing was ruined because it turned into a rich person's hobby?

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NewLion · 30/03/2026 21:34

attending Premier League football

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ArtTheClownIsNotAMime · 01/04/2026 11:57

Housing.

Needspaceforlego · 01/04/2026 12:03

bruffin · 01/04/2026 11:48

The concerts were loss leaders, they ran at a loss to boost record sales which were the money makers

I have a ticket for the Pet Shop Boys row 2 at Wembley Arena back in 1989. I think it was £22.50 but interestingly the merch is more expensive, tshirt is something like £25!

Thats really cheap for the tickets but £25 for a t-shirt is wild!

Inflation calculator says thats the equivalent of £67 for a t-shirt

GoBazGo · 01/04/2026 12:53

Needspaceforlego · 01/04/2026 10:38

A lot of excersize classes in church halls and the like were a side hussle, supplementing someone's main income.
Probably under the radar of the tax man.

Now doing classes is a full-time job. And completely above board.

I never said they weren’t above board or insinuated anything else. My point was if you wanted to have a go at something like that it could be within reach without a significant outlay.
My first yoga instructor was certainly not tax dodging and was a retired chemical engineer.

So what if was a side hustle anyway? I doubt dance / yoga teachers would have done it so publicly if they were worried about tax inspectors finding out about the few quid they made from a Weds night yoga class.

AprilMizzel · 01/04/2026 13:20

HoppityBun · 30/03/2026 22:51

sam with self catering cottages for holidays. They used to be basic and affordable. Now they’re crammed full of luxuries and unaffordable

That what sprung to my mind - a frequent childhood UK based location often just in or just out of my working class parents pocket - if it was out that year we'd stop elsewhere and do a day trip there

Last few times we went was a bit shocked - it was full of very affluent middle class families older early retriement couples and very expensive restaurants. No longer the realtively cheap family destination it once was. The ice cream shops it was 4.50 per cone.

Mind you went back to village I grew up in recently that's massively gentrified - the council esate full of problem families all gone private housing - the house prices do reflect that out of our league but felt underdressed just wandering round - like I need better clothes. makeup and hair - it was all designer everything and latest kit to bike and dog walk.

I agree with fabirc as well - clothes making DH, and two DD - it soon adds up and I know the chaper places to search.

Theater - and we are looking at the local ones and amauter ones - it mounts up when trying to take the kids - only managed it a few times TBH - even pantos cost a lot even at none peak times and days.

Cinema - it varies by which picked but it's so expensive and films so dire we do it less than previously. Yes we can often get in the art center for much cheaper and often do but even that's going up.

AprilMizzel · 01/04/2026 13:23

Needspaceforlego · 01/04/2026 12:03

Thats really cheap for the tickets but £25 for a t-shirt is wild!

Inflation calculator says thats the equivalent of £67 for a t-shirt

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T-shirts in shops get me - I'm like that Catherine Tate skit couple pursing lips at prices of everything.

Ones my DC like are like £50 for two as a deal or 30 for one. I wait for qwertee sales.

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Plumblossomsbloom · 01/04/2026 15:51

A lot of these posts is sounding like life is more expensive because you had kids. Compared to the wages today versus the wages then, the prices of things might not be so bad in some cases, but you're not paying for just yourself now you're paying for kids too and that's why it's out of reach. Things like Thorpe Park and Alton Towers, in my family we did those things on the years we didn't go on the annual camping holiday, they weren't additional treats they were instead of, and there was no buying food or drink inside either, a packed lunch was brought along.

The thing about the church hall yoga etc classes, the church was bringing in money from the congregation, which is dwindling now for most, so hiring the hall was a side hustle for the church. The teacher doing the class was a side hustle because not their main source of income or if it was, it was an additional source with the spouse being the main earner for the family. That poster's retired friend doing it is retired, that's the point, they have a pension. When it's a side hustle things can be run cheaper. Your church hall is now often a community centre owned by council or private owned building, not attached to a church, so the building needs to make profit hence higher costs to rent space. The teachers are doing it not for a side hustle but for a job, they're teaching across many venues or multiple classes per day and need to earn enough to pay taxes as well as enough to live on. So cost of classes are higher.

Horses definitely used to be more accessible. It is a myth they're only for rich people though. That's always been the non-horsey-person's viewpoint and it's always been wrong. Plenty keeps horses on a shoestring, curtailing everything from a career to having children to do so. Although some manages to have those things too. You probably don't know those shoestring equestrian people, they're always at the stables looking after or riding their horse and they have no spare cash to hang out with you, so they're not really on your radar. You might know the odd one through work and perhaps have fleeting thoughts of how do they afford that on their wages?! Assuming they have someone else subsidising their life, which isn't necessarily true.

