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Hate how racist everything has become, and how quickly it’s happened.

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Silverbirchleaf · 24/08/2025 22:13

I was just looking at facebook, and a ‘Sad face’ newsmaker article came up. Practically all the comments mentioned boats, asylum seekers etc etc. Its really getting me down.

Travelled to the south west last weekend. On the way down no flags on bridges. On the way back, in some areas, every bridge.

Its scary how quickly it’s all happening.

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RingoJuice · 25/08/2025 11:28

RingoJuice · 25/08/2025 11:24

And I was in Tibet itself and they are beyond pissed at the situation. As you well know if you truly worked with them.

Or are they happy that their homeland is being swamped by the Han?

Of course, maybe the Tibetans deserve it for doing a colonialism (some Chinese literally believe that Tibetans aided the Manchus during the Qing dynasty and thus deserve it.
Of course this isn’t true)

BlakeCarrington · 25/08/2025 11:29

Nestingbirds · 25/08/2025 11:23

I fundamentally disagree with you - many of these men do in fact come from countries with dreadful track record of mistreatment and abuse of women and girls.

I am going to ignore your silly insult and name calling. I know that I care about everyone in my country regardless of their ethnicity, I will not stand by and stay silent as children are raped and women are intimidated in their own towns and cities by packs of illegal men. Shame on you.

Well said.

RingoJuice · 25/08/2025 11:29

Goldenbear · 25/08/2025 11:26

I thought you were American?

I am. What makes you think otherwise?

Sandyshandy · 25/08/2025 11:29

I don’t think it’s a simple as a colour of skin argument- what really frightens people is fundamental Islam. It concerns me that we are allowing people (and I really mean men) into the country who aren’t coming here because they admire the country and want to integrate & and embrace our norms. Some immigrants (again I’m referring to men) appear to hate us, especially if we are women, and scorn our values and freedoms. I detest misogyny and personally do not want these men here - especially when they are young men who claim to have left a dangerous country but been quite happy to leave their more vulnerable (female) relatives behind. I do not like seeing women in veils accompanied by tshirt wearing men. I respect their right to wear the veil if they choose to do so but I do not believe it has any place in a modern society that respects women. I do not dislike or fear these women, I feel saddened to see their oppression openly on our streets. If we could swap all the male immigrants for their female relatives we’d have a very different situation. There was little hostility to the Ukrainian immigrants imo not so much do to skin colour but because they were women bc and children seeking safety while the men stayed to fight for their country. If all the men had turned up on their own, abandoning their families, I don’t think they would have had a very positive reception either!

Chickenbone123 · 25/08/2025 11:29

MrsBennetsPoorNerves · 25/08/2025 11:27

Of course they are not happy. But if you truly understand what has happened in Tibet, you will be aware of how crass it is to compare their situation with ours. It would be laughable if it wasn't so dismissive of their struggles.

I dont know anything about this. What has happened in Tibet?

EvilEdna44 · 25/08/2025 11:30

RingoJuice · 25/08/2025 11:15

I think you misunderstand.

Let me ask you something. I used to live in China. I disagree with Chinese government policy on this aspect: they intentionally flood Tibet with Han Chinese.

Lhasa is now 50% Han Chinese. Tibetans are only a majority in the rural areas.

Is it okay for China to continue to do this, against the wishes of the Tibetan people? Do you think it’s acceptable that they become a minority in their own territory?

Or do Han Chinese have every right to go there, locals be damned?

I don’t know enough about Tibet to make a comment one way or the other.

What I do know is that I am a human being living on one small planet alongside 7 billion others, and by a vanishingly low probability I was born in a time and place where I have the good fortune to benefit from bountiful food, water, shelter, free education and health care, liberty, democracy and human rights. Would I be happy to lose this? No. But am I self entitled enough to believe that I am more deserving any of these things than anyone else on planet earth? No.

I didn’t “earn” them and they are not my God-given (if I believed in God) right.

National borders and cultural norms are all socially constructed. If we were suddenly invaded and attacked by extra terrestrials, you would suddenly find allies in those foreign humans you fear and dislike so much.

RingoJuice · 25/08/2025 11:31

MrsBennetsPoorNerves · 25/08/2025 11:27

Of course they are not happy. But if you truly understand what has happened in Tibet, you will be aware of how crass it is to compare their situation with ours. It would be laughable if it wasn't so dismissive of their struggles.

Does it hurt more when your colonial masters do it to you, or when your own elite do it to you?

One is more harsh, yes. But the betrayal is sharper when it’s your own people, I’d say.

