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Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?

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KnottyAndPistey · 02/03/2026 19:12

We bring such sad news, lovely wafflenose has lost her younger daughter (L) through tragic circumstances and we are just so desperately sorry, thoughts very much with waffle, her family and all who loved her daughter. Really really devastating. Life has been desperately cruel. You may well recognise waffle from music/education/Extra-curricular threads here on MN. Both her lovely daughters have been involved with Mumsnet.

We are so glad waffle would like to receive a Woolly Hug. For those new on here, this is a long standing tradition on Mumsnet where folk come together to make a blanket for one of our own who has been bereaved. There will be love crafted into every stitch. We want it to be a tribute and full of memories. We hope it may give whatever comfort it can.

People have described L as a quiet light, the gentlest of souls. Let us make something truly beautiful in her honour.

So we come again asking for help and shall need both crafters and donors of funds of wool. Can you help us? We would be truly grateful. Thank you

Important crafting info
Squares to be six inches, using 4mm needles or hook. Please knot off VERY carefully when finishing or changing colour and sew your ends in, thank you! No blocking please, makes it much easier to join squares.

Simple or complex, made by beginner or expert, we genuinely welcome them all. It really is the love and thought that counts.

We have some ideas for themes..
Initials please E, G, L and K

She played the recorder, the clarinet and the cello, but focused mainly on the clarinet latterly and played in the National Children's Orchestra Under 10s for a while. Her NCO hoodie was bright blue - a bit like Yarnsmith dark turquoise.

She loved art and reading and was very creative. Loved Harry Potter and would probably have been in Hufflepuff house had she been at Hogwarts.

She had a quirky mind and used to love lego.

She was quite a fashionista. Loved Vogue magazine and Miss Dior perfume

Favourite colours were pink and white (pink more than white).

English literature was the love of her life. We are hoping someone can recreate a bookshelf square? One of her favourite books was Jane Eyre. She had also been studying Plath and Hughes.

She loved swimming and the great outdoors, particular the Quantock Hills. (Photo) We are hoping this may act as an inspiration.

Work/volunteering: she did Brownies and Guides and volunteered as a Rainbow Guider and also volunteered on a hospital ward for a while. She worked as a waitress and at the village pub.

She was interested in philosophy and was planning to become a psychologist/counsellor.

She liked Fleetwood Mac.

She kept tropical fish, hamsters and gerbils and loved all other animals especially cats.

She also liked art and photography.

She was very passionate about being an organ donor - and several people have now received life-saving operations because of her. A truly wonderful young woman.

Lots of ideas and ways to get to know L better. If you can recreate a theme on a square, wonderful, but we also need simple squares, A square in one of her favourite colours is perfect too.

The MAIN Colours. We will be using her favourites,
Pinks from pale baby pink through to magenta.
Cream, but only please Drops Merino Extra Fine - Off White (01) or Yarnsmiths Merino DK Superwash - Off White (3045)
Lighter silvers
Greens pale to mid. Think nature inspired

Then embellishments and accents ONLY please (not whole squares)
Blues - sky to navy inc turquoise.
Sunset shades - red, orange, yellow, gold, but only if creating a sunset!
Browns taupe to mid
Charcoal grey
Black

The Yarn we will be Using for Consistency ….
Yarnsmiths Merino DK Superwash - a BIG sale at Wool Warehouse. Has the widest range of colours
Debbie Bliss Rialto DK only available on Love Crafts
Drops Merino Extra Fine DK.
Katia Merino 100% DK
King Cole Luxury Merino DK

Just from the brands listed please because we know they combine for wash and wear. If you still have any of our wools that have been discontinued or have become less easy to find- Artesano Superwash Merino DK, Debbie Bliss Cashmerino DK, Jenny Watson Pure Merino DK, Patons Merino Extrafine DK or James C. Brett Pure Merino DK in your stash, please do use them.

Posting will be Teddington, please message if you need the address. If you'd like to include a card for her family , please send with your squares. And please don't forget to include your name!

If you can upload photos of your squares on here as we go along, that will be a lovely record, especially if you have donated yarn.

Will set the last posting date once we are underway but it will be approx 6 weeks hence

Thoughts and love very much with waffle, we are so so sorry. Remembering L Star

Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
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Boiledbeetle · 01/04/2026 20:56

ChristmasStars · 01/04/2026 17:38

As much as I enjoy a good fashion show not that I've ever seen one before I must admit this has been going on quite some time!

She's still at it. I'll insist she has to redo today's hour! But just stick to squares.

Fawley is out for the count having eaten nearly a full packet of Catnip Dreamies to herself and poor @ChristmasStars! At least it's given you chance to file your claws.

Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
ChristmasStars · 01/04/2026 20:57

Boiledbeetle · 01/04/2026 20:56

She's still at it. I'll insist she has to redo today's hour! But just stick to squares.

Fawley is out for the count having eaten nearly a full packet of Catnip Dreamies to herself and poor @ChristmasStars! At least it's given you chance to file your claws.

I'm surprised we haven't moved onto her range of pyjamas yet!

Boiledbeetle · 01/04/2026 20:59

ChristmasStars · 01/04/2026 20:57

I'm surprised we haven't moved onto her range of pyjamas yet!

The night is still young!

I think @KnottyAndPistey needs to go and pull out the plug and pull Maud out of the study!

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Boiledbeetle · 01/04/2026 21:15

@ChristmasStars Your zoom call has finished.

Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
ChristmasStars · 01/04/2026 21:28

Goodnight Maud!

