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Hate how racist everything has become, and how quickly it’s happened.

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Silverbirchleaf · 24/08/2025 22:13

I was just looking at facebook, and a ‘Sad face’ newsmaker article came up. Practically all the comments mentioned boats, asylum seekers etc etc. Its really getting me down.

Travelled to the south west last weekend. On the way down no flags on bridges. On the way back, in some areas, every bridge.

Its scary how quickly it’s all happening.

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Spiderx · 25/08/2025 11:49

Different entirely. Though ,no, don't agree with what is a stronger power ( China) enforcing its will on a neighbouring country . Much like Russia v Ukraine. . Do you really feel like you are in a minority and your rights have been taken away by migrants ? Really ? I think the time has come to forgive the Romans for invading the UK now !

RingoJuice · 25/08/2025 11:50

Goldenbear · 25/08/2025 11:47

So you enjoyed that freedom of movement and located to a different country but your posting history seems to suggest you don't think others should have that available to them, but hypocritical isn't it?

It’s not that easy to just show up in places like China and live there? I hope you can actually appreciate that.

I was on a student visa and converted it to a work visa later on. And I literally know friends and colleagues who were deported for working on tourist visas. China is STRICT. And I had no problem with that, tbh. It’s their country, their rules.

PrissyGalore · 25/08/2025 11:55

Goldenbear · 25/08/2025 11:47

So you enjoyed that freedom of movement and located to a different country but your posting history seems to suggest you don't think others should have that available to them, but hypocritical isn't it?

I think it’s patronising to tell someone they can’t hold a belief because they are an immigrant. I work with immigrant colleagues and have family members who are immigrants who are totally against the people coming by boat. The people I know all came here legitimately-they paid their visa fees, stuck to the rules and paid the NHS surcharge enabling access to healthcare. They aren’t eligible for benefits. So yes, I think it!s quite understandable for them to be miffed and see those arriving by boat housed, fed and given medical care although they arrive illegally when the immigrants who did the right thing don’t get that.

RingoJuice · 25/08/2025 11:55

Oh and I had to have a criminal background check for the student visa. And yeah, it was a pain but I had to do it and now I understand why.

Browniesforbreakfast · 25/08/2025 11:56

Do you really feel like you are in a minority and your rights have been taken away by migrants ?

In many areas of Britain white Britains are in the minority.

MrsBennetsPoorNerves · 25/08/2025 11:57

RingoJuice · 25/08/2025 11:45

Forced demographic change is a tragedy, whether forced at gunpoint or by incredibly naive government policy.

Thats my larger point.

Demographic change is happening constantly, and has done throughout history. It isn't being "forced", it is evolving, as it has evolved over many years. And all of us are the products of such evolution. I'm not sure why you think that, in itself, is a tragedy?

British culture is not being suppressed in any way. It is absurd to draw comparisons to what the people of Tibet have faced and are continuing to face. There is no comparison.

Goldenbear · 25/08/2025 11:57

RingoJuice · 25/08/2025 11:50

It’s not that easy to just show up in places like China and live there? I hope you can actually appreciate that.

I was on a student visa and converted it to a work visa later on. And I literally know friends and colleagues who were deported for working on tourist visas. China is STRICT. And I had no problem with that, tbh. It’s their country, their rules.

I was referring to you living in the UK, do you live in the UK? You implied you married someone from the UK so now you live here and presumably that's why you have an opinion on racism in the UK which it what this thread is about? So essentially you are an immigrant? Why is it ok for you but not others to the UK?

Browniesforbreakfast · 25/08/2025 12:01

EvilEdna44 · 25/08/2025 11:45

Well, I do own my house. I earned the money to pay for it and my name is on the deeds and it’s private property. But I don’t own my town, my county or Great Britain.

And if a refugee fleeing from persecution and in immediate danger needed somewhere to stay, with no “4-star hotels rolling out the red carpet” for them, then I would try to offer them a place to stay in my house. Just like many people did with Ukrainian refugees a couple of years back.

Many of the millions who died in the world wars would feel that did pay for the country and that it is the property of its citizens.

But why are you distinguishing asylum seekers (they haven’t been assessed so you have no idea how credible their claim is) and Ukrainians from local homeless people? Why aren’t you inviting them into your home if you don’t think you deserve it more than others (though it seems you do)?

RingoJuice · 25/08/2025 12:02

MrsBennetsPoorNerves · 25/08/2025 11:57

Demographic change is happening constantly, and has done throughout history. It isn't being "forced", it is evolving, as it has evolved over many years. And all of us are the products of such evolution. I'm not sure why you think that, in itself, is a tragedy?

British culture is not being suppressed in any way. It is absurd to draw comparisons to what the people of Tibet have faced and are continuing to face. There is no comparison.

Not this quickly unless you’ve lost a war or some such.

It is absolutely forced: do you literally think British people would have voted for this, if given the chance? Their betters have decided this fate for them.