And the result is your own erasure from your homeland and little you can do to reverse it.

ImGoingUpstairsToTakeOffMyHat · 25/08/2025 11:31

Simonjt · 25/08/2025 11:22

What are the numbers of board in your post, what does that mean?

*boats

Goldenbear · 25/08/2025 11:32

RingoJuice · 25/08/2025 11:29

I am. What makes you think otherwise?

Oh right, just thought this was a thread about racism in the UK, you seem to be posting from a position of insight that you can't have if you don't live here.

MrsBennetsPoorNerves · 25/08/2025 11:32

RingoJuice · 25/08/2025 11:31

Does it hurt more when your colonial masters do it to you, or when your own elite do it to you?

One is more harsh, yes. But the betrayal is sharper when it’s your own people, I’d say.

And the result is your own erasure from your homeland and little you can do to reverse it.

The two situations are not remotely comparable. Stop trying to draw parallels that don't exist.

Browniesforbreakfast · 25/08/2025 11:34

I was born in a time and place where I have the good fortune to benefit from bountiful food, water, shelter, free education and health care, liberty, democracy and human rights. Would I be happy to lose this? No. But am I self entitled enough to believe that I am more deserving any of these things than anyone else on planet earth? No.

So do you operate borders within your own life? Do your lock your front door because to think you are more deserving of the food, shelter and belongings within your home than random people in the street?

RingoJuice · 25/08/2025 11:34

Chickenbone123 · 25/08/2025 11:29

I dont know anything about this. What has happened in Tibet?

Chinese government will flood ‘restive’ regions with Han Chinese migrants. I know about the situation more in Tibet, but they do it in Xinjiang too.

They are being demographically erased in their capital cities. Slower in the countryside, thankfully.

PrissyGalore · 25/08/2025 11:35

HiddenRiver · 25/08/2025 09:43

Why does “living in the country all your life” entitle you to a council house paid by others? Genuine question.

Why should the “white british people” get one? What have they done to get one? Or is your success criteria just being “white British”?

It is a legitimate view point to say that British people should be prioritised over ex pats. So yes, someone living here all their lives should get priority for public housing rather than someone who isn’t. It’s not about being white. Same with jobs-British trained doctors who are struggling to get jobs should be prioritised over people from overseas. Now people might not agree with that view but I can’t see how it could be called racist. There is nothing wrong with a country prioritising its own people for public services and jobs.

RingoJuice · 25/08/2025 11:35

Goldenbear · 25/08/2025 11:32

Oh right, just thought this was a thread about racism in the UK, you seem to be posting from a position of insight that you can't have if you don't live here.

I don’t live in America and haven’t for years.

RingoJuice · 25/08/2025 11:36

MrsBennetsPoorNerves · 25/08/2025 11:32

The two situations are not remotely comparable. Stop trying to draw parallels that don't exist.

Be specific about the difference. To me it’s a matter of degree

Sskka · 25/08/2025 11:36

MrsBennetsPoorNerves · 25/08/2025 11:17

The rape of a child is horrific, regardless of who the perpetrators might be, but the vast majority of migrants to this country are not child rapists, and they are no more responsible for those who do commit such atrocities than the average white British man. And it is fundamentally racist to hold them collectively responsible, simply because they share the characteristic of being "foreign".

Please stop using child rape and violence against women as a vehicle for expressing your racism. It doesn't legitimise your prejudices, it merely highlights them.

I can’t believe it’s necessary to point this out, but the issue with foreign criminals is that you can do things to them that you can’t do to the British population – you can vet them or their countries before they come here, you can deport them, you can not have mass immigration in the first place.

Quite apart from how the percentages stack up, the fury around foreign criminals is that measures are available and they have not been taken. How do you expect people to feel about immigration when this is part of the immigration we get?

Goldenbear · 25/08/2025 11:40

RingoJuice · 25/08/2025 11:35

I don’t live in America and haven’t for years.

So you live in Britain? You emigrated to Britain from the U.S?

Marchitectmummy · 25/08/2025 11:41

Westfacing · 25/08/2025 09:10

had my leg slapped by passers by quite a few times

I hate to say this but that sounds unbelievable! I mean that in both ways - either you're not telling the truth or if true it's one of the most extraordinary things I've ever read on here.

Did you report these many physical assaults to the police?

