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Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?

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KnottyAndPistey · 02/03/2026 19:12

We bring such sad news, lovely wafflenose has lost her younger daughter (L) through tragic circumstances and we are just so desperately sorry, thoughts very much with waffle, her family and all who loved her daughter. Really really devastating. Life has been desperately cruel. You may well recognise waffle from music/education/Extra-curricular threads here on MN. Both her lovely daughters have been involved with Mumsnet.

We are so glad waffle would like to receive a Woolly Hug. For those new on here, this is a long standing tradition on Mumsnet where folk come together to make a blanket for one of our own who has been bereaved. There will be love crafted into every stitch. We want it to be a tribute and full of memories. We hope it may give whatever comfort it can.

People have described L as a quiet light, the gentlest of souls. Let us make something truly beautiful in her honour.

So we come again asking for help and shall need both crafters and donors of funds of wool. Can you help us? We would be truly grateful. Thank you

Important crafting info
Squares to be six inches, using 4mm needles or hook. Please knot off VERY carefully when finishing or changing colour and sew your ends in, thank you! No blocking please, makes it much easier to join squares.

Simple or complex, made by beginner or expert, we genuinely welcome them all. It really is the love and thought that counts.

We have some ideas for themes..
Initials please E, G, L and K

She played the recorder, the clarinet and the cello, but focused mainly on the clarinet latterly and played in the National Children's Orchestra Under 10s for a while. Her NCO hoodie was bright blue - a bit like Yarnsmith dark turquoise.

She loved art and reading and was very creative. Loved Harry Potter and would probably have been in Hufflepuff house had she been at Hogwarts.

She had a quirky mind and used to love lego.

She was quite a fashionista. Loved Vogue magazine and Miss Dior perfume

Favourite colours were pink and white (pink more than white).

English literature was the love of her life. We are hoping someone can recreate a bookshelf square? One of her favourite books was Jane Eyre. She had also been studying Plath and Hughes.

She loved swimming and the great outdoors, particular the Quantock Hills. (Photo) We are hoping this may act as an inspiration.

Work/volunteering: she did Brownies and Guides and volunteered as a Rainbow Guider and also volunteered on a hospital ward for a while. She worked as a waitress and at the village pub.

She was interested in philosophy and was planning to become a psychologist/counsellor.

She liked Fleetwood Mac.

She kept tropical fish, hamsters and gerbils and loved all other animals especially cats.

She also liked art and photography.

She was very passionate about being an organ donor - and several people have now received life-saving operations because of her. A truly wonderful young woman.

Lots of ideas and ways to get to know L better. If you can recreate a theme on a square, wonderful, but we also need simple squares, A square in one of her favourite colours is perfect too.

The MAIN Colours. We will be using her favourites,
Pinks from pale baby pink through to magenta.
Cream, but only please Drops Merino Extra Fine - Off White (01) or Yarnsmiths Merino DK Superwash - Off White (3045)
Lighter silvers
Greens pale to mid. Think nature inspired

Then embellishments and accents ONLY please (not whole squares)
Blues - sky to navy inc turquoise.
Sunset shades - red, orange, yellow, gold, but only if creating a sunset!
Browns taupe to mid
Charcoal grey
Black

The Yarn we will be Using for Consistency ….
Yarnsmiths Merino DK Superwash - a BIG sale at Wool Warehouse. Has the widest range of colours
Debbie Bliss Rialto DK only available on Love Crafts
Drops Merino Extra Fine DK.
Katia Merino 100% DK
King Cole Luxury Merino DK

Just from the brands listed please because we know they combine for wash and wear. If you still have any of our wools that have been discontinued or have become less easy to find- Artesano Superwash Merino DK, Debbie Bliss Cashmerino DK, Jenny Watson Pure Merino DK, Patons Merino Extrafine DK or James C. Brett Pure Merino DK in your stash, please do use them.

Posting will be Teddington, please message if you need the address. If you'd like to include a card for her family , please send with your squares. And please don't forget to include your name!

If you can upload photos of your squares on here as we go along, that will be a lovely record, especially if you have donated yarn.

Will set the last posting date once we are underway but it will be approx 6 weeks hence

Thoughts and love very much with waffle, we are so so sorry. Remembering L Star

Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
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JaneExotic · 03/03/2026 19:25

I can’t knit but I can donate! Please tell me how.

Boiledbeetle · 03/03/2026 19:51

JaneExotic · 03/03/2026 19:25

I can’t knit but I can donate! Please tell me how.

https://www.woollyhugs.org/donate-2/

On the link above there's a donate button. (You get the option on one screen as you go through to write a message)

Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
FluffandBuzz · 03/03/2026 20:19

No donation needed for me- I've had a look through my stash and I have the accent colours so I've ordered some pinks and green (I had to order some Stylecraft special for my Chernobyl anyway so I had an order ready to deliver). I'll get started once it arrives

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IndieRocknRoll · 03/03/2026 20:29

i wish I could knit but I can’t so have donated instead.x

thirdfiddle · 03/03/2026 20:31

Long time follower of the music threads, it is such sad news. Thank you very clever people for taking the time to knit and crochet for wafflenose's family. I have sent a donation.

Yiayoula · 03/03/2026 20:43

@Boiledbeetle - very excited at the reappearance of Maud ! ❤️

wifty · 03/03/2026 20:49

sending love to wafflenose - thinking of you.

i am so sorry for your loss 💐 x x x x x

JaneExotic · 03/03/2026 21:00

Boiledbeetle · 03/03/2026 19:51

https://www.woollyhugs.org/donate-2/

On the link above there's a donate button. (You get the option on one screen as you go through to write a message)

Thank you. I’ve donated.

