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Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?

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KnottyAndPistey · 02/03/2026 19:12

We bring such sad news, lovely wafflenose has lost her younger daughter (L) through tragic circumstances and we are just so desperately sorry, thoughts very much with waffle, her family and all who loved her daughter. Really really devastating. Life has been desperately cruel. You may well recognise waffle from music/education/Extra-curricular threads here on MN. Both her lovely daughters have been involved with Mumsnet.

We are so glad waffle would like to receive a Woolly Hug. For those new on here, this is a long standing tradition on Mumsnet where folk come together to make a blanket for one of our own who has been bereaved. There will be love crafted into every stitch. We want it to be a tribute and full of memories. We hope it may give whatever comfort it can.

People have described L as a quiet light, the gentlest of souls. Let us make something truly beautiful in her honour.

So we come again asking for help and shall need both crafters and donors of funds of wool. Can you help us? We would be truly grateful. Thank you

Important crafting info
Squares to be six inches, using 4mm needles or hook. Please knot off VERY carefully when finishing or changing colour and sew your ends in, thank you! No blocking please, makes it much easier to join squares.

Simple or complex, made by beginner or expert, we genuinely welcome them all. It really is the love and thought that counts.

We have some ideas for themes..
Initials please E, G, L and K

She played the recorder, the clarinet and the cello, but focused mainly on the clarinet latterly and played in the National Children's Orchestra Under 10s for a while. Her NCO hoodie was bright blue - a bit like Yarnsmith dark turquoise.

She loved art and reading and was very creative. Loved Harry Potter and would probably have been in Hufflepuff house had she been at Hogwarts.

She had a quirky mind and used to love lego.

She was quite a fashionista. Loved Vogue magazine and Miss Dior perfume

Favourite colours were pink and white (pink more than white).

English literature was the love of her life. We are hoping someone can recreate a bookshelf square? One of her favourite books was Jane Eyre. She had also been studying Plath and Hughes.

She loved swimming and the great outdoors, particular the Quantock Hills. (Photo) We are hoping this may act as an inspiration.

Work/volunteering: she did Brownies and Guides and volunteered as a Rainbow Guider and also volunteered on a hospital ward for a while. She worked as a waitress and at the village pub.

She was interested in philosophy and was planning to become a psychologist/counsellor.

She liked Fleetwood Mac.

She kept tropical fish, hamsters and gerbils and loved all other animals especially cats.

She also liked art and photography.

She was very passionate about being an organ donor - and several people have now received life-saving operations because of her. A truly wonderful young woman.

Lots of ideas and ways to get to know L better. If you can recreate a theme on a square, wonderful, but we also need simple squares, A square in one of her favourite colours is perfect too.

The MAIN Colours. We will be using her favourites,
Pinks from pale baby pink through to magenta.
Cream, but only please Drops Merino Extra Fine - Off White (01) or Yarnsmiths Merino DK Superwash - Off White (3045)
Lighter silvers
Greens pale to mid. Think nature inspired

Then embellishments and accents ONLY please (not whole squares)
Blues - sky to navy inc turquoise.
Sunset shades - red, orange, yellow, gold, but only if creating a sunset!
Browns taupe to mid
Charcoal grey
Black

The Yarn we will be Using for Consistency ….
Yarnsmiths Merino DK Superwash - a BIG sale at Wool Warehouse. Has the widest range of colours
Debbie Bliss Rialto DK only available on Love Crafts
Drops Merino Extra Fine DK.
Katia Merino 100% DK
King Cole Luxury Merino DK

Just from the brands listed please because we know they combine for wash and wear. If you still have any of our wools that have been discontinued or have become less easy to find- Artesano Superwash Merino DK, Debbie Bliss Cashmerino DK, Jenny Watson Pure Merino DK, Patons Merino Extrafine DK or James C. Brett Pure Merino DK in your stash, please do use them.

Posting will be Teddington, please message if you need the address. If you'd like to include a card for her family , please send with your squares. And please don't forget to include your name!

If you can upload photos of your squares on here as we go along, that will be a lovely record, especially if you have donated yarn.

Will set the last posting date once we are underway but it will be approx 6 weeks hence

Thoughts and love very much with waffle, we are so so sorry. Remembering L Star

Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
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KnottyAndPistey · 19/03/2026 18:40

Now as that pic shows, they are zonked

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KnottyAndPistey · 19/03/2026 18:42

We have treasure! Beautiful squares arriving.

💐 @HoggyTruffle ⭐️ just perfect. Beautifully done.

thank you!

Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
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Boiledbeetle · 19/03/2026 19:04

KnottyAndPistey · 19/03/2026 18:40

Now as that pic shows, they are zonked

I'll let them off then considering all they've done today! I just thought they were being lazy.

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Boiledbeetle · 19/03/2026 19:08

KnottyAndPistey · 19/03/2026 18:42

We have treasure! Beautiful squares arriving.

💐 @HoggyTruffle ⭐️ just perfect. Beautifully done.

thank you!

Maud is just admiring them @HoggyTruffle.

Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
ifIwerenotanandroid · 19/03/2026 19:52

Boiledbeetle · 18/03/2026 21:33

<adds image to prototype Maud sticker sheet>

Now I just need to find somewhere that makes stickers!

I think redbubble does, but I don't know if they're cut to shape. If you have any sheets of print-your-own-labels, you could always print some off at home & have Maud-enhanced address labels.

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Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
Boiledbeetle · 19/03/2026 19:55

ifIwerenotanandroid · 19/03/2026 19:52

I think redbubble does, but I don't know if they're cut to shape. If you have any sheets of print-your-own-labels, you could always print some off at home & have Maud-enhanced address labels.

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Edited

If you could send IT support round to unblock the inkjet nozzles on the blue and magenta I'll get right on that.

ifIwerenotanandroid · 19/03/2026 19:56

You want gerbil IT support?? 😬

Boiledbeetle · 19/03/2026 19:57

ifIwerenotanandroid · 19/03/2026 19:56

You want gerbil IT support?? 😬

I'll settle for human IT support at a push.

ifIwerenotanandroid · 19/03/2026 20:02

No, the girls are on it.

Although when you'll get the photographic proof, who knows?

Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
ifIwerenotanandroid · 19/03/2026 20:28

Still no picture...

What's going on? It used to take one 'refresh' & it would come up.

Boiledbeetle · 19/03/2026 20:46

ifIwerenotanandroid · 19/03/2026 20:28

Still no picture...

What's going on? It used to take one 'refresh' & it would come up.

Have you tried turning it off and on again?

I just heard a very loud squeak and some shocked gasps.

Gertrude is currently exclaiming "she meant to do it" and has "always wanted blue fur".

The repairs are going well.

I dare not go in and check though.

Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
Boiledbeetle · 19/03/2026 20:47

ifIwerenotanandroid · 19/03/2026 20:28

Still no picture...

What's going on? It used to take one 'refresh' & it would come up.

Well.... that appears to be a you problem!

Boiledbeetle · 19/03/2026 20:57

Great. They've mumbled something about it needing a part that they'll need to order and they'll be back a week on Wednesday.

I shall now go and clean up the trail of blue paw prints Gertrude has left behind.

If Maud was here they'd have stayed until they fixed it.

Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
ifIwerenotanandroid · 19/03/2026 21:07

Boiledbeetle · 19/03/2026 20:47

Well.... that appears to be a you problem!

Thanks for your support, I really appreciate it. 🙄This is bringing back memories of our (v v v short) marriage. 🙄🙄🙄

💙

ifIwerenotanandroid · 19/03/2026 21:09

ifIwerenotanandroid · 19/03/2026 20:02

No, the girls are on it.

Although when you'll get the photographic proof, who knows?

Over an hour & still waiting...

AlexandraLeaving · 19/03/2026 21:09

A couple of funeral-music-inspired squares today. Which sounds a bit morbid but all the music was specially chosen and meant something special to Rara so hopefully will be welcome. Don’t worry, am about to sew in the ends on the lighthouse.

Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
Boiledbeetle · 19/03/2026 21:32

AlexandraLeaving · 19/03/2026 21:09

A couple of funeral-music-inspired squares today. Which sounds a bit morbid but all the music was specially chosen and meant something special to Rara so hopefully will be welcome. Don’t worry, am about to sew in the ends on the lighthouse.

They are stunning squares.

I'm sure they will be welcome.

Boiledbeetle · 19/03/2026 21:35

ifIwerenotanandroid · 19/03/2026 21:07

Thanks for your support, I really appreciate it. 🙄This is bringing back memories of our (v v v short) marriage. 🙄🙄🙄

💙

Hurrah! You're image has posted.

You know I love you really.

ifIwerenotanandroid · 19/03/2026 21:35

Gorgeous, @AlexandraLeaving !

ifIwerenotanandroid · 19/03/2026 21:38

Boiledbeetle · 19/03/2026 21:35

Hurrah! You're image has posted.

You know I love you really.

Good Bye GIF

Yes, yes, but I can never speak to you again after that 'you're'. Them's the MN rules.

Boiledbeetle · 19/03/2026 21:40

ifIwerenotanandroid · 19/03/2026 21:38

Yes, yes, but I can never speak to you again after that 'you're'. Them's the MN rules.

I corrected it twice. It reverted back when I was wasn't looking.

ifIwerenotanandroid · 19/03/2026 21:41

Boiledbeetle · 19/03/2026 21:40

I corrected it twice. It reverted back when I was wasn't looking.

Jennifer Lawrence Thumbs Up GIF

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Boiledbeetle · 19/03/2026 21:47

Maud! Drinking on Thursday?

<shakes head>

Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
SDTGisAnEvilWolefGenius · 19/03/2026 22:24

Cute pyjamas, Maud.

Freya1542 · 20/03/2026 04:13

Boiledbeetle · 19/03/2026 21:40

I corrected it twice. It reverted back when I was wasn't looking.

It'll have been Maud @Boiledbeetle She's a gallus wee gerbil 🐹😊

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