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Hate how racist everything has become, and how quickly it’s happened.

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Silverbirchleaf · 24/08/2025 22:13

I was just looking at facebook, and a ‘Sad face’ newsmaker article came up. Practically all the comments mentioned boats, asylum seekers etc etc. Its really getting me down.

Travelled to the south west last weekend. On the way down no flags on bridges. On the way back, in some areas, every bridge.

Its scary how quickly it’s all happening.

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Lilactimes · 25/08/2025 11:06

RingoJuice · 25/08/2025 10:55

10,000 years ago? LOL.

Apologies @RingoJuice - 70,000 odd years ago!!

EvilEdna44 · 25/08/2025 11:08

RingoJuice · 25/08/2025 10:55

10,000 years ago? LOL.

Of course - you’re the only one that matters, not anyone in the past, future or from other cultures.

Nestingbirds · 25/08/2025 11:09

GivingUpFinally · 25/08/2025 10:59

Wtaf? I can't believe I've just read that.

This whole thread is fucking frightening. The amount of misinformation and uneducated, unbased, biased and racist opinion is actually staggering.

I'm scared at what this future is going to look like, if this type of rhetoric is allowed to continue.

Being a brown immigrant has never been harder. The only thing I have to my advantage is that I'm born and raised English speaking from an English speaking country.

I hope more people will educate themselves on the whole immigration process. Many of us have had to pay thousands to immigrate here in application fees and visas. We have had to have thousands in savings to show we can support ourselves. We don't get given recourse to public funds or NHS treatment as a landing present. Those that do are in dire straights. In order to claim asylum in the UK it must be done on British soil from within the country. Hence, they apply when they land here.

I have paid for NHS trastment before getting my settlement Visa, I have paid taxes from the moment I put pen to fucking paper and paid for application fees and the day after I landed I was working and paying taxes. I am not unique in anyway shape or form.

Why should I not receive what I'm entitled to? Which is equality and freedom from prosecution because of my birth and colour of my skin. This is a basic universal human right.

There are so many positives to immigration and benefits to the economy. Without immigration systems that are already failing would completely collapse.

How about we see people as people and not their status, skin colour or whatever is the latest new hate is?

Thank you to those who raised their voices for equality and shout down misinformation, racism, antisemitism and hate.

The rest of you please educate yourselves because this immigrant and many like me are far more educated and cultured.

I am incredulous that you can not see the root cause of this issue, a child being gang raped by groups of men that shouldn’t even be here is the issue, not you. How are you safe in this environment? Why aren’t you demanding change? This has got nothing to do with the colour of people’s skin and everything to do with the security and safety of our country and EVERYONE that lives here.

Lilactimes · 25/08/2025 11:09

Icebreakhell · 25/08/2025 10:57

You’re absolutely bonkers. Read my fucking post back- not one word about colour.

I can’t find your original post @Icebreakhell - but it was about looking around and seeing people looking different and not “British” and our right to protect our own Britishness.

btw - you seem like a nice calm rational personal @Icebreakhell -

Spiderx · 25/08/2025 11:13

Not naive in the slightest and when I mean ' travelled' I mean travelled , lived and worked among people of many different cultures. The worst I have met have been the white entitled British tourists. NOT ME being naive, think you had better do some soul searching yourself

PandoraSocks · 25/08/2025 11:14

Phobiaphobic · 25/08/2025 10:50

I think all the Hope Not Haters have arrived.

Troll hunting isn't allowed on MN. Hth.

RingoJuice · 25/08/2025 11:15

EvilEdna44 · 25/08/2025 11:08

Of course - you’re the only one that matters, not anyone in the past, future or from other cultures.

I think you misunderstand.

Let me ask you something. I used to live in China. I disagree with Chinese government policy on this aspect: they intentionally flood Tibet with Han Chinese.

Lhasa is now 50% Han Chinese. Tibetans are only a majority in the rural areas.

Is it okay for China to continue to do this, against the wishes of the Tibetan people? Do you think it’s acceptable that they become a minority in their own territory?

Or do Han Chinese have every right to go there, locals be damned?

Phobiaphobic · 25/08/2025 11:15

EvilEdna44 · 25/08/2025 11:03

Is preferring hope over hate a distasteful thing then?

But seeing as you mention it:
Operation Raise the Colours organised by well-known far-right extremists

Hope Not Hate's founder Nick Lowles spread misinformation about a Muslim woman being acid attacked by far right protestors during the Southport riots. He deliberately incited retaliatory violence, but of course no prison term for him.

https://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/2024/08/05/nick-lowles-hope-not-hate-apologise-tweet-acid-attack/

Meanwhile HNH regularly smears anyone who challenges the establishment narrative that diversity is our strength.

Spiderx · 25/