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Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?

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KnottyAndPistey · 02/03/2026 19:12

We bring such sad news, lovely wafflenose has lost her younger daughter (L) through tragic circumstances and we are just so desperately sorry, thoughts very much with waffle, her family and all who loved her daughter. Really really devastating. Life has been desperately cruel. You may well recognise waffle from music/education/Extra-curricular threads here on MN. Both her lovely daughters have been involved with Mumsnet.

We are so glad waffle would like to receive a Woolly Hug. For those new on here, this is a long standing tradition on Mumsnet where folk come together to make a blanket for one of our own who has been bereaved. There will be love crafted into every stitch. We want it to be a tribute and full of memories. We hope it may give whatever comfort it can.

People have described L as a quiet light, the gentlest of souls. Let us make something truly beautiful in her honour.

So we come again asking for help and shall need both crafters and donors of funds of wool. Can you help us? We would be truly grateful. Thank you

Important crafting info
Squares to be six inches, using 4mm needles or hook. Please knot off VERY carefully when finishing or changing colour and sew your ends in, thank you! No blocking please, makes it much easier to join squares.

Simple or complex, made by beginner or expert, we genuinely welcome them all. It really is the love and thought that counts.

We have some ideas for themes..
Initials please E, G, L and K

She played the recorder, the clarinet and the cello, but focused mainly on the clarinet latterly and played in the National Children's Orchestra Under 10s for a while. Her NCO hoodie was bright blue - a bit like Yarnsmith dark turquoise.

She loved art and reading and was very creative. Loved Harry Potter and would probably have been in Hufflepuff house had she been at Hogwarts.

She had a quirky mind and used to love lego.

She was quite a fashionista. Loved Vogue magazine and Miss Dior perfume

Favourite colours were pink and white (pink more than white).

English literature was the love of her life. We are hoping someone can recreate a bookshelf square? One of her favourite books was Jane Eyre. She had also been studying Plath and Hughes.

She loved swimming and the great outdoors, particular the Quantock Hills. (Photo) We are hoping this may act as an inspiration.

Work/volunteering: she did Brownies and Guides and volunteered as a Rainbow Guider and also volunteered on a hospital ward for a while. She worked as a waitress and at the village pub.

She was interested in philosophy and was planning to become a psychologist/counsellor.

She liked Fleetwood Mac.

She kept tropical fish, hamsters and gerbils and loved all other animals especially cats.

She also liked art and photography.

She was very passionate about being an organ donor - and several people have now received life-saving operations because of her. A truly wonderful young woman.

Lots of ideas and ways to get to know L better. If you can recreate a theme on a square, wonderful, but we also need simple squares, A square in one of her favourite colours is perfect too.

The MAIN Colours. We will be using her favourites,
Pinks from pale baby pink through to magenta.
Cream, but only please Drops Merino Extra Fine - Off White (01) or Yarnsmiths Merino DK Superwash - Off White (3045)
Lighter silvers
Greens pale to mid. Think nature inspired

Then embellishments and accents ONLY please (not whole squares)
Blues - sky to navy inc turquoise.
Sunset shades - red, orange, yellow, gold, but only if creating a sunset!
Browns taupe to mid
Charcoal grey
Black

The Yarn we will be Using for Consistency ….
Yarnsmiths Merino DK Superwash - a BIG sale at Wool Warehouse. Has the widest range of colours
Debbie Bliss Rialto DK only available on Love Crafts
Drops Merino Extra Fine DK.
Katia Merino 100% DK
King Cole Luxury Merino DK

Just from the brands listed please because we know they combine for wash and wear. If you still have any of our wools that have been discontinued or have become less easy to find- Artesano Superwash Merino DK, Debbie Bliss Cashmerino DK, Jenny Watson Pure Merino DK, Patons Merino Extrafine DK or James C. Brett Pure Merino DK in your stash, please do use them.

Posting will be Teddington, please message if you need the address. If you'd like to include a card for her family , please send with your squares. And please don't forget to include your name!

If you can upload photos of your squares on here as we go along, that will be a lovely record, especially if you have donated yarn.

Will set the last posting date once we are underway but it will be approx 6 weeks hence

Thoughts and love very much with waffle, we are so so sorry. Remembering L Star

Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
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Boiledbeetle · 18/03/2026 14:27

KnottyAndPistey · 18/03/2026 08:21

NOOOOOOOOOOO! Not you too Boily?!

My deep clean is done. And I am restored to normal. Whatever that might be. My only issue is that Fawley loves the smell of bleach. Whenever I go swimming she gets a bit giddy, so she is as high as a kite. Currently she thinks she’s spider woman.

But but but she is spiderwoman!

Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
Boiledbeetle · 18/03/2026 14:41

KnottyAndPistey · 17/03/2026 11:39

Hoping the cat and badger don’t upset Maud.

