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Friend still believes in "chavs"?

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waytoooldforthisshite · 08/11/2025 13:42

Had a funny (well, slightly depressing) conversation today. my friend came round all flustered, telling me that she'd been "harassed by chavs" outside the shop. One was some teenager who asked for her number 🙄

Tried to explain that "chavs" aren't even real, it's a tabloid invented stereotype/myth from the early 2000s that was basically used to demonise working class people. But she just went on about it like she was quoting The Sun from 2004. I ended up showing her this article. She's 39.... and I expected her to know a bit better but what can ya do eh?

Just feels so outdated now. You don't really hear anyone say "chav" anymore (thankfully), and it's weird how those old class-based stereotypes still linger. I honestly felt like I'd timetravelled back to the Little Britain era 😂

Anyone else still know people who talk like that?

The Rise and Fall of the 'Chav' in British Culture

Uncover why the 'chav' stereotype dominated UK media. We explore the origins, fashion, class issues, and the truth behind the caricature. A deep dive.

https://eathealthy365.com/the-rise-and-fall-of-the-chav-in-british-culture/

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lazyarse123 · 08/11/2025 16:59

I always think of chavs as people of questionable taste ie: sparkly ornaments, everything silver and pineapple jogging outfits, but they don't exercise. Usually don't work so not working class.

AngryBird6122 · 08/11/2025 17:00

I used to be a chav

Pleasegetmeacoffeesotired · 08/11/2025 17:00

waytoooldforthisshite · 08/11/2025 16:47

You can't be killed by something that's a myth. That's like saying my friend got killed by Bigfoot.

For fucks sake

quirinus · 08/11/2025 17:00

Flowers8989 · 08/11/2025 13:54

Lol...I live near Rochdale..trust me they exist 🤣

Sorry this got me 😂 I grew up in Belfield (bloody rough and chavvy) and was thinking the exact same thing. My parents are still there but I thank my lucky stars I’m not now! It’s a tough life with chavvy people left, right and centre who would batter you if you so much as blink wrong. I’m betting the OP doesn’t live in a place like Rochdale if she thinks chavs don’t exist.

Jamesblonde2 · 08/11/2025 17:01

People say chav all the time, what are you on about? And we know who we are referring to when we say it. Please don’t shut down the use of language to explain something really easily.

ThatKeenShaker · 08/11/2025 17:01

waytoooldforthisshite · 08/11/2025 15:37

If they are real then I've yet to encounter a single one.

Maybe you are one?

You are extremely offensive by pretending that "chavs" = working class people.
Being working class does not mean and has never meant being a chav. HTH

Carla786 · 08/11/2025 17:01

BrendasGarden · 08/11/2025 15:19

I grew up in what used to be known as the underclass. I self identified as scum rather than a chav as a teenager, but knew plenty of self described chavs. I believe that phrase, underclass, is also no longer considered acceptable, but it fit well. Maybe it should be out-class instead? We weren't part of a national society at all; we were a rowdy group with no respect for institutions of any kind, and very limited loyalty to anyone, including within the scum community.

We weren't working class, because most people didn't do legitimate work.... Maybe the odd bit of cash in hand, but mostly not. Genuinely, every single adult I knew was dealing drugs and/or on benefits long term and very openly. People would block the roads when Police came, so they couldn't drive through as a routine reaction to seeing the cars - social workers wouldn't come near us without police alongside. People would burn you out rather than phone the police; all crime was dealt with 'in house,' because prison wasn't seen as a proper punishment like torture was.

I think that's what people mean by 'chav.' It's a very different profile to a working class person in sportswear. I am confident it's a social group that existed, because I grew up in it. It's just a social group that has different names as time passes. It's the section of society who hates the rest of it, has no respect for it and lives outside any idea of respectability. I have dragged myself up to the giddy heights of working class and I'll not have my scum family included alongside me! It's a very different world.

I'm really sorry you've had those experiences. You sound like a very strong person to improve your situation in such a horrible environment.
What do you think started the chain of events that the people you write about to live like that? Was it a generational thing dating back a long way? Or more recent?
Sorry, I can understand if you don't want to give more detail.

YankSplaining · 08/11/2025 17:02

Wow, this thread is giving me nostalgia. I (American) was last in the UK in 2006, and “chav” was one of the terms I had to figure out. The others were “WAGs” and “Page 3 girl.” 😂

Stormwhatnow · 08/11/2025 17:03

I'm literally standing watching a kids football match surrounded by chavs in dry robes 😂.
They exist.

Nayyercheekyfeckers · 08/11/2025 17:03

waytoooldforthisshite · 08/11/2025 14:04

A "Chav" is something invented by the media in the early 2000's, a caricature that's used to demonise the working class as violent and animalistic.

People see normal, working class lads in sportswear and think "oh, those are chavs" in the same way a fishermen who believes in Nessie sees a big fish and goes "oh, there's Nessie". The chav myth has long been debunked

https://www.socialistparty.org.uk/articles/12930/05-10-2011/chav-hate-is-class-hate/

To quote the above article; "But the Chav myth dangerously tries to divide sections of working people against one another."

