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Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?

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KnottyAndPistey · 02/03/2026 19:12

We bring such sad news, lovely wafflenose has lost her younger daughter (L) through tragic circumstances and we are just so desperately sorry, thoughts very much with waffle, her family and all who loved her daughter. Really really devastating. Life has been desperately cruel. You may well recognise waffle from music/education/Extra-curricular threads here on MN. Both her lovely daughters have been involved with Mumsnet.

We are so glad waffle would like to receive a Woolly Hug. For those new on here, this is a long standing tradition on Mumsnet where folk come together to make a blanket for one of our own who has been bereaved. There will be love crafted into every stitch. We want it to be a tribute and full of memories. We hope it may give whatever comfort it can.

People have described L as a quiet light, the gentlest of souls. Let us make something truly beautiful in her honour.

So we come again asking for help and shall need both crafters and donors of funds of wool. Can you help us? We would be truly grateful. Thank you

Important crafting info
Squares to be six inches, using 4mm needles or hook. Please knot off VERY carefully when finishing or changing colour and sew your ends in, thank you! No blocking please, makes it much easier to join squares.

Simple or complex, made by beginner or expert, we genuinely welcome them all. It really is the love and thought that counts.

We have some ideas for themes..
Initials please E, G, L and K

She played the recorder, the clarinet and the cello, but focused mainly on the clarinet latterly and played in the National Children's Orchestra Under 10s for a while. Her NCO hoodie was bright blue - a bit like Yarnsmith dark turquoise.

She loved art and reading and was very creative. Loved Harry Potter and would probably have been in Hufflepuff house had she been at Hogwarts.

She had a quirky mind and used to love lego.

She was quite a fashionista. Loved Vogue magazine and Miss Dior perfume

Favourite colours were pink and white (pink more than white).

English literature was the love of her life. We are hoping someone can recreate a bookshelf square? One of her favourite books was Jane Eyre. She had also been studying Plath and Hughes.

She loved swimming and the great outdoors, particular the Quantock Hills. (Photo) We are hoping this may act as an inspiration.

Work/volunteering: she did Brownies and Guides and volunteered as a Rainbow Guider and also volunteered on a hospital ward for a while. She worked as a waitress and at the village pub.

She was interested in philosophy and was planning to become a psychologist/counsellor.

She liked Fleetwood Mac.

She kept tropical fish, hamsters and gerbils and loved all other animals especially cats.

She also liked art and photography.

She was very passionate about being an organ donor - and several people have now received life-saving operations because of her. A truly wonderful young woman.

Lots of ideas and ways to get to know L better. If you can recreate a theme on a square, wonderful, but we also need simple squares, A square in one of her favourite colours is perfect too.

The MAIN Colours. We will be using her favourites,
Pinks from pale baby pink through to magenta.
Cream, but only please Drops Merino Extra Fine - Off White (01) or Yarnsmiths Merino DK Superwash - Off White (3045)
Lighter silvers
Greens pale to mid. Think nature inspired

Then embellishments and accents ONLY please (not whole squares)
Blues - sky to navy inc turquoise.
Sunset shades - red, orange, yellow, gold, but only if creating a sunset!
Browns taupe to mid
Charcoal grey
Black

The Yarn we will be Using for Consistency ….
Yarnsmiths Merino DK Superwash - a BIG sale at Wool Warehouse. Has the widest range of colours
Debbie Bliss Rialto DK only available on Love Crafts
Drops Merino Extra Fine DK.
Katia Merino 100% DK
King Cole Luxury Merino DK

Just from the brands listed please because we know they combine for wash and wear. If you still have any of our wools that have been discontinued or have become less easy to find- Artesano Superwash Merino DK, Debbie Bliss Cashmerino DK, Jenny Watson Pure Merino DK, Patons Merino Extrafine DK or James C. Brett Pure Merino DK in your stash, please do use them.

Posting will be Teddington, please message if you need the address. If you'd like to include a card for her family , please send with your squares. And please don't forget to include your name!

If you can upload photos of your squares on here as we go along, that will be a lovely record, especially if you have donated yarn.

Will set the last posting date once we are underway but it will be approx 6 weeks hence

Thoughts and love very much with waffle, we are so so sorry. Remembering L Star

Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
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Boiledbeetle · 02/04/2026 15:46

KnottyAndPistey · 02/04/2026 14:47

We have treasure!

💐 @Iwantacampervan ⭐️ Such beautifully knitted hearts. Absolutely gorgeous.

Thank you so much!

Maud is taking advantage of Fawley nipping to the kitchen to admire @Iwantacampervan squares.

Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
Comefromaway · 02/04/2026 15:54

Just a thought that occured to me but how about spraying the blanket with Miss Dior perfume? I don't know how long lasting it would be but I would be willing to try and decant some if you think the idea would work.

ChristmasStars · 02/04/2026 17:24

Boiledbeetle · 02/04/2026 15:46

Maud is taking advantage of Fawley nipping to the kitchen to admire @Iwantacampervan squares.

It's nice that she wore a dress to match the squares. They really bring out the pink of her flowers.

Interested in this thread?

Then you might like threads about this subject:

Boiledbeetle · 02/04/2026 17:31

ChristmasStars · 02/04/2026 17:24

It's nice that she wore a dress to match the squares. They really bring out the pink of her flowers.