Ineedtoseetobelieve32 · 03/03/2026 21:08

I’ve just come across this post having never heard of Woolly Hugs before. I’m so happy such wonderful people do this for those who need it. I have no knitting talents but have donated - thanks to everyone involved 💐

caringcarer · 03/03/2026 21:22

If someone sends me a link (PM) for a couple of balls of whatever wool they would like I'll happily buy it and post it to someone far more skillful than me to knit or crochet. She sounds a wonderful young woman. Much love to Wafflenose and family. X

inkymoose · 03/03/2026 23:35

So sorry to hear about Wafflenose's daughter.
I would love to get knitting for Woolly Hugs once again ... I'll have a look at the colours needed, and will update you when I get going.
Lovely to see Maud 🧡🩵🩷

KnottyAndPistey · 04/03/2026 09:31

Morning beautiful people Brew

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KnottyAndPistey · 04/03/2026 09:34

Ineedtoseetobelieve32 · 03/03/2026 21:08

I’ve just come across this post having never heard of Woolly Hugs before. I’m so happy such wonderful people do this for those who need it. I have no knitting talents but have donated - thanks to everyone involved 💐

Thank you - yes it is a quiet and beautiful corner of Mumsnet, we do have our own topic area, and you'll see blankets going back to 2011, they existed before that but more in messages, that bit was before my time, I remember each of them as if it were yesterday. We usually start in Chat as more folk are likely to see, then they get moved over by some lovely MN sprite

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KnottyAndPistey · 04/03/2026 09:44

We do have more lovely donors to thank, we will send yarn to a crafter and they will make something very beautiful from you both. If lovely donors you'd like to send a card to the family, just drop me a message and I'll send the address. Cards go in with the blanket.

Thank yous to

Flowers DS Star

Flowers @JaneExotic Star

Flowers @trumpet Star

Flowers LS Star

Flowers KO Star

You are all stars. Thank you

Am organising yarn to go out now, lovely crafters if you are receiving donated yarn, please pop on here to say it has arrived safely and please if possible post pics of your squares when done.

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KnottyAndPistey · 04/03/2026 09:45

IndieRocknRoll · 03/03/2026 20:29

i wish I could knit but I can’t so have donated instead.x

Thank you!

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KnottyAndPistey · 04/03/2026 09:45

Thank you @thirdfiddle

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KnottyAndPistey · 04/03/2026 09:45

Yiayoula · 03/03/2026 20:43

@Boiledbeetle - very excited at the reappearance of Maud ! ❤️

Me too!

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KnottyAndPistey · 04/03/2026 09:46

That is so kind @caringcarer I will do this this morning, Im just gathering addresses.

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KnottyAndPistey · 04/03/2026 09:47

It is lovely to see her @inkymoose - thank yoou

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KnottyAndPistey · 04/03/2026 09:49

If you are seeing this post for the first time, we know how folk dip in and out of Mumsnet, please do join us, still lots of time, and we'd love to have you on board. Back later on, thank you!

Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
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Boiledbeetle · 04/03/2026 10:03

KnottyAndPistey · 04/03/2026 09:45

Me too!

After snuggles with her favourite cat last night Maud got an excellent night of sleep and is already up and working hard.

Despite you no doubt being completely on top of it Maud is currently doing a wool stock take.

Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
CautiousLurker2 · 04/03/2026 10:06

Deepest condolences to Waffle. Such sad news.

PrizedPickledPopcorn · 04/03/2026 10:41

I have become confused at the wool choice! I will pm and ask for some wool please. Hopefully my decisiveness button will return to functionality in time.

ifIwerenotanandroid · 04/03/2026 12:26

Sending love to Waffle.

I've got some squares in mind including, if things go according to plan, at least one gerbil called Millicent. I'm also going to try to write out patterns for full-length & head-only Maud, so anyone can have a go at making a gerbil if they'd like to. Bear with me on that & I'll do it asap. If you fancy having a go, you'll need small amounts of (a) one of the recommended off-whites & (b) something gerbil-coloured - plus miniscule amounts of pale pink & black for embroidering details. Maud herself is crocheted; backgrounds could be knitted or crocheted.

Thanks to the wonderful @KnottyAndPistey for her organisational skills, encouragement & ability to put it all together!

inkymoose · 04/03/2026 12:42

ifIwerenotanandroid · 04/03/2026 12:26

Sending love to Waffle.

I've got some squares in mind including, if things go according to plan, at least one gerbil called Millicent. I'm also going to try to write out patterns for full-length & head-only Maud, so anyone can have a go at making a gerbil if they'd like to. Bear with me on that & I'll do it asap. If you fancy having a go, you'll need small amounts of (a) one of the recommended off-whites & (b) something gerbil-coloured - plus miniscule amounts of pale pink & black for embroidering details. Maud herself is crocheted; backgrounds could be knitted or crocheted.

Thanks to the wonderful @KnottyAndPistey for her organisational skills, encouragement & ability to put it all together!

I'd love to have a go at crocheting a Maud! I'm new to crochet though, having been okay at knitting but really didn't get crochet. I have been experimenting recently with little amigurumi animals. Have finished one, three more are in progress but it's rather slow.

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