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Charlie Kirk dead

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Booneymil · 10/09/2025 23:20

The last thread was taken down because of personal insults towards the man.

We should be able to have a thread about this news topic.

Report any insulting posts. Mumsnet can you please just delete the offending posts, instead of deleting the whole thread?

Thank you.

Charlie Kirk has died today. He was shot at a public talk that he was giving.

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TheJoyOfWriting · 11/09/2025 03:03

InterIgnis · 11/09/2025 02:02

Based on the amount of blood immediately lost, and the fact he went into a fencing posture (suggesting massive brain stem injury), he was dead by the end of the video imo. That was a very precise lights-out kill shot from 200m away. The shooter knew what they were doing.

I disagreed completely with many of his views, but that doesn’t mean he deserved to be shot. All that this is done is make a martyr of the man, and the ramifications are going to be ugly.

Who was that shooter? Terrifying. I wonder if they could have been caught before?

Why were there no bag searches? A journalist there interviewed by the Guardian said that was odd.

AngelicKaty · 11/09/2025 03:03

Muffinmam · 11/09/2025 02:44

When did he say that?

He said it while answering a question about gun deaths during a TPUSA Faith event on 5th April 2023 on the Salt Lake City campus of Awaken Church. Specifically, he said "I think it's worth it. I think it's worth to have a cost of, unfortunately, some gun deaths every single year so that we can have the Second Amendment to protect our other God-given rights."

TheJoyOfWriting · 11/09/2025 03:04

Daygloboo · 11/09/2025 02:17

I do not think anybody getting shot is ever all right, and I DO find it disturbing that this has happened.

I am disturbed by other things also.

I find it disturbing that a president allegedly has had ( extremely possibly ) unsavoury dealings with females in the past .

I find it disturbing that another man could think that a raped female child who gets pregnant should carry the result of that rape in its body.

How can those things EVER be representations of good wholesome conservative family values. I mean how. No logic on earth is going to convince me that any of that behaviour or thinking is ok.

Finally, a sane and humane post!

TinyIsMyNewt · 11/09/2025 03:04

GallantKumquat · 11/09/2025 02:35

Kirk's primary significance is his fight against the neo-censorship that engulfed the Anglosphere post Trump 1.0. It was a combination of draconian social media censorship, mainstream media group think and the collusion of NGOs/quangos/government bureaucrats fighting against 'disinformation'. The trans issue typified the new rules of de-platforming, cancellation, demonetization, debanking and no-debate, but it was by no means the only topic subjected to the automated thought control that our new age of regulated social media ushered in. It's an extremely dangerous situation for the West, and as the latest Linehan episode has illustrated it's far from over.

I disagreed fundamentally with many of Kirk's positions, but the efforts set in motion to silence him were extraordinary and I don't think there are many public figures in the GC sphere who aren't taking pause.

While I'll condem his killing (and fear what may come of it), Kirk was (like many so-called supporters of free speech, on the right) engaged in suppressing left wing speech that he disagreed with. See the Professor Watchlist.

tamade · 11/09/2025 03:07

Ratafia · 11/09/2025 02:04

But surely those are the scenarios that absolutely have to be put to abortion abolitionists? It's not a debating tool, it's the cold hard reality of where an absolute ban on abortions takes you. By all means, have a civilised debate about it, but don't pretend it can't happen or that it's somehow in bad taste to ask abortion proponents if they think that it's OK not to allow rape victims access to terminations.

In a debate questions should be asked in good faith, I don't believe such a question can be considered to be so.

I think CK was notable for ploughing through such questions whether on guns or abortion and doubling down on his stated beliefs. I think that by answering such questions he made himself appear more unpleasant than he otherwise would have. And I have no doubt this contributed to his murder.

Did CK make unprompted declarations that school shootings etc were a price worth paying for freedom or in response to leading questions? (I don't know) Do the people asking such questions bear some responsibility for his image and therefore the nature of his death?

TheJoyOfWriting · 11/09/2025 03:08

Muffinmam · 11/09/2025 02:41

He was a father and stood for family values. If you knew anything about him you would know this - not just what one side of politics tells you what to think.

So is it 'family values' that a preteen girl who has been raped should not be allowed to have an abortion?

I'm glad I don't know any families with those values!