Note the word "myth"

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Oh well, if an article from Cambridge says so and another in the socialist press concurs, it must be right! We all have to accept your two sources, despite the evident biases and limitations.
We all know what chavs are when we see them. It's a certain sub sector. It's not necessarily restricted to class either.

quirinus · 08/11/2025 17:03

waytoooldforthisshite · 08/11/2025 13:58

I'll trust the reputable sources. First link is from Cambridge University's website

Yeah, Cambridge University… bet they know all about chavs. Much more than folks who’ve grown up with this shite and call it what it is.

HopeSpringsInfernal · 08/11/2025 17:04

chakademusandplier · 08/11/2025 14:48

Be careful OP, every time someone says, 'I don't believe in Chavs," there is a chav somewhere that loses their Burberry hat

😂😂

Carla786 · 08/11/2025 17:04

Nayyercheekyfeckers · 08/11/2025 17:03

Oh well, if an article from Cambridge says so and another in the socialist press concurs, it must be right! We all have to accept your two sources, despite the evident biases and limitations.
We all know what chavs are when we see them. It's a certain sub sector. It's not necessarily restricted to class either.

I'm not sure though : would an upper class hellraiser be called a chav? Hooray Henry maybe? Middle class? Maybe yes

Carla786 · 08/11/2025 17:04

AngryBird6122 · 08/11/2025 17:00

I used to be a chav

Why?

CantBreathe90 · 08/11/2025 17:05

"Chavs aren't real" 😂 They're not like Santa, there's no debate over whether or not they're "real"!

quirinus · 08/11/2025 17:05

waytoooldforthisshite · 08/11/2025 14:01

Trackie bottoms and Rockports were popular/mainstream fashion in the early 2000's where I live

Where do you live?

Pollqueen · 08/11/2025 17:05

waytoooldforthisshite · 08/11/2025 14:34

Loads of the kids are using a hateful classist slur?

I'd suggest you reach for the smelling salts, OP. Chav is one of the less offensive slurs kids are using.

This thread is hilarious. Leftie leaning, middle class Guardianista meets the real world 🤣🤣

BatchCookBabe · 08/11/2025 17:05

No way is this word in the past. As has been said, it's used regularly on here!

Ooogle · 08/11/2025 17:05

waytoooldforthisshite · 08/11/2025 16:58

Goths are a real subculture, so no, goths aren't a myth.

Why aren’t chavs? Who are you to decide they aren’t a real subculture? Because you’ve found an article online declaring it when there are plenty of other articles arguing the opposite? You don’t get to decide what is and isn’t a sub culture, sorry, OP. You’re coming across a little bit thick now with comparing chavs to Nessie and Nessie to a fish and proclaiming that because you’ve never seen a chav they don’t exist. I mean, you must realise how ridiculous that particular argument is? I’ve never seen many things but I don’t go around saying they mustn’t exist then. If you had any valid points, people would be agreeing with you, but no one is because you don’t.

Carla786 · 08/11/2025 17:06

quirinus · 08/11/2025 17:00

Sorry this got me 😂 I grew up in Belfield (bloody rough and chavvy) and was thinking the exact same thing. My parents are still there but I thank my lucky stars I’m not now! It’s a tough life with chavvy people left, right and centre who would batter you if you so much as blink wrong. I’m betting the OP doesn’t live in a place like Rochdale if she thinks chavs don’t exist.

If I can ask, why do you think Rochdale became like this? Did deindustrialisation/too-generous benefits play a role? Or other causes?

WonderfulSmith · 08/11/2025 17:06

waytoooldforthisshite · 08/11/2025 16:47

You can't be killed by something that's a myth. That's like saying my friend got killed by Bigfoot.

You can fuck off with that. And I don’t care if I get deleted. Don’t use the death of that poor woman to further your bullshit.

BatchCookBabe · 08/11/2025 17:07

waytoooldforthisshite · 08/11/2025 14:08

Normal working class lads who dress in a very popular way (sportswear) get called "chavs" but chavs are a myth (just like Nessie is a myth). Some fishermen who believe in Nessie see a fish in Loch Ness and conclude it must be Nessie.

What you call "chavs" aren't "chavs" they're just normal working class people. Dressing in sportswear is mainstream fashion

Why do you keep going on about fish and Nessie? Confused

Carla786 · 08/11/2025 17:08

Pollqueen · 08/11/2025 17:05

I'd suggest you reach for the smelling salts, OP. Chav is one of the less offensive slurs kids are using.

This thread is hilarious. Leftie leaning, middle class Guardianista meets the real world 🤣🤣

What other slurs do you think kids are using? If you mean the depressing resurgence of the f-slur and r-slur, do you really think that's a good thing?

I agree quibbling over chav is stupid though if it's being used to describe actual chavvy behaviour.

MNLurker1345 · 08/11/2025 17:10

Carla786 · 08/11/2025 16:55

Roadman is used for Caribbean youths I thought? Who do similar antisocial things to chavs?

There are “Road Man”, of all colours and persuasions, but predominantly black British!

And yes anti social, criminal tendency, “haughty” boys.

YankSplaining · 08/11/2025 17:10

WonderfulSmith · 08/11/2025 14:44

Could I go to the bottom of my garden and find you a fairy? No. Myth.

Can I go up in the mountains in Wales and find a dragon? No. Myth.

Can I go into town and find you someone that most people would recognise and refer to as a chav? Yes. Not a myth.

Just because you want to police other people’s language it doesn’t stop scummy fuckers existing.

If you believe in chavs, clap your hands! 👏 😂

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