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Tax TAx TAX!!!!!! Fuming at our government!

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Baldylovingbeard · 26/11/2025 13:29

please try and convince me otherwise…..

What a joke this government are!!! ( UK)

Let’s just tax everyone who earns a bit of cash!!! Oh and while we’re at it… go on have loads more children it’s ok others will pay for them!!! Cutting the 2child benefit cap! If you decide to have multiple children you should be able to afford to provide for them. NOT expect others too!!!!! If you fall on hard times and you’ve worked and contributed to paying tax than you are within your rights to claim tax this is what benefits were made for, it’s not a means to not work, have more kids….etc!

Oh and if you work really hard and want to put some money by for you later days in life…. You’ll be taxed!

My situation:
Part time work, full time mum to 1 child. I work for myself and earn around 10k this money usually pays for things our daughter needs… clothes, clubs, any treats.
Husband works long hours, his under a lot of stress with his job, he has worked his way to and earns a very good salary 100k he gets taxed 60% you do the maths on that! We live in a 3 bed around £280k so nothing crazy but live within our means. We have one car! One holiday a year! Put money into savings! Pension! our daughter goes to one after school club. My husband got kicked out of home at 16…. He has worked with no help from family or friends and I believe he has worked very hard to get to where he is now. we are generous with charity’s and try our best to help out when we can if we can!

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Cnidarian · 26/11/2025 18:57

Trainstrike · 26/11/2025 13:48

I'm a high rate tax payer and my husband is not. We live in a pretty cheap part of the country by choice and I count us as incredibly lucky to earn what we do. We have no issues living within our means, and I can't see anything in the latest budget which is particularly concerning. I'm relatively new to the higher rate bracket, and I don't really have an issue paying more because I earn more.

It sounds like I'm in the minority from social media reaction though.

Same here.

YorkshireGoldDrinker · 26/11/2025 18:58

Doggielovecharlotte · 26/11/2025 18:44

Which is why we can never solve things - the attitude and priorities of this group of earners

I can’t believe the poster had the gaul
to tell us that…

the irony “I know, I’m so cross I had to move all my investments” 😮

It's more a question of why should anyone invest in anything or work anymore? Everything you do is taxed. Even if you stopped working and lived exclusively on unearned income, ie stocks and shares dividends, you still have to pay council tax while living in your own freehold house.

I'm very tempted to not sign in to work tomorrow. I've grafted for as long as I've been old enough to work. Now I want to give up.

Wynter25 · 26/11/2025 18:59

YorkshireGoldDrinker · 26/11/2025 16:41

"What people need to realise. You cant live off just benefits."

Oh, so it's JUST benefits now. It's the luxuries you don't get on benefits that you want but don't need.

You need to live, don't you? Then the taxpayer props you up. If you want luxuries, you earn them.

🙄

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SleeplessInWherever · 26/11/2025 19:00

The audacity of you complaining about tax you don’t even pay.

I’ve got a long day at work headache, a disabled child in the room next door yelling at Toy Story, and still don’t mind paying my higher rate tax to ensure people can eat and you know, survive.

Get a grip.

MollyMollyMandy33 · 26/11/2025 19:01

Nickyknackered · 26/11/2025 18:48

She's complaining about tax rises that she isnt paying! Part timer only thanks to a bloke she married. Hardly the moral high ground over the parents earning less than her who need help too. She's one divorce away from being in their position and are you telling me she wouldn't claim help? Of course she would!

You are being ridiculous. She is working PT and looking after a child in what sounds like a stable situation, where they can afford that child. Pity more people can’t do the same.

ICanSpellConfusionWithaK · 26/11/2025 19:01

You’re wrong OP - benefits are not for people that have fallen on hard times. My husband lost his job and was out of work for a year. We were not eligible for benefits other than job seekers @ £90 a week due to savings and once that was gone we could have £1200 a month, and only that because we owned our own home (mortgaged). Our mortgage is £1100 a month.

meanwhile the scroungers down the pub every day are having a great time…

most stressful time of our lives

the joke is we have both paid tax since we were 18! Always worked. Only got 2 kids, private pensions, on the property ladder, do everything right.

BakedAlaskaInMyTummy · 26/11/2025 19:01

Jamesblonde2 · 26/11/2025 18:54

Well i have a sneaky feeling beauticians and nail bars will see an increase in takings.

