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Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?

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KnottyAndPistey · 02/03/2026 19:12

We bring such sad news, lovely wafflenose has lost her younger daughter (L) through tragic circumstances and we are just so desperately sorry, thoughts very much with waffle, her family and all who loved her daughter. Really really devastating. Life has been desperately cruel. You may well recognise waffle from music/education/Extra-curricular threads here on MN. Both her lovely daughters have been involved with Mumsnet.

We are so glad waffle would like to receive a Woolly Hug. For those new on here, this is a long standing tradition on Mumsnet where folk come together to make a blanket for one of our own who has been bereaved. There will be love crafted into every stitch. We want it to be a tribute and full of memories. We hope it may give whatever comfort it can.

People have described L as a quiet light, the gentlest of souls. Let us make something truly beautiful in her honour.

So we come again asking for help and shall need both crafters and donors of funds of wool. Can you help us? We would be truly grateful. Thank you

Important crafting info
Squares to be six inches, using 4mm needles or hook. Please knot off VERY carefully when finishing or changing colour and sew your ends in, thank you! No blocking please, makes it much easier to join squares.

Simple or complex, made by beginner or expert, we genuinely welcome them all. It really is the love and thought that counts.

We have some ideas for themes..
Initials please E, G, L and K

She played the recorder, the clarinet and the cello, but focused mainly on the clarinet latterly and played in the National Children's Orchestra Under 10s for a while. Her NCO hoodie was bright blue - a bit like Yarnsmith dark turquoise.

She loved art and reading and was very creative. Loved Harry Potter and would probably have been in Hufflepuff house had she been at Hogwarts.

She had a quirky mind and used to love lego.

She was quite a fashionista. Loved Vogue magazine and Miss Dior perfume

Favourite colours were pink and white (pink more than white).

English literature was the love of her life. We are hoping someone can recreate a bookshelf square? One of her favourite books was Jane Eyre. She had also been studying Plath and Hughes.

She loved swimming and the great outdoors, particular the Quantock Hills. (Photo) We are hoping this may act as an inspiration.

Work/volunteering: she did Brownies and Guides and volunteered as a Rainbow Guider and also volunteered on a hospital ward for a while. She worked as a waitress and at the village pub.

She was interested in philosophy and was planning to become a psychologist/counsellor.

She liked Fleetwood Mac.

She kept tropical fish, hamsters and gerbils and loved all other animals especially cats.

She also liked art and photography.

She was very passionate about being an organ donor - and several people have now received life-saving operations because of her. A truly wonderful young woman.

Lots of ideas and ways to get to know L better. If you can recreate a theme on a square, wonderful, but we also need simple squares, A square in one of her favourite colours is perfect too.

The MAIN Colours. We will be using her favourites,
Pinks from pale baby pink through to magenta.
Cream, but only please Drops Merino Extra Fine - Off White (01) or Yarnsmiths Merino DK Superwash - Off White (3045)
Lighter silvers
Greens pale to mid. Think nature inspired

Then embellishments and accents ONLY please (not whole squares)
Blues - sky to navy inc turquoise.
Sunset shades - red, orange, yellow, gold, but only if creating a sunset!
Browns taupe to mid
Charcoal grey
Black

The Yarn we will be Using for Consistency ….
Yarnsmiths Merino DK Superwash - a BIG sale at Wool Warehouse. Has the widest range of colours
Debbie Bliss Rialto DK only available on Love Crafts
Drops Merino Extra Fine DK.
Katia Merino 100% DK
King Cole Luxury Merino DK

Just from the brands listed please because we know they combine for wash and wear. If you still have any of our wools that have been discontinued or have become less easy to find- Artesano Superwash Merino DK, Debbie Bliss Cashmerino DK, Jenny Watson Pure Merino DK, Patons Merino Extrafine DK or James C. Brett Pure Merino DK in your stash, please do use them.

Posting will be Teddington, please message if you need the address. If you'd like to include a card for her family , please send with your squares. And please don't forget to include your name!

If you can upload photos of your squares on here as we go along, that will be a lovely record, especially if you have donated yarn.

Will set the last posting date once we are underway but it will be approx 6 weeks hence

Thoughts and love very much with waffle, we are so so sorry. Remembering L Star

Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
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KnottyAndPistey · 05/04/2026 12:07

Maud is now covered in chocolate. She was meant to be laying out the Easter Egg hunt with the Easter Bunny But seems to have eaten 90%

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KnottyAndPistey · 05/04/2026 12:11

Happy Easter folks! We have lovely donors to thank. Absolutely wonderful and we are truly grateful.

💐 TMP ⭐️

💐 LO ⭐️

💐 LW ⭐️

Honestly , this is so kind and we appreciate every single penny. THANK YOU!

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KnottyAndPistey · 05/04/2026 12:35

@AlexandraLeaving These all arrived yesterday, so I’m thinking you may know who they are. Please thank everyone so much. 💐

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Bearfrills · 05/04/2026 13:13

Wow they arrived quickly! I only posted them on Thursday and Friday was a bank holiday, thought it would be Tuesday at the earliest.

The blanket is going to be stunning.

Boiledbeetle · 05/04/2026 13:30

KnottyAndPistey · 05/04/2026 12:07

Maud is now covered in chocolate. She was meant to be laying out the Easter Egg hunt with the Easter Bunny But seems to have eaten 90%

Maud seems to think her pockets are an acceptable egg hiding place!

Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
EnchantedDaydream · 05/04/2026 13:36

I only posted mine on Thurs too, second class, so I'm glad they got there so quickly. Look at the beautiful blossom I saw by the post box, very apt for this colour scheme.

Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
Igneococcus · 05/04/2026 15:20

Boiledbeetle · 05/04/2026 13:30

Maud seems to think her pockets are an acceptable egg hiding place!

I like how Fawley wears her bunny ears around the waist (do cats have waists?).

Boiledbeetle · 05/04/2026 15:55

Igneococcus · 05/04/2026 15:20

I like how Fawley wears her bunny ears around the waist (do cats have waists?).

She nicked Maud's pair so they were too big for her head apparently. I suspect it's more to do with them getting pushed backwards as she stuck her head in things looking for eggs.

Igneococcus · 05/04/2026 16:57

Boiledbeetle · 05/04/2026 15:55

She nicked Maud's pair so they were too big for her head apparently. I suspect it's more to do with them getting pushed backwards as she stuck her head in things looking for eggs.

Yeah, they would get in the way of looking in tight places.

AlexandraLeaving · 05/04/2026 19:00

KnottyAndPistey · 05/04/2026 12:35

@AlexandraLeaving These all arrived yesterday, so I’m thinking you may know who they are. Please thank everyone so much. 💐

Yes, LO, LW and TMP are all friends who met through waffle and knew Rara through here. It is good to feel that so many of waffle's contacts are linked to the blanket. Another friend's mum is hoping to be able to contribute some squares by the deadline.

I love the pictures of all the stunning squares that are coming in - both the squares in real life, and the squares with Maud (I think Rara would have loved Maud too). The blanket is going to be wonderful.

My square for the day is almost good, but I realised too late that I was sewing the embellishment on with the square upside down. I hope it won't be a problem...

Boiledbeetle · 06/04/2026 10:15

Maud did attempt to take her photos with @Bearfrills squares yesterday. Thankfully @KnottyAndPistey removed them from her before she transferred Easter egg chocolate all over them.

She got up really early this morning. Made herself a nice outfit out of @KnottyAndPistey curtains (she watched the Sound of Music last night) and then got her photos sorted.

(I'll have to split them over 2 posts)

Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
Boiledbeetle · 06/04/2026 10:17

Here's the rest of the photos of Maud admiring @Bearfrills squares. She can't believe there was so many beautiful squares all in one delivery!

Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
AlexandraLeaving · 06/04/2026 13:14

Does anyone have any jet black wool in appropriate brands? I need a tiny amount - just about 20cm - to oversew a couple of stitches and it needs to look different from charcoal grey (it's for the C/G hole of a clarinet - the one that doesn't have a silver ring - I'm trying to do one that is better than the toilet-plunger one I posted upthread). Or is there any chance, just for the sake of two oversewn stitches, @KnottyAndPistey would allow me to use an off-brand yarn?

Grateful for any help please. x

MyrtleLion · 06/04/2026 13:51

Boiledbeetle · 06/04/2026 10:17

Here's the rest of the photos of Maud admiring @Bearfrills squares. She can't believe there was so many beautiful squares all in one delivery!

I love her little face! Especially when she is laughing 💙

ifIwerenotanandroid · 06/04/2026 14:10

AlexandraLeaving · 06/04/2026 13:14

Does anyone have any jet black wool in appropriate brands? I need a tiny amount - just about 20cm - to oversew a couple of stitches and it needs to look different from charcoal grey (it's for the C/G hole of a clarinet - the one that doesn't have a silver ring - I'm trying to do one that is better than the toilet-plunger one I posted upthread). Or is there any chance, just for the sake of two oversewn stitches, @KnottyAndPistey would allow me to use an off-brand yarn?

Grateful for any help please. x

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ifIwerenotanandroid · 06/04/2026 14:16

Boiledbeetle · 06/04/2026 10:15

Maud did attempt to take her photos with @Bearfrills squares yesterday. Thankfully @KnottyAndPistey removed them from her before she transferred Easter egg chocolate all over them.

She got up really early this morning. Made herself a nice outfit out of @KnottyAndPistey curtains (she watched the Sound of Music last night) and then got her photos sorted.

(I'll have to split them over 2 posts)

In Maud's imagination...

Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
ChristmasStars · 06/04/2026 15:43

ifIwerenotanandroid · 06/04/2026 14:16

In Maud's imagination...

Let's all imagine ourselves right there with her!

ifIwerenotanandroid · 06/04/2026 16:22

ChristmasStars · 06/04/2026 15:43

Let's all imagine ourselves right there with her!

Okay. That's me (mi), Boily, Myrtle, you & Alexandra.

Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
Boiledbeetle · 06/04/2026 17:13

ifIwerenotanandroid · 06/04/2026 16:22

Okay. That's me (mi), Boily, Myrtle, you & Alexandra.

Am I wearing lederhosen?

KnottyAndPistey · 06/04/2026 17:20

I have black!

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ifIwerenotanandroid · 06/04/2026 17:27

Boiledbeetle · 06/04/2026 17:13

Am I wearing lederhosen?

😂Well, kind of. I hadn't noticed - I thought you were au naturelle.

ChristmasStars · 06/04/2026 17:44

ifIwerenotanandroid · 06/04/2026 16:22

Okay. That's me (mi), Boily, Myrtle, you & Alexandra.

This is wonderful! I'm la-ing extra sweetly right now.

MyrtleLion · 06/04/2026 21:33

ifIwerenotanandroid · 06/04/2026 16:22

Okay. That's me (mi), Boily, Myrtle, you & Alexandra.

I feel honoured to be in such auspicious company.

Boiledbeetle · 06/04/2026 22:12

MyrtleLion · 06/04/2026 21:33

I feel honoured to be in such auspicious company.

I read that as suspicious!

MyrtleLion · 06/04/2026 22:30

Boiledbeetle · 06/04/2026 22:12

I read that as suspicious!

🤣

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