AlexandraLeaving · 01/04/2026 21:33

My elderly dad is always asking what I'm knitting when we chat on FaceTime each evening so he has been following the progress of the blanket with interest. I sent him the link to the WH page of Swashbuckled's blanket and he was admiring it scrolling down as we talked. Maud took a bit of explaining. I'm not sure he was wholly convinced I had not lost a few screws/joined a cult.

I hope she sleeps well after her exciting Zoom call with ChristmasStars.

Boiledbeetle · 01/04/2026 21:45

AlexandraLeaving · 01/04/2026 21:33

My elderly dad is always asking what I'm knitting when we chat on FaceTime each evening so he has been following the progress of the blanket with interest. I sent him the link to the WH page of Swashbuckled's blanket and he was admiring it scrolling down as we talked. Maud took a bit of explaining. I'm not sure he was wholly convinced I had not lost a few screws/joined a cult.

I hope she sleeps well after her exciting Zoom call with ChristmasStars.

Took a BIT of explaining 😅 I bet she did. I'm just imagining his face as you tried to explain a gerbil in Domestic Service who has a penchant for Battenberg cake and likes to take the cat for a ride in the countryside on the motorbike, buys an extraordinary amount of new clothes each month whilst also being able to whip up a full Sunday roast at a moments notice.

MyrtleLion · 01/04/2026 22:45

Boiledbeetle · 01/04/2026 21:45

Took a BIT of explaining 😅 I bet she did. I'm just imagining his face as you tried to explain a gerbil in Domestic Service who has a penchant for Battenberg cake and likes to take the cat for a ride in the countryside on the motorbike, buys an extraordinary amount of new clothes each month whilst also being able to whip up a full Sunday roast at a moments notice.

Wait till you hear about her training an elite squad of military gerbils to support magpies over at the Bluestocking...

Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
MyrtleLion · 01/04/2026 22:47

Boiledbeetle · 01/04/2026 20:49

Knitting with no wool? Are you making me invisible socks? Are you? Are you? Are you? Will my feet disappear when I wear them?

😘

They will be made from acrylic yarn. Not wool that might trigger allergies. But also sadly not invisible...

Bearfrills · 02/04/2026 10:32

Treasure on its way to you, will be headed to the post office after this cuppa.

Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
EnchantedDaydream · 02/04/2026 11:08

Mine are in the post, I forgot to take a photo, two squares one pink one green

Boiledbeetle · 02/04/2026 11:30

Bearfrills · 02/04/2026 10:32

Treasure on its way to you, will be headed to the post office after this cuppa.

They're all so beautiful! ❤️

Boiledbeetle · 02/04/2026 11:34

I imagine Maud may be regretting yesterday's fashion show today. She now has to put everything away. Fawley is also regretting her decision to "eat all the Dreamies NOW"

(Artist's impression as Maud's phone is currently lost in the mountain of clothes)

Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
Igneococcus · 02/04/2026 12:43

I just sent five plain squares off to @KnottyAndPistey . They aren't as nice as all the others posted here already but I hope they come in usefull as plain spacers between all the much more elaborate ones.

Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
Boiledbeetle · 02/04/2026 13:03

Maud has found her phone!

Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
ifIwerenotanandroid · 02/04/2026 13:11

Boiledbeetle · 02/04/2026 13:03

Maud has found her phone!

She's such a sweetie!

AlexandraLeaving · 02/04/2026 13:32

Bearfrills · 02/04/2026 10:32

Treasure on its way to you, will be headed to the post office after this cuppa.

Those are gorgeous. Such a pleasing symmetry to crotcheted squares - all that beautiful detail AND it is symmetrical.

AlexandraLeaving · 02/04/2026 13:34

Igneococcus · 02/04/2026 12:43

I just sent five plain squares off to @KnottyAndPistey . They aren't as nice as all the others posted here already but I hope they come in usefull as plain spacers between all the much more elaborate ones.

They are beautiful.

AlexandraLeaving · 02/04/2026 13:36

Boiledbeetle · 01/04/2026 21:45

Took a BIT of explaining 😅 I bet she did. I'm just imagining his face as you tried to explain a gerbil in Domestic Service who has a penchant for Battenberg cake and likes to take the cat for a ride in the countryside on the motorbike, buys an extraordinary amount of new clothes each month whilst also being able to whip up a full Sunday roast at a moments notice.

It was one of those faces he pulls where he thinks he has not fully heard what is being said, because his hearing aids are on the blink, but he does not want to admit it after being teased mercilessly in the past for ridiculous guesses as to what might have been said.

KnottyAndPistey · 02/04/2026 14:22

I did wonder what was wrong with Fawley

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KnottyAndPistey · 02/04/2026 14:23

@Igneococcus ssssahhhhhh! Those are beautiful. And look how perfect they are….

Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
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KnottyAndPistey · 02/04/2026 14:26

Meanwhile Maud and Fawley are watching Bridgerton with half an ear for the postie.

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Boiledbeetle · 02/04/2026 14:28

KnottyAndPistey · 02/04/2026 14:26

Meanwhile Maud and Fawley are watching Bridgerton with half an ear for the postie.

😱 Its got an adult rating on it! (And if it hasn't it should have).

I hope you've given them eye masks.

KnottyAndPistey · 02/04/2026 14:46

I’ve told them to hide behind cushions.

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KnottyAndPistey · 02/04/2026 14:47

We have treasure!

💐 @Iwantacampervan ⭐️ Such beautifully knitted hearts. Absolutely gorgeous.

Thank you so much!

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