I believe that was outfit 154 in yesterday's fashion show.

Boiledbeetle · 02/04/2026 17:52

KnottyAndPistey · 01/04/2026 13:18

One day. ONE DAY, we will get you crafting.

no is not an acceptable answer

😃😃😃😃😃

Happy now????

Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
ifIwerenotanandroid · 02/04/2026 17:55

😱

Boiledbeetle · 02/04/2026 17:59

ifIwerenotanandroid · 02/04/2026 17:55

😱

No clue what I do next!!

ifIwerenotanandroid · 02/04/2026 18:01

Boiledbeetle · 02/04/2026 17:59

No clue what I do next!!

Everyone recommends Bella Coco videos at this point.

Did you have yarn & 10 million crochet hooks about the place?

Boiledbeetle · 02/04/2026 18:05

ifIwerenotanandroid · 02/04/2026 18:01

Everyone recommends Bella Coco videos at this point.

Did you have yarn & 10 million crochet hooks about the place?

No! None of either. I had to order cat food so added a cheap ball of something that is definitely not wool wool and a crochet hook to my order.

I shall go look on You Tube later.

I tried doing a magic ring/circle. Luckily balls of non wool don't break when thrown against a wall.

KnottyAndPistey · 02/04/2026 18:10

Boiledbeetle · 02/04/2026 17:52

Happy now????

VERY!!

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ChristmasStars · 02/04/2026 18:41

Boiledbeetle · 02/04/2026 18:05

No! None of either. I had to order cat food so added a cheap ball of something that is definitely not wool wool and a crochet hook to my order.

I shall go look on You Tube later.

I tried doing a magic ring/circle. Luckily balls of non wool don't break when thrown against a wall.

Edited

I think Maud will be swaying from happy at your good start to panic that you might not be able to give enough time to her social media.

MyrtleLion · 02/04/2026 18:44

ChristmasStars · 02/04/2026 18:41

I think Maud will be swaying from happy at your good start to panic that you might not be able to give enough time to her social media.

This is a true fact.

Boiledbeetle · 02/04/2026 19:24

ChristmasStars · 02/04/2026 18:41

I think Maud will be swaying from happy at your good start to panic that you might not be able to give enough time to her social media.

She's that engrossed in Bridgerton she's not taken a photo in hours!

ifIwerenotanandroid · 02/04/2026 19:36

Right now I'm doing Maud's social media & @Boiledbeetle is crocheting. Both activitites are going as well as you might expect.

Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
Boiledbeetle · 02/04/2026 19:38

ifIwerenotanandroid · 02/04/2026 19:36

Right now I'm doing Maud's social media & @Boiledbeetle is crocheting. Both activitites are going as well as you might expect.

Oh I love Pride and Pawsabilities. She's going to love it!

ifIwerenotanandroid · 02/04/2026 19:39

Boiledbeetle · 02/04/2026 19:38

Oh I love Pride and Pawsabilities. She's going to love it!

If only she was looking at it! 😂

Boiledbeetle · 02/04/2026 19:40

ifIwerenotanandroid · 02/04/2026 19:39

If only she was looking at it! 😂

I assumed she had briefly turned to talk to Fawley who is on the chair where we can't see her.

ifIwerenotanandroid · 02/04/2026 19:41

Boiledbeetle · 02/04/2026 19:40

I assumed she had briefly turned to talk to Fawley who is on the chair where we can't see her.

Of course. You're being very kind about my pathetic effort.

Boiledbeetle · 02/04/2026 19:42

Meanwhile at the beetle residence...

Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
Boiledbeetle · 02/04/2026 19:49

ifIwerenotanandroid · 02/04/2026 19:41

Of course. You're being very kind about my pathetic effort.

You are merely posting the photos Maud sends you. You can only work with what you get.

Bearfrills · 02/04/2026 22:18

Boiledbeetle · 02/04/2026 18:05

No! None of either. I had to order cat food so added a cheap ball of something that is definitely not wool wool and a crochet hook to my order.

I shall go look on You Tube later.

I tried doing a magic ring/circle. Luckily balls of non wool don't break when thrown against a wall.

Edited

You just need to practice lots and lots, accept that your first few efforts will be a bit rubbish and wonky. I didn't use Bella Coco but I did have a good book with diagrams that helped, I'll try find a picture of it

Bearfrills · 02/04/2026 22:25

This one.

Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
Boiledbeetle · 02/04/2026 22:33

Bearfrills · 02/04/2026 22:18

You just need to practice lots and lots, accept that your first few efforts will be a bit rubbish and wonky. I didn't use Bella Coco but I did have a good book with diagrams that helped, I'll try find a picture of it

I will try again, maybe tomorrow. It depends how long it takes me to untangle myself from the ball of wool! 😖

Boiledbeetle · 03/04/2026 20:27

I was out for a short walk earlier (for the purposes of this my house is magically in @KnottyAndPistey street)...

Did no one tell Maud the postie doesn't work on Good Friday? Apparently Maud and Fawley have spent most of the day looking out the window waiting for post!

I see Maud has bought cat paw gloves, which are an improvement on her human hands gloves!

Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
ChristmasStars · 03/04/2026 21:04

Oh poor impatient Maud and Fawley!

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