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Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?

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KnottyAndPistey · 02/03/2026 19:12

We bring such sad news, lovely wafflenose has lost her younger daughter (L) through tragic circumstances and we are just so desperately sorry, thoughts very much with waffle, her family and all who loved her daughter. Really really devastating. Life has been desperately cruel. You may well recognise waffle from music/education/Extra-curricular threads here on MN. Both her lovely daughters have been involved with Mumsnet.

We are so glad waffle would like to receive a Woolly Hug. For those new on here, this is a long standing tradition on Mumsnet where folk come together to make a blanket for one of our own who has been bereaved. There will be love crafted into every stitch. We want it to be a tribute and full of memories. We hope it may give whatever comfort it can.

People have described L as a quiet light, the gentlest of souls. Let us make something truly beautiful in her honour.

So we come again asking for help and shall need both crafters and donors of funds of wool. Can you help us? We would be truly grateful. Thank you

Important crafting info
Squares to be six inches, using 4mm needles or hook. Please knot off VERY carefully when finishing or changing colour and sew your ends in, thank you! No blocking please, makes it much easier to join squares.

Simple or complex, made by beginner or expert, we genuinely welcome them all. It really is the love and thought that counts.

We have some ideas for themes..
Initials please E, G, L and K

She played the recorder, the clarinet and the cello, but focused mainly on the clarinet latterly and played in the National Children's Orchestra Under 10s for a while. Her NCO hoodie was bright blue - a bit like Yarnsmith dark turquoise.

She loved art and reading and was very creative. Loved Harry Potter and would probably have been in Hufflepuff house had she been at Hogwarts.

She had a quirky mind and used to love lego.

She was quite a fashionista. Loved Vogue magazine and Miss Dior perfume

Favourite colours were pink and white (pink more than white).

English literature was the love of her life. We are hoping someone can recreate a bookshelf square? One of her favourite books was Jane Eyre. She had also been studying Plath and Hughes.

She loved swimming and the great outdoors, particular the Quantock Hills. (Photo) We are hoping this may act as an inspiration.

Work/volunteering: she did Brownies and Guides and volunteered as a Rainbow Guider and also volunteered on a hospital ward for a while. She worked as a waitress and at the village pub.

She was interested in philosophy and was planning to become a psychologist/counsellor.

She liked Fleetwood Mac.

She kept tropical fish, hamsters and gerbils and loved all other animals especially cats.

She also liked art and photography.

She was very passionate about being an organ donor - and several people have now received life-saving operations because of her. A truly wonderful young woman.

Lots of ideas and ways to get to know L better. If you can recreate a theme on a square, wonderful, but we also need simple squares, A square in one of her favourite colours is perfect too.

The MAIN Colours. We will be using her favourites,
Pinks from pale baby pink through to magenta.
Cream, but only please Drops Merino Extra Fine - Off White (01) or Yarnsmiths Merino DK Superwash - Off White (3045)
Lighter silvers
Greens pale to mid. Think nature inspired

Then embellishments and accents ONLY please (not whole squares)
Blues - sky to navy inc turquoise.
Sunset shades - red, orange, yellow, gold, but only if creating a sunset!
Browns taupe to mid
Charcoal grey
Black

The Yarn we will be Using for Consistency ….
Yarnsmiths Merino DK Superwash - a BIG sale at Wool Warehouse. Has the widest range of colours
Debbie Bliss Rialto DK only available on Love Crafts
Drops Merino Extra Fine DK.
Katia Merino 100% DK
King Cole Luxury Merino DK

Just from the brands listed please because we know they combine for wash and wear. If you still have any of our wools that have been discontinued or have become less easy to find- Artesano Superwash Merino DK, Debbie Bliss Cashmerino DK, Jenny Watson Pure Merino DK, Patons Merino Extrafine DK or James C. Brett Pure Merino DK in your stash, please do use them.

Posting will be Teddington, please message if you need the address. If you'd like to include a card for her family , please send with your squares. And please don't forget to include your name!

If you can upload photos of your squares on here as we go along, that will be a lovely record, especially if you have donated yarn.

Will set the last posting date once we are underway but it will be approx 6 weeks hence

Thoughts and love very much with waffle, we are so so sorry. Remembering L Star

Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
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KnottyAndPistey · 03/03/2026 08:20

If you are seeing this for the first time, we still need help, please do join us, and I will be back this evening to catch up, so all queries, requests, please do pop them here, and if you need yarn, pls message us with your address.