Sugarnspicenallthingsnaice · 11/09/2025 03:15

CurlewKate · 11/09/2025 02:54

Surely it should be possible to be completely appalled at Kirk’s death and heartbroken for his family and friends but ALSO accept that this is the inevitable consequence of his beliefs? And to hope that some of the people who followed him might, just possibly think that maybe the collateral damage of the second amendment isn’t worth it….

Of course, and it's also possible to be appalled at the idea of murder, especially political assassination, and feeling sorry for his (probably long suffering) wife and family while not being particularly bothered by his loss.

TheJoyOfWriting · 11/09/2025 03:16

tamade · 11/09/2025 03:07

In a debate questions should be asked in good faith, I don't believe such a question can be considered to be so.

I think CK was notable for ploughing through such questions whether on guns or abortion and doubling down on his stated beliefs. I think that by answering such questions he made himself appear more unpleasant than he otherwise would have. And I have no doubt this contributed to his murder.

Did CK make unprompted declarations that school shootings etc were a price worth paying for freedom or in response to leading questions? (I don't know) Do the people asking such questions bear some responsibility for his image and therefore the nature of his death?

Kirk was an adult, an intelligent and articulate one.

I think you're taking away his agency here. I don't believe he was pressured to say those things, I believe he was a strong character who stated what he truly believed- an admirable quality, even if the views were- often less than admirable.

The murder is VILE. Let no one with any humanity say otherwise.

But whitewashing Kirk's image infantilises him : as if it's the interviewer's responsibility that Kirk expressed those views. No, Kirk freely chose to answer those questions w those words

I do not believe that interviewers should be holding back in case an evil kook decides to murder based on a reply given by an interviewee.

The murder is solely the responsibility of the murderer. It's very dangerous to say that other people's words caused the murder. It's the same line of thought that imprisons brave people like Glinner.

I DO think security there was astoundingly weak. Bag searches could have saved Kirk's life!

Sugarnspicenallthingsnaice · 11/09/2025 03:18

TheJoyOfWriting · 11/09/2025 03:03

Who was that shooter? Terrifying. I wonder if they could have been caught before?

Why were there no bag searches? A journalist there interviewed by the Guardian said that was odd.

I believe the reason for this is that it's actually legal to carry concealed firearms on campus in this state. So there was no basis for searching bags.

TheJoyOfWriting · 11/09/2025 03:18

Muffinmam · 11/09/2025 02:43

I respect that he stood up for what he believed in - the importance of family values. He was measured and articulate and he will be missed.

Is it 'measured' to say the above thing about rape & abortion?

Or to say women over 30 are by default not attractive to men (despite marrying a 32yo...)

Or that the Pill automatically makes women 'crazy and bitter'?

Fifisneighbor · 11/09/2025 03:19

InfoSecInTheCity · 10/09/2025 23:53

What? It’s not an either/or situation, there isn’t a predetermined requirement for someone to be shot to death today and the choice is ‘man with opinions some people don’t like’ or ‘bus full of innocent children’.

No-one should have been shot.

Unfortunately the Republicans regularly ignore and downplay children being killed in school shootings. They support the gun lobby at all costs. It is lunacy.

Of course nobody should be shot but they blatantly DO NOT CARE that defenseless children are shot frequently. Think about that.

Oblomov25 · 11/09/2025 03:20

Oh my goodness. How very sad. I liked hearing him debate. Thus is just so awful.

EsmaCannonball · 11/09/2025 03:20

YouWhatBruv · 11/09/2025 02:31

He held the belief that gun deaths were a necessary "cost" to protect Second Amendment rights. He was not a good person.

Did he say 'cost' or 'necessary cost'? There's a big difference. Anyway, the American gun laws are crazy but there are plenty on the left who love their guns. Look at the various politically-motivated murderers of recent months, antifa, the various Occupy movements, the 'arms all trans' people. In horseshoe politics guns are no longer a left/right thing.

There are perfectly reasonable people who say things like 'Better ten guilty men walk free than one innocent man go to jail.' If one of them were killed by a man who had got off from a previous murder and been let loose on the public then it might be cause for questioning the system but should it invite the kind of unpleasant schadenfreude this deeply disturbing assassination has invoked?