What I see now is an increase in basic neglect of these shoestring-kept horses. People who haven't learned the basics and who have no desire to read a book or practice their riding. People are less likely to offer unofficial teaching or training of any kind because people are too quick to point the finger of blame these days if anything goes wrong. The less well you look after the horse the more often it needs the vet and the more expensive owning one becomes. People these days more likely to prioritise flashy gear than basic healthcare and good daily management. The cost of vet fees and the desire to treat absolutely everything, means they feel they need insurance, which can be very expensive and comes with a lot of exclusions most of the time. People didn't used to do all this. Like someone said for dogs, people were more pragmatic. Most weren't spending thousands on treatment or keeping lame/chronically ill animals in retirement, the animals were PTS instead. People had the best gear they could afford and didn't treat their gear like a fashion show changing it out each season, they kept and repaired the bare minimum of basic stuff until it was unrepairable many many years later.

To the person feeding an old neighbours cats, those cats are abandoned, an animal charity will likely take them if you want to stop caring for them yourself. Not RSPCA because you're feeding them and they're healthy so they won't help, try a cat charity. Especially if you have contact details for the owners daughter who can agree to relinquish control of them. Other than that there's PDSA for free vet care if you're on benefits but you'll still have to be nurse until they're healthy. There's no shame in PTS in this circumstance.

You've already kept the cats alive longer than they would have been. The owner and his daughter were happy to leave them to starve to death 2yrs ago. PTS with kindness and dignity because they've become ill or injured is way better than that. It costs a bit but it's the cremation that really bumps the costs up. If you can bury them in your garden or on your old neighbours land if it hasn't been sold, that's going to save a lot. The vet might even PTS for free since they're not your cats. The thing is to be firm about it to the vets - no tests, no treatment, no chargeable examination - you can't afford it and the cat is obviously ill/injured and suffering so just PTS please. They don't have any choice, animals are legally property so it's not about whether the animal can be saved, it's about what the person paying wants to do.

Janesput · 01/04/2026 16:05

AprilMizzel · 01/04/2026 13:23

T-shirts in shops get me - I'm like that Catherine Tate skit couple pursing lips at prices of everything.

Ones my DC like are like £50 for two as a deal or 30 for one. I wait for qwertee sales.

But that's not new, if you're looking at fashionable brands. I was a teenager in the Casuals era of the 80s. A Pringle jumper was £40 then! A Lacoste polo shirt was £25, which is £95 in today's money!

Clothes overall are much cheaper now, in real terms.

EBearhug · 01/04/2026 18:13

Even rugby has always been a middle class sport whilst the lower classes went to football

Even in the Welsh valleys?

MadisonAvenue · 01/04/2026 20:55

CarlaLemarchant · 30/03/2026 21:39

ST holders tend to be better protected but numbers are being limited as clubs realise they can rinse non ST match attending fans for £££.

To take my son to a game at our PL club it’s a £100 afternoon out.

I’ve just looked back through emails and our season tickets were £702 four years ago, then a price freeze came to an end and when we renew soon for next season we’ll be paying £874.

It feels like ST holders are at risk of being phased out, we tend to turn up just before kick off and spend nothing whereas a tourist will happily pay £300+ for the same seat, the club throw in a burger, drink and a free match programme at an offsite venue and on the way to the ground the tourist will spend a fortune in the souvenir shop.

HorribleHisTories15 · 01/04/2026 21:55

Making Jazz and soul music. Enough said

plominoagain · 01/04/2026 22:50

Definitely horses .

When I was a kid, my mum worked for the civil service , my dad was a breakdown driver. I biked down to the local yard at 12 , stayed there all day with my sandwiches , shovelled shit , tacked horses up, watched other kids ride, and the highlight of the day was putting the ponies back in their field at night , because we would belt down the field tracks on them in only headcollars . I have lifelong friends from that time, and not one of them was even middle class. I have horses now, but it’s only been in the last year that I spent a substantial amount of money on one . Every other one I’ve had , has been stupidly cheap ( like a single pound ) because they’ve needed remedial work . For forty years , I’ve watched the sport become more about style , and less about substance. More about what other people thought , more critical , and certainly a damn sight less fun. My showjumps as a kid , were plastic drain pipes and milk crates!

We thought we were the dogs bollocks if we had a quilted jacket , and the most matchy matchy we got was a velvet browband ! And it meant that everyone looked the same , and no one judged your appearance . Now, there’s an expectation for your horse to have the latest Kentucky bridle , and this year’s Le mieux colours on your horse . For many many £££ . And as for competing ! I used to hack down the road to at least two stables that ran clear round jumping on a Saturday, and a blast round the cross country on a Sunday , for about 3 quid a go . Now , you have to box anywhere because those sort of venues have gone for housing , and the ones that are left are further away . The entry fees are steep to cover the running costs . And it’s all so serious ! Polework clinics , dressage clinics , trainers. I miss the old fashioned gymkhana games , which taught me far more about riding than paying £££ for a bloody clinic ever has.

Whowhenwhatwear · 02/04/2026 00:21

So many have stated about the joys of visiting the library. We really need to keep visiting them so we don't lose them.