Browniesforbreakfast · 25/08/2025 12:03

MrsBennetsPoorNerves · 25/08/2025 11:57

Demographic change is happening constantly, and has done throughout history. It isn't being "forced", it is evolving, as it has evolved over many years. And all of us are the products of such evolution. I'm not sure why you think that, in itself, is a tragedy?

British culture is not being suppressed in any way. It is absurd to draw comparisons to what the people of Tibet have faced and are continuing to face. There is no comparison.

If it isn’t being forced, why is there resistance? If British Culture is not being suppressed, why the concern about British flags?

Spiderx · 25/08/2025 12:04

But...and big BUT here...MOST are NOT !

Browniesforbreakfast · 25/08/2025 12:06

Spiderx · 25/08/2025 12:04

But...and big BUT here...MOST are NOT !

Most what are not what?

Chickenbone123 · 25/08/2025 12:06

RingoJuice · 25/08/2025 11:34

Chinese government will flood ‘restive’ regions with Han Chinese migrants. I know about the situation more in Tibet, but they do it in Xinjiang too.

They are being demographically erased in their capital cities. Slower in the countryside, thankfully.

Thanks for explaining

MrsBennetsPoorNerves · 25/08/2025 12:06

RingoJuice · 25/08/2025 12:02

Not this quickly unless you’ve lost a war or some such.

It is absolutely forced: do you literally think British people would have voted for this, if given the chance? Their betters have decided this fate for them.

It isn't forced. That implies that there is grand master plan somewhere that is being deliberately imposed on people. Whereas the reality is that it's happening organically and successive governments have failed to get a grip.

Forced demographic change would be an accurate description for e.g. the slave trade, where people were taken against their will to work in other parts of the world, resulting in lasting demographic change. That is not what is happening here, so you can quit your hyperbolic claims.

Goldenbear · 25/08/2025 12:06

PrissyGalore · 25/08/2025 11:55

I think it’s patronising to tell someone they can’t hold a belief because they are an immigrant. I work with immigrant colleagues and have family members who are immigrants who are totally against the people coming by boat. The people I know all came here legitimately-they paid their visa fees, stuck to the rules and paid the NHS surcharge enabling access to healthcare. They aren’t eligible for benefits. So yes, I think it!s quite understandable for them to be miffed and see those arriving by boat housed, fed and given medical care although they arrive illegally when the immigrants who did the right thing don’t get that.

And what's the actual percentage of people that arrive via boats in the overall immigration statistics?

Good twisting of my point there, I was confused as I believed that poster to be an American living in the U.S. so not an immigrant at all, I questioned whether someone who doesn't live here can have a useful insight to racism on the UK. Having an opinion about those things and being miffed about being short changed is not the same as answering the question thread title, is the UK becoming more racist. It has on MN and I think it's a bit rich to preach about open borders when you have enjoyed that freedom of movement.

Piknik · 25/08/2025 12:08

Lilactimes · 25/08/2025 11:18

I think that’s a really interesting point which I hadn’t thought of @Piknik

My real anger with Brexit was the fact that those who campaigned for it - didn’t step in with a plan for it the minute they won. There was no vision for how we would exist outside the EU as a new independent country. Cameron resigned and we were in a vacuum.
I would have accepted it (miserably) if someone had inspired me and said this is what we are now going to represent.

I guess this led to a feeling that those who had voted leave had no vision other than wanting to close borders.

I suspect a lot of people who voted Leave just assumed/hoped/believed in all the promises. And I also suspect a lot of people who voted Leave didn't reallly know how it would play out but just assumed it would have to be better than the current status quo.

It's easy to be smug and superior in a secure job in a cosmopolitan city, but for people living in towns that were teetering on mass poverty, it probably just offered a 'chance for something'.

And I firmly believe that the vitriol poured on those people led many of them to feel disenfranchised, ashamed and labelled. These are also people who also rarely feel heard, whose lifestyles and views are not represented in parliament - all of which was the perfect arena for a strong 'voice of the people' like Tony Robinson et al to step in and 'represent' them. To tell them they have nothing to feel ashamed of would be a very powerful approach at that point.

So in the end, I blame Brexit, and by default, Cameron for creating the perfect storm.

Goldenbear · 25/08/2025 12:09

RingoJuice · 25/08/2025 12:02

Not this quickly unless you’ve lost a war or some such.

It is absolutely forced: do you literally think British people would have voted for this, if given the chance? Their betters have decided this fate for them.

Again, what the heck are you on about, have you really embedded yourself in UK culture if you think we are all die hard intolerants?

MrsBennetsPoorNerves · 25/08/2025 12:09

Browniesforbreakfast · 25/08/2025 12:03

If it isn’t being forced, why is there resistance? If British Culture is not being suppressed, why the concern about British flags?

Because the racists have spotted an opportunity, obviously, and because they have orchestrated a very effective campaign of disinformation on social media which seeks to mislead and manipulate people who aren't intelligent enough to know better.