TheJoyOfWriting · 11/09/2025 03:21

Sugarnspicenallthingsnaice · 11/09/2025 03:18

I believe the reason for this is that it's actually legal to carry concealed firearms on campus in this state. So there was no basis for searching bags.

Wtf? I'm sorry, but that's insane. How anyone feels safe in those colleges is beyond me.

The unthinking workship of the gun is like a tribe bowing before a god that demands human sacrifices. How many more?

Would this potential make MAGA support at least a little bit more gun control? Or not ..?

MorningLarkEchoes · 11/09/2025 03:21

CurlewKate · 11/09/2025 02:54

Surely it should be possible to be completely appalled at Kirk’s death and heartbroken for his family and friends but ALSO accept that this is the inevitable consequence of his beliefs? And to hope that some of the people who followed him might, just possibly think that maybe the collateral damage of the second amendment isn’t worth it….

So if you’re not left-wing in your political beliefs, you are saying this is the inevitable consequence? Good grief! I’m shocked at the level of nastiness I’ve seen on here tonight…

TheJoyOfWriting · 11/09/2025 03:23

MorningLarkEchoes · 11/09/2025 03:21

So if you’re not left-wing in your political beliefs, you are saying this is the inevitable consequence? Good grief! I’m shocked at the level of nastiness I’ve seen on here tonight…

I think it's clear CurlewKate means that inevitably the kind of lax gun laws Kirk supported cause a lot of death.
I do not think she is saying he deserved it, or is referring to general right wing views, only his views on guns.

Am I right, @CurlewKate?

Sugarnspicenallthingsnaice · 11/09/2025 03:26

Dangermoos · 11/09/2025 01:25

Ah, the kind left, at it again. The voice of compassion and humanity. No wonder your political allies are the laughing stock. You can't even keep up the pretence before the hate rears its head.

"I think empathy is a made up New Age term that does a lot of damage."

Charlie Kirk, 2022

AngelicKaty · 11/09/2025 03:28

tamade · 11/09/2025 03:07

In a debate questions should be asked in good faith, I don't believe such a question can be considered to be so.

I think CK was notable for ploughing through such questions whether on guns or abortion and doubling down on his stated beliefs. I think that by answering such questions he made himself appear more unpleasant than he otherwise would have. And I have no doubt this contributed to his murder.

Did CK make unprompted declarations that school shootings etc were a price worth paying for freedom or in response to leading questions? (I don't know) Do the people asking such questions bear some responsibility for his image and therefore the nature of his death?

Kirk travelled around university campuses inviting students to debate with him. He didn't have to do that. People asked him questions and he answered them, honestly, based on his firmly-held beliefs. He could have chosen to moderate his language to make his views more palatable, but he didn't - that was his choice. He put himself out there and the way he presented himself was entirely his responsibility, so for you to attempt to shift that responsibility to his audiences is extraordinary and utterly disingenuous.

Sugarnspicenallthingsnaice · 11/09/2025 03:33

TheJoyOfWriting · 11/09/2025 03:21

Wtf? I'm sorry, but that's insane. How anyone feels safe in those colleges is beyond me.

The unthinking workship of the gun is like a tribe bowing before a god that demands human sacrifices. How many more?

Would this potential make MAGA support at least a little bit more gun control? Or not ..?

Edited

The gun lobby (and Charlie Kirk's) position seems to be that these sorts of things mean MORE people need to be armed. For their own protection.

Oblomov25 · 11/09/2025 03:35

I still can't believe some of the awful posts re basically he was a trump supporter so deserved to die. I find that hard to stomach. Come on all life is valuable, no one wants someone dead, or shouldn't, and no one should actually be shot. It's a calamity.

plus like others I didnt realise how young he was, he looked older, spoke more maturely. He was only 31. With a wife and 2 kids. This is so sad.

I don't support Trump, I didn't agree with CK on gun laws, or abortion. He was too conservative for me.

But I did agree with him on trans issues. I believe you cant change sex. A woman is a woman. I used to love watching him debate, as he visited all the uni campuses. He was incredibly bright, very articulate, very quick witted and could debate well. Although I did see him get caught out by a uk student!

But as someone who liked his debates re trans and how women are women, I loved watching his debates.

He only said the truth. You can't change sex. And for this he deserved to die? No!