Needspaceforlego · 02/04/2026 09:50

I'd agree on libraries. I was in our local library the other day for the first time in years. I was actually quite disappointed in the childrens section.

AprilMizzel · 02/04/2026 09:53

Janesput · 01/04/2026 16:05

But that's not new, if you're looking at fashionable brands. I was a teenager in the Casuals era of the 80s. A Pringle jumper was £40 then! A Lacoste polo shirt was £25, which is £95 in today's money!

Clothes overall are much cheaper now, in real terms.

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I wasn't really thinking about brands- not really part of my upbring or my kids.

More going into our city center and walking into the two at most high street shops with t-shirts on with charcters or slogan teens like and them wanting 25-50 pounds for one t-shirt. It seems worse as with qwertee sales I can often pay 4-6 pounds with free shipping for similar.

Though I agree that supermarket clothing they were all in when younger is almost certainly cheaper than when I was growing up.

JG24 · 02/04/2026 23:33

EBearhug · 01/04/2026 18:13

Even rugby has always been a middle class sport whilst the lower classes went to football

Even in the Welsh valleys?

Ahh yes, apologies you're right! Sorry!

PickAChew · 02/04/2026 23:40

NoSoupForU · 30/03/2026 21:36

A season ticket at my club equates to £33 a game. I don't think that's "rich person" territory. It's less than most concerts.

Do you go to a concert every week? Sometimes twice?

HoppityBun · 03/04/2026 00:56

I think we’ve all agreed that the answer to the question is: Everything.

DreamyJade · 04/04/2026 11:46

Ohwhatfuckeryitistoride · 01/04/2026 09:27

Certain cuts of meat-lamb shanks, beef cheeks. Fucking wanky tv cooks and restaurants have now made them luxury foods. My fil used to cook.them for the dog!

I’m looking at you, chicken thighs! I’ve always eaten thighs because they are tastier than breast. Now thanks to bloody tv celebrity chefs they’re more expensive than breast in many places. They were always half the price.

I went to our local butchers recently to get some lamb’s kidney to make a pie for DH. I got 5 little kidneys, and it cost £14! I used to buy the same amount in Asda 10 years ago for 89p (they no longer sell them). We’re paying more for offal than for prime cuts!

DreamyJade · 04/04/2026 11:48

MadisonAvenue · 01/04/2026 20:55

I’ve just looked back through emails and our season tickets were £702 four years ago, then a price freeze came to an end and when we renew soon for next season we’ll be paying £874.

It feels like ST holders are at risk of being phased out, we tend to turn up just before kick off and spend nothing whereas a tourist will happily pay £300+ for the same seat, the club throw in a burger, drink and a free match programme at an offsite venue and on the way to the ground the tourist will spend a fortune in the souvenir shop.

That’s definitely true. You can see it where clubs have a 10 year+ waiting list for season tickets, but loads of empty seats every match.

notacooldad · 04/04/2026 12:35

Not a hobby, but cottage cheese is ridiculous expensive thanks to tik tok and Instagram receipes and the high protein buzz that's around at the moment!
Ive been buying it for decades and suddenly it's £1.90 for 500g in some supermarkets!

I've started to make my own instead. Same with soft cheese and paneer.

Peony1985 · 04/04/2026 12:45

DreamyJade · 04/04/2026 11:46

I’m looking at you, chicken thighs! I’ve always eaten thighs because they are tastier than breast. Now thanks to bloody tv celebrity chefs they’re more expensive than breast in many places. They were always half the price.

I went to our local butchers recently to get some lamb’s kidney to make a pie for DH. I got 5 little kidneys, and it cost £14! I used to buy the same amount in Asda 10 years ago for 89p (they no longer sell them). We’re paying more for offal than for prime cuts!

I’ve been moaning about this to anyone that will listen.
Even bones. Used to get them free from the butchers for the dogs. Now bone marrow is a thing they are sold for more than a bit of frying steak.

FishPie2 · 04/04/2026 15:37

I don't know where you buy your chicken but M and S thighs are nowhere near the price of breasts, same in Aldi.

DreamyJade · 04/04/2026 16:20

FishPie2 · 04/04/2026 15:37

I don't know where you buy your chicken but M and S thighs are nowhere near the price of breasts, same in Aldi.

Usually my local butchers or Aldi. In Aldi thigh is more expensive than breast for the small packs I buy (£7.65 per kg for boneless thigh fillets and £7.30 for breast). The massive value packs work out slightly cheaper for breast but only pennies.

IDontHateRainbows · 05/04/2026 12:28

Thighs are tastier. I think the low fat is better message has lost its impact with unprocessed foods compared to 90s/ 00s so the premium for breast over thighs has decreased.

bruffin · 05/04/2026 17:24

IDontHateRainbows · 05/04/2026 12:28

Thighs are tastier. I think the low fat is better message has lost its impact with unprocessed foods compared to 90s/ 00s so the premium for breast over thighs has decreased.

I buy ocado thigh bone in for £2.99 a kilo