Maud loves them. She was in the middle of admiring @FluffandBuzz squares earlier when Fawley swooped in and stole the badger square.

Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
Boiledbeetle · 18/03/2026 14:52

Maud is determined she will get the square back in time for her to cook tea.

She just threatened Fawley that she will be going in the pot with the carrots if she doesn't hand over the badger square.

Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?

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MadisonAvenue · 18/03/2026 15:03

Mine are finished and ready to mail, I’ll probably go to the post office on Friday.

Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
Boiledbeetle · 18/03/2026 15:30

MadisonAvenue · 18/03/2026 15:03

Mine are finished and ready to mail, I’ll probably go to the post office on Friday.

I will never stop being gobsmacked at what you lot can do with a ball of wool

😍

KnottyAndPistey · 18/03/2026 19:46

Freya1542 · 18/03/2026 09:23

@Boiledbeetle

"plans to catch up on her socials tomorrow" I do hope so.

I just love her selfies/updates 😍

Me toooooo!!

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KnottyAndPistey · 18/03/2026 19:47

Boiledbeetle · 18/03/2026 14:27

But but but she is spiderwoman!

I have shared this picture with the family. 😃

We didn’t know!

we do now!

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KnottyAndPistey · 18/03/2026 19:50

True sadness here. 🥹🥹🥹🥹🥹🥹🥹

Poor Maud. Fawley is terrible. She must do better. No more Dreamies.

Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
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KnottyAndPistey · 18/03/2026 19:51

Maud now has the badger square locked in her box. Thank goodness.

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KnottyAndPistey · 18/03/2026 19:52

MadisonAvenue · 18/03/2026 15:03

Mine are finished and ready to mail, I’ll probably go to the post office on Friday.

@MadisonAvenue Truly beautiful as always. You star. Thank you! 💐

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KnottyAndPistey · 18/03/2026 19:54

And more beautiful squares are safely here. Gorgeous treasure.

💐 @Karistyleaftea ⭐️ Superb in pink and white. Thank you so much.

Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
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Boiledbeetle · 18/03/2026 20:00

KnottyAndPistey · 18/03/2026 19:54

And more beautiful squares are safely here. Gorgeous treasure.

💐 @Karistyleaftea ⭐️ Superb in pink and white. Thank you so much.

Maud very sensibly shut Fawley on the other side of the living room door in order to admire @Karistyleaftea handiwork.

Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
Boiledbeetle · 18/03/2026 21:00

I think Maud is enjoying her revenge a little too much.

And Fawley really needs a bath. All that rolling around in the garden has resulted in... wait... that's NOT Fawley.

Oh well played Fawley. You sent in the stunt double.

Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
ChristmasStars · 18/03/2026 21:09

That's the cutest pic of Maud laughing.

Boiledbeetle · 18/03/2026 21:33

ChristmasStars · 18/03/2026 21:09

That's the cutest pic of Maud laughing.

<adds image to prototype Maud sticker sheet>

Now I just need to find somewhere that makes stickers!

Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
ChristmasStars · 18/03/2026 22:41

Oh I would love Maud stickers!

MyrtleLion · 18/03/2026 23:25

Squares were collected by Royal Mail today and will be delivered by the weekend.

Maud is just so talented.

Yiayoula · 19/03/2026 06:11

ChristmasStars · 18/03/2026 22:41

Oh I would love Maud stickers!

Me too !

KnottyAndPistey · 19/03/2026 09:33

This is both my favourite and my least favourite. It either means she is arriving ❤️ or leaving 💔

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KnottyAndPistey · 19/03/2026 09:33

Pic would help.

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PrizedPickledPopcorn · 19/03/2026 09:47

She’s arriving! Otherwise we’d be seeing her from behind! Glass half full, please!
My squares were posted yesterday. Hopefully they’ll arrive tomorrow.

I’m irritated by their imperfections but telling myself they’ll make an even better foil for exquisite work like @MadisonAvenues!

Boiledbeetle · 19/03/2026 16:29

I see Maud is working hard today!

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Igneococcus · 19/03/2026 16:45

Maybe Maud is experiencing Frühjahrsmüdigkeit (spring tiredness). Grünhilde might have introduced her to the concept.

Boiledbeetle · 19/03/2026 16:52

Igneococcus · 19/03/2026 16:45

Maybe Maud is experiencing Frühjahrsmüdigkeit (spring tiredness). Grünhilde might have introduced her to the concept.

That or she's been taking lessons from Fawley on how to spend the day!

KnottyAndPistey · 19/03/2026 18:39

It’s been the most beautiful spring day today. Glorious. Fawley and Maud have been non stop. Every time I see them they are rushing about. They even cut my grass!

‘Twas the first cut of the year. Really I needed a few sheep it was that long. But they got there in the end.

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