So will local drug dealers. I live in the real world and see it.

Yep. Family two streets away…child lives with dad, mum AWOL (we understand prison). He does not work. The poor DD has ill-fitting clothes and the first thing she does when she heads into the local primary first thing in the morning is get breakfast from the office lady because she doesn’t get it at home. However, dad’s house smells of weed day in day out.

Falraven · 26/11/2025 19:02

MrsLizzieDarcy · 26/11/2025 18:21

Anyone who thinks that the children being raised in poor households (that will benefit from the removal of this cap) are deluded if they think they are future contributors to the pot. They won't work just like their parents, but you can bet they'll go on and have handfuls of kids that they drag up and go on to repeat the cycle. They are nothing but a drain on the NHS, the education system, Social Services, the Police force and the court systems.The reality is that it's more money for gel nails, slug eyebrows, lip fillers/botox, banned breed dogs, vapes, lottery tickets and food deliveries for their parents... and not one penny will get spent on lifting children out of poverty.

But today we're celebrating these families and giving them even more money from the mugs who are working to fund them. Slow hand clap, Labour.

Edited

It's like talking to my mother.

She's ranting about immigrants and "them dirty muslins" (deliberate spelling) where most women will be attacked by someone they know or family.

Or my cousin who refused to pay his ex wife any money to care for their 4 dc, because of the "nails" etc - i don't even think she wore nails varnish, or make up. But that was his shifty lazy argument. He's a cunt though.

Mumof2wifeof1crazytimes · 26/11/2025 19:03

ledmeup · 26/11/2025 13:55

@YorkshireGoldDrinker aren't Reform in agreement with lifting the 2 child cap?

I thought that too but only for those who work which I agree with.

Bruminbrum · 26/11/2025 19:04

Jamesblonde2 · 26/11/2025 18:54

Well i have a sneaky feeling beauticians and nail bars will see an increase in takings.

So will local drug dealers. I live in the real world and see it.

In the same way you trust me not to spend my child benefit (not this benefit that was lifted, the usual one) on crack, you’re going to have to extend the principle of trust. Yes there’s gonna be some that abuse it, but is what it is.

which is why a state run early years provision is a far far better outcome for all. But the government seem to be adverse to long term thinking

Doggielovecharlotte · 26/11/2025 19:05

YorkshireGoldDrinker · 26/11/2025 18:58

It's more a question of why should anyone invest in anything or work anymore? Everything you do is taxed. Even if you stopped working and lived exclusively on unearned income, ie stocks and shares dividends, you still have to pay council tax while living in your own freehold house.

I'm very tempted to not sign in to work tomorrow. I've grafted for as long as I've been old enough to work. Now I want to give up.

Why wouldn’t you expect to pay council tax?

to get your rubbish taken away etc etc

Bruminbrum · 26/11/2025 19:06

BakedAlaskaInMyTummy · 26/11/2025 19:01

Yep. Family two streets away…child lives with dad, mum AWOL (we understand prison). He does not work. The poor DD has ill-fitting clothes and the first thing she does when she heads into the local primary first thing in the morning is get breakfast from the office lady because she doesn’t get it at home. However, dad’s house smells of weed day in day out.

Then this is a safeguarding failure of the school rather than the principe of overturning the benefit cap

JoannaVictoria · 26/11/2025 19:07

Scrapping the two child limit = children coming out of poverty.

Children are the future of this country and should not be punished and forced to live in poverty.

END OF .

InlandTaipan · 26/11/2025 19:07

YorkshireGoldDrinker · 26/11/2025 18:58

It's more a question of why should anyone invest in anything or work anymore? Everything you do is taxed. Even if you stopped working and lived exclusively on unearned income, ie stocks and shares dividends, you still have to pay council tax while living in your own freehold house.

I'm very tempted to not sign in to work tomorrow. I've grafted for as long as I've been old enough to work. Now I want to give up.

Do it! Then come back in a year and tell us how it's going.

SleeplessInWherever · 26/11/2025 19:09

InlandTaipan · 26/11/2025 19:07

Do it! Then come back in a year and tell us how it's going.

Imagine going AWOL from work because you don’t like the government’s budget. Imagine.

Melodramaaaa.