Goldenbear · 25/08/2025 12:10

RingoJuice · 25/08/2025 12:02

Not this quickly unless you’ve lost a war or some such.

It is absolutely forced: do you literally think British people would have voted for this, if given the chance? Their betters have decided this fate for them.

Who's the 'betters'?

Goldenbear · 25/08/2025 12:10

Goldenbear · 25/08/2025 12:10

Who's the 'betters'?

Sorry, who are the 'betters'?

PeonyPatch · 25/08/2025 12:10

MrsBennetsPoorNerves · 25/08/2025 10:51

Yes, racists are using false narratives about uncontrolled immigration to legitimise the expression of their racism and xenophobia.

So… how do we have genuine and open discussions about uncontrolled immigration without being branded racist or a xenophobe?

Browniesforbreakfast · 25/08/2025 12:11

MrsBennetsPoorNerves · 25/08/2025 12:09

Because the racists have spotted an opportunity, obviously, and because they have orchestrated a very effective campaign of disinformation on social media which seeks to mislead and manipulate people who aren't intelligent enough to know better.

So it is being forced on them?

YourFavouriteFalafel · 25/08/2025 12:12

Sandyshandy · 25/08/2025 11:29

I don’t think it’s a simple as a colour of skin argument- what really frightens people is fundamental Islam. It concerns me that we are allowing people (and I really mean men) into the country who aren’t coming here because they admire the country and want to integrate & and embrace our norms. Some immigrants (again I’m referring to men) appear to hate us, especially if we are women, and scorn our values and freedoms. I detest misogyny and personally do not want these men here - especially when they are young men who claim to have left a dangerous country but been quite happy to leave their more vulnerable (female) relatives behind. I do not like seeing women in veils accompanied by tshirt wearing men. I respect their right to wear the veil if they choose to do so but I do not believe it has any place in a modern society that respects women. I do not dislike or fear these women, I feel saddened to see their oppression openly on our streets. If we could swap all the male immigrants for their female relatives we’d have a very different situation. There was little hostility to the Ukrainian immigrants imo not so much do to skin colour but because they were women bc and children seeking safety while the men stayed to fight for their country. If all the men had turned up on their own, abandoning their families, I don’t think they would have had a very positive reception either!

Don't have time currently to respond to your whole comment but it's much easier for women and children to get on a plane from Ukraine to the UK and the situations aren't comparable. The risk of death and suffering associated with getting to the UK (or more likely, other countries) to claim asylum is high, and so typically the men endure the vast journey first and then bring their wives and children over on a plane as dependants once their claim has been processed. It's not that they value their lives and safety more than their children's and happily choose to abandon them (which is such an offensive and dehumanising trope), far from it - it's a calculation of risk between the journey and safety for the forseeable in their home country where they can hopefully be supported/protected by family. There are too many tales of children dying on the journey that most men do not even consider this an option, however much it may pain them to leave them behind. You make it sound like they're all skipping their way here merrily, laughing and singing "row row your boat" when the reality could not be more different.

Nestingbirds · 25/08/2025 12:13

MrsBennetsPoorNerves · 25/08/2025 11:57

Demographic change is happening constantly, and has done throughout history. It isn't being "forced", it is evolving, as it has evolved over many years. And all of us are the products of such evolution. I'm not sure why you think that, in itself, is a tragedy?

British culture is not being suppressed in any way. It is absurd to draw comparisons to what the people of Tibet have faced and are continuing to face. There is no comparison.

You do have to accept that the population have not given consent for millions of new arrivals. It feels forced and terrifying for many because no one seems to have any control over it - nor does it seem anyone has even planned how the infrastructure will cope. It is now impacting so many people up and down the country. This is a failure of both policy and leadership of the current government. No one has the first idea what Labour’s policy even is on immigration, they don’t appear to have one. Tony Blair conceded a few months ago that they had completely underestimated the numbers and the consequences, but the current government is silent. Total radio silence. No action. No plan. No leadership or action of any kind.

That is the real failure here, the government are really letting all of us down. I am astonished we haven’t heard a peep out of them.

Unless this is fixed, the people Labour are letting down the most are the legal ethnic minorities both born here, and those invited to live here, because of government inaction the country is now becoming increasingly frustrated and angry. Unheard. Unseen and demanding that this is addressed.

WHEN will we hear from Starmer? Where the fuck is he?
Are we all supposed to stand by and allow this to happen in this great country known for its gentle tolerance and inherent kindness?

It’s an absolute disgrace.

MrsBennetsPoorNerves · 25/08/2025 12:13

PeonyPatch · 25/08/2025 12:10

So… how do we have genuine and open discussions about uncontrolled immigration without being branded racist or a xenophobe?

That's easy. We just need to talk about it without invoking racist and xenophobic tropes or resorting to disinformation instead of fact.