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warmpinkshawl · 03/03/2026 08:29

Is Stylecraft Special DK ok? I have that in my stash along with suitable colours and could crochet some squares.

Bearfrills · 03/03/2026 08:29

Ordering these colours, just posting to check the pale silver isn't too pale?

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Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
KnottyAndPistey · 03/03/2026 08:32

warmpinkshawl · 03/03/2026 08:29

Is Stylecraft Special DK ok? I have that in my stash along with suitable colours and could crochet some squares.

Not for this @warmpinkshawl , the yarns we are using are in the Op, basically all merino superwashes, but we are happy to send some to you if needed.

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KnottyAndPistey · 03/03/2026 08:33

Think its perfect @Bearfrills

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SpiralArchitect · 03/03/2026 10:50

I will make a couple of squares, will pm.
Thinking of lovely wafflenose xx

TheNinjaGooseIsHooking · 03/03/2026 11:17

I'm in and have pmed. Sending much love to Waffle and L's loved ones xx

SDTGisAnEvilWolefGenius · 03/03/2026 11:20

Count me in, @KnottyAndPistey - a couple of my usual squares?

MadisonAvenue · 03/03/2026 11:51

Sending much love to Wafflenose and loved ones x

I’ve just ordered some yarn so count me in.

FiveGoMadInDorset · 03/03/2026 11:54

Will order will when I get home tomorrow

Babsandherwabs · 03/03/2026 13:40

I’d love to help with some crochet squares.

Its my first time -
I have lots of Stylcraft DK in the right colours. Could I use these and do solid colour blocks? Or do you want the named yarns only - if so can I be sent some please. Will send you my address now.

Thanks

MinervaRemus · 03/03/2026 13:58

I've just ordered some wool so will try and crochet a couple of squares. Bit of a novice so they'll be very simple.
Are the bank details still the same? I'll send over a donation just in case my squares don't quite work out.

Boiledbeetle · 03/03/2026 16:19

My condolences to wafflenose and her family x

As a non knitter I'm useless at the practical bit so Maud and I have made a donation to Woolly Hugs to help those that need wool from @KnottyAndPistey.

Maud is currently packing and will be on her way to you shortly K&P.

Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
KnottyAndPistey · 03/03/2026 18:49

Maud!

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KnottyAndPistey · 03/03/2026 18:49

I'll make ready her bedroom, I'm so excited

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KnottyAndPistey · 03/03/2026 18:50

SDTGisAnEvilWolefGenius · 03/03/2026 11:20

Count me in, @KnottyAndPistey - a couple of my usual squares?

@SDTGisAnEvilWolefGenius they would be so perfect, thank you

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KnottyAndPistey · 03/03/2026 18:50

FiveGoMadInDorset · 03/03/2026 11:54

Will order will when I get home tomorrow

Safe travels my love

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KnottyAndPistey · 03/03/2026 18:52

@Babsandherwabs will send some, we are using a 100% merino super wash, so need to think consistency for wash and wear

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KnottyAndPistey · 03/03/2026 18:53

MinervaRemus · 03/03/2026 13:58

I've just ordered some wool so will try and crochet a couple of squares. Bit of a novice so they'll be very simple.
Are the bank details still the same? I'll send over a donation just in case my squares don't quite work out.

Thank you @MinervaRemus yes everything is the same, thank you. Simple squares are perfect

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Boiledbeetle · 03/03/2026 18:57

KnottyAndPistey · 03/03/2026 18:49

I'll make ready her bedroom, I'm so excited

I see you've given her a key!

Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
KnottyAndPistey · 03/03/2026 18:58

Maud is a very keen gerbil who came to help me with Swash's Woolly Hug, I adore her, I keep her portrait close, she's in my kitchen, and she truly makes me smile when I see her.

Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
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KnottyAndPistey · 03/03/2026 18:59

Boiledbeetle · 03/03/2026 18:57

I see you've given her a key!

She's here!

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KnottyAndPistey · 03/03/2026 18:59

I am away to PMS - there is a joyful avalanche

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KnottyAndPistey · 03/03/2026 19:13

Thank you so much everyone, we already have a wonderful donor to thank, without our lovely donors our projects just can't function as they do. It means folk aren't excluded because of costs, and it means the world.

Flowers @Boiledbeetle Star

You are astonishingly kind, thank you

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