I did report each occurrence as did the site guys for things that happened to them on site, but ultimately I'm reporting a passerby who rarely I saw the face of enough to describe what was happening. I also changed the times I went to site to 10ish when less people were moving around the site. If you are London based I will happily send you the details privately of the exact area this happened etc, you can have a walk around yourself and experience it In sure nothing has changed in the past two years. it happened, I can honestly say I've never experienced anything like it. I was not welcome there, I can only assume this was due to race and the fact the guys on site experienced different abuse but still abuse led me to believe it is due to race.

MrsBennetsPoorNerves · 25/08/2025 11:42

RingoJuice · 25/08/2025 11:36

Be specific about the difference. To me it’s a matter of degree

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That's like asking me to be specific about the difference between a banana and a dog. There is no comparison, and it is blindingly obvious as to why.

I am not going to waste my time writing out a history of Tibet which you can easily find on the Internet, and which I presume you already know in any case if you have spent time in Tibet as you claim. So you already know why the two situations are not remotely comparable and you're being completely disingenuous in trying to pretend that you don't.

PrissyGalore · 25/08/2025 11:42

EvilEdna44 · 25/08/2025 11:30

I don’t know enough about Tibet to make a comment one way or the other.

What I do know is that I am a human being living on one small planet alongside 7 billion others, and by a vanishingly low probability I was born in a time and place where I have the good fortune to benefit from bountiful food, water, shelter, free education and health care, liberty, democracy and human rights. Would I be happy to lose this? No. But am I self entitled enough to believe that I am more deserving any of these things than anyone else on planet earth? No.

I didn’t “earn” them and they are not my God-given (if I believed in God) right.

National borders and cultural norms are all socially constructed. If we were suddenly invaded and attacked by extra terrestrials, you would suddenly find allies in those foreign humans you fear and dislike so much.

No-you didn’t earn them but you were lucky enough to be born in a country where the rule of law exists, the government provides education and healthcare and generally people are live and let live. That doesn’t mean that allowing unlimited immigration from other countries whose citizens don’t benefit from those things is the right thing to do. And different values have been imported. Grooming white girls because they are easy, honour killings, women stuck at home and not allowed to learn English. Middle class people tend to be protected from that-we mix with people from different races and ethnicities and everyone gets along swimmingly because those people tend to be educated and cultured. But go into some areas in England especially and see if those luxury liberal values still hold up. And your post makes no sense-should I just go and help myself to my neighbour’s belongings because they have things I want?

RingoJuice · 25/08/2025 11:44

Goldenbear · 25/08/2025 11:40

So you live in Britain? You emigrated to Britain from the U.S?

I’m a married-in. So I am concerned about both and my posting record probably shows that big time tbh

EvilEdna44 · 25/08/2025 11:45

Browniesforbreakfast · 25/08/2025 11:34

I was born in a time and place where I have the good fortune to benefit from bountiful food, water, shelter, free education and health care, liberty, democracy and human rights. Would I be happy to lose this? No. But am I self entitled enough to believe that I am more deserving any of these things than anyone else on planet earth? No.

So do you operate borders within your own life? Do your lock your front door because to think you are more deserving of the food, shelter and belongings within your home than random people in the street?

Well, I do own my house. I earned the money to pay for it and my name is on the deeds and it’s private property. But I don’t own my town, my county or Great Britain.

And if a refugee fleeing from persecution and in immediate danger needed somewhere to stay, with no “4-star hotels rolling out the red carpet” for them, then I would try to offer them a place to stay in my house. Just like many people did with Ukrainian refugees a couple of years back.

RingoJuice · 25/08/2025 11:45

MrsBennetsPoorNerves · 25/08/2025 11:42

That's like asking me to be specific about the difference between a banana and a dog. There is no comparison, and it is blindingly obvious as to why.

I am not going to waste my time writing out a history of Tibet which you can easily find on the Internet, and which I presume you already know in any case if you have spent time in Tibet as you claim. So you already know why the two situations are not remotely comparable and you're being completely disingenuous in trying to pretend that you don't.

Forced demographic change is a tragedy, whether forced at gunpoint or by incredibly naive government policy.

Thats my larger point.

Goldenbear · 25/08/2025 11:47

RingoJuice · 25/08/2025 11:44

I’m a married-in. So I am concerned about both and my posting record probably shows that big time tbh

So you enjoyed that freedom of movement and located to a different country but your posting history seems to suggest you don't think others should have that available to them, but hypocritical isn't it?

Goldenbear · 25/08/2025 11:48

Goldenbear · 25/08/2025 11:47

So you enjoyed that freedom of movement and located to a different country but your posting history seems to suggest you don't think others should have that available to them, but hypocritical isn't it?

Bit not "but".