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Telling you because I can't tell anyone else

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Hellocatshome · 02/03/2026 20:44

I am just posting here because I can't tell anyone else and I am very proud of DS15. Just under a year ago he walked away from a sport that he was very good at (national level) due to bullying by his peers and to a certain extent by his coaches.

He decided to take up running to keep fit but because of his experiences refused to joing any group even the super casual adult groups that were willing to have him because the idea of organised training was too much.

Well without telling anyone and without training for it he decided to see if he could run a marathon as a personal challenge. And he did. Through sheer grit and determination he ran a marathon with no support, no crowds cheering him on, no reward of a medal and bragging rights at the end. Just him and his thoughts and 26.2 miles. He wasn't going to tell me but I found out as his Garmin is linked to my email address and I got a notification. He doesn't want to tell anyone, doesn't want me to tell anyone he just wanted to do it for himself so he knew he could do it.

Anyway I think that shows a remarkable level of self worth for a teenager and he's a better man than me because if I ever did anything like that I would need all the likes and congratulations going and would definitely be milking it for a while.

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forthursdaysarefree · 02/03/2026 20:46

Legend!

EineReiseDurchDieZeit · 02/03/2026 20:47

Is there any different group he could join for his sport? He sounds like a very determined and focused young man. Congratulations to him!

Apparentlystillchilled · 02/03/2026 20:47

Amazing! Well done to your DS! 🎉

Helplessandheartbroke · 02/03/2026 20:48

What a wonderful post! Well done your ds and you proud mother!

Spirallingdownwards · 02/03/2026 20:48

Congratulations to him! What a 🌟

ISaySteadyOn · 02/03/2026 20:48

Good for him! And he is definitely a credit to you so good for you as well.

waltzingparrot · 02/03/2026 20:49

Well done him !

I'd be pleased to know that my son had that much grit, determination and independence of thought in him.

BretonStripe · 02/03/2026 20:49

Absolutely incredible!!! I hope this helps his confidence and self-esteem, and he finds a supportive and friendly running club (if he wants to join one).

You must be so proud!

Moen · 02/03/2026 20:52

What an absolute legend!! Well done to your son!x

Sky1977 · 02/03/2026 20:53

He’s inspiring & amazing , he & you should be so proud 🤩 🌟

FleaDog · 02/03/2026 20:57

Bloody hell, that is amazing! Whilst your ds doesn't want people to know, and isn't seeling affirmation, tell him a huge well done from this random mumsnetter! To be focused and self motivated after being pushed out and bullying shows his strength of character⭐

ilovepixie · 02/03/2026 21:01

Thats fantastic. He sounds amazing.

theaccomplice · 02/03/2026 21:01

Amazing. Absolutely lovely

CanISeeYourLicence · 02/03/2026 21:06

I'm having a bad day and that gave me my first smile. Smile

MarxistMags · 02/03/2026 21:08

What a remarkable achievement. He obviously can be very single minded !
Congratulations to him 👏

Kyffin · 02/03/2026 21:08

This is a lovely read! Absolute kudos to your boy. Well done him & well done you also! ❤️

SumUp · 02/03/2026 21:10

That’s brilliant, well done. 👏

Gonnagetgoingreturnsagain · 02/03/2026 21:11

Well done to your son.

springvibes26 · 02/03/2026 21:11

Well done fella 👏💪🏼

Randomchat · 02/03/2026 21:11

Well done to him. That's a lot of determination right there.

havingoneofthosedays · 02/03/2026 21:16

Love this

Cherryicecreamx · 02/03/2026 21:18

Good on him! 🙌 It's great to hear about people doing things simply for themselves without the need of external validation.. especially teens!
It's a shame about the bullying before (probably jealousy), he's clearly worked hard and been able to achieve his goals! Well done x

Wolfiefan · 02/03/2026 21:24

What a bloody awesome achievement! You must be so proud of him.

lobeydosser · 02/03/2026 21:27

That's a huge amount of focus and determination. Sheer grit. Blooming well done him!👏

Isitreallythough · 02/03/2026 21:29

Phenomenal!