InlandTaipan · 26/11/2025 19:10

Oops! Apologies, double post

YorkshireGoldDrinker · 26/11/2025 19:10

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catlover123456789 · 26/11/2025 19:10

I don't agree with uncapping child benefit. It could have been capped at 3, but why should taxpayers pay for people to have big families with no limit? What happens to those children when the cap is eventually reintroduced by successive government?

bigsisteriswatchingyou · 26/11/2025 19:13

Baldylovingbeard · 26/11/2025 13:29

please try and convince me otherwise…..

What a joke this government are!!! ( UK)

Let’s just tax everyone who earns a bit of cash!!! Oh and while we’re at it… go on have loads more children it’s ok others will pay for them!!! Cutting the 2child benefit cap! If you decide to have multiple children you should be able to afford to provide for them. NOT expect others too!!!!! If you fall on hard times and you’ve worked and contributed to paying tax than you are within your rights to claim tax this is what benefits were made for, it’s not a means to not work, have more kids….etc!

Oh and if you work really hard and want to put some money by for you later days in life…. You’ll be taxed!

My situation:
Part time work, full time mum to 1 child. I work for myself and earn around 10k this money usually pays for things our daughter needs… clothes, clubs, any treats.
Husband works long hours, his under a lot of stress with his job, he has worked his way to and earns a very good salary 100k he gets taxed 60% you do the maths on that! We live in a 3 bed around £280k so nothing crazy but live within our means. We have one car! One holiday a year! Put money into savings! Pension! our daughter goes to one after school club. My husband got kicked out of home at 16…. He has worked with no help from family or friends and I believe he has worked very hard to get to where he is now. we are generous with charity’s and try our best to help out when we can if we can!

Honestly! Calm down it’s not the end of the world … we put up with the poxy corrupt tories for all that time

Bruminbrum · 26/11/2025 19:17

catlover123456789 · 26/11/2025 19:10

I don't agree with uncapping child benefit. It could have been capped at 3, but why should taxpayers pay for people to have big families with no limit? What happens to those children when the cap is eventually reintroduced by successive government?

It will become entrenched and unpopular to roll back like that blasted triple lock

LBFseBrom · 26/11/2025 19:17

Nickyknackered · 26/11/2025 13:32

That's a bit rich considering you work part time. How lucky you are that you married someone who can subsidise that choice you've made.

Good point!
Not many greengrocers can work from home for ten hours a week.

OP, your husband's net salary should be around £68,000 pa. Not bad, you'll manage. I expect you get fruit and veg for nothing.

Crikeyalmighty · 26/11/2025 19:17

Doggielovecharlotte · 26/11/2025 19:05

Why wouldn’t you expect to pay council tax?

to get your rubbish taken away etc etc

I believe local authorities these days are responsible for care for the elderly too if they don’t have decent assets - that’s a real biggie and something I think does need looking at - my view on this is 2p insurance care tax on everyone over 40 , only first £80,000 of assets can be taken , after that it’s covered off and counts for both care homes and care at home . I haven’t costed it but in theory I think it makes sense- so many elderly people don’t get care they need or make poor decisions because they are frightened of ‘not leaving anything’ or burning through their cash - it would also in my opinion stop a lot of dodgy practice trying to avoid paying out

Jamesblonde2 · 26/11/2025 19:18

BakedAlaskaInMyTummy · 26/11/2025 19:01

Yep. Family two streets away…child lives with dad, mum AWOL (we understand prison). He does not work. The poor DD has ill-fitting clothes and the first thing she does when she heads into the local primary first thing in the morning is get breakfast from the office lady because she doesn’t get it at home. However, dad’s house smells of weed day in day out.

Oh well more children being removed from their parents due to increased drug misuse. Maybe it’s better for the kids after all then - in some twisted way. Perhaps not what supporters of removing the cap envisaged. Social workers - get your engines revving.

Gettingdressed · 26/11/2025 19:19

surreygirly · 26/11/2025 13:35

This govt is a joke
If you get off your backside to look after yourself you get f k d
I have voted Labour all my life
Destroying the economy#
Shafting anyone who tried to look after themselves
NEVER EVER AGAIN

in the same boat here

Jamesblonde2 · 26/11/2025 19:21

Doggielovecharlotte · 26/11/2025 18:54

Omg “the undeserving poor”

listen to yourself!

Completely stand by my comments.

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