TheJoyOfWriting · 11/09/2025 03:36

AngelicKaty · 11/09/2025 03:28

Kirk travelled around university campuses inviting students to debate with him. He didn't have to do that. People asked him questions and he answered them, honestly, based on his firmly-held beliefs. He could have chosen to moderate his language to make his views more palatable, but he didn't - that was his choice. He put himself out there and the way he presented himself was entirely his responsibility, so for you to attempt to shift that responsibility to his audiences is extraordinary and utterly disingenuous.

Exactly. It's the same kind of argument you hear from TRAs : 'words are violence', from the extreme bits of BLM (see the accusations that a NYT op-ed saying to send troops in to quell the riots was 'putting people in danger), & from the government over migrant protests (I actually think Lucy Connolly should have gone to prison for a short time, bc her post, while imo obvs hyperbole, was made at the height of a dangerous riot where hotel arson was a real possibility. But the sentence was far too long and punitive. I also think the Labour man who talked about 'cutting Tory throats' should also be in jail, bc again while surely not sincere if was directly inciting violence. But generally I think there has been way too much censorship of legitimate migrantion criticism under the blanket of 'protection from violence' )

AngelicKaty · 11/09/2025 03:38

EsmaCannonball · 11/09/2025 03:20

Did he say 'cost' or 'necessary cost'? There's a big difference. Anyway, the American gun laws are crazy but there are plenty on the left who love their guns. Look at the various politically-motivated murderers of recent months, antifa, the various Occupy movements, the 'arms all trans' people. In horseshoe politics guns are no longer a left/right thing.

There are perfectly reasonable people who say things like 'Better ten guilty men walk free than one innocent man go to jail.' If one of them were killed by a man who had got off from a previous murder and been let loose on the public then it might be cause for questioning the system but should it invite the kind of unpleasant schadenfreude this deeply disturbing assassination has invoked?

He actually said "I think it's worth it. I think it's worth to have a cost of, unfortunately, some gun deaths every single year so that we can have the Second Amendment to protect our other God-given rights."
I'm not sure "schadenfreude" about his murder is the right word from the posts I've read on here - it seems more like indifference to me.

Financial · 11/09/2025 03:39

Sugarnspicenallthingsnaice · 11/09/2025 03:18

I believe the reason for this is that it's actually legal to carry concealed firearms on campus in this state. So there was no basis for searching bags.

It’s actually worse than that.
In Utah, anyone who has a concealed carry permit can openly carry a weapon, whether it's a pistol or a rifle, on college campuses if they are over 18.

JKRisGalileo · 11/09/2025 03:39

To all the posters bringing up stuff he said that they (and I!) don't agree withas an excuse for what happened: you are aligning yourselves with people who are condoning his murder. The outbreak of glee and gloating on social media is appalling. You're proving his point: that when you refuse to talk or allow others to talk, then violence breaks out. We're seeing this throughout the once-peaceful Western civilisations. The whole point about the democratic system is that it allows debate and dissent. But right now, too many people are giving themselves permission to express their own dissent with violence rather than words, and we're seeing this on our streets every damn weekend. We need to remember that flawed though it is, a democratic parliamentary multiparty system is the best one we've got. Every other system will punish you for wrongthink, sometimes with death. Charlie Kirk was a decent human being with strong opinions that I didn't fully agree with. He did not deserve to be murdered. Words are not violence: actual violence IS violence.

GallantKumquat · 11/09/2025 03:41

TinyIsMyNewt · 11/09/2025 03:04

While I'll condem his killing (and fear what may come of it), Kirk was (like many so-called supporters of free speech, on the right) engaged in suppressing left wing speech that he disagreed with. See the Professor Watchlist.

I'm certainly not the best person to argue a pro Kirk position, I disagreed with him on too many issues and consequently didn't follow him closely enough for me now to do justice to his views. Certainly he would have disagree with the liberal basis of free speech that I would put forward. maybe others here will argue it.

But keeping a watch list on notorious, public, bad actors is hardly beyond the pale - any activist or politically oriented organization does it. Nor is calling out the extreme ideological capture and intellectual dishonesty of American universities. And more broadly he was 100% correct - there was (and still is) a huge coercive force in place to systematically suppress voices ''on the far right' - and in the trans debate that meant suppressing those of gc women, even those well left of center. It's extremely destructive to our democracies. It's destroyed the trust of millions of citizens in their civic and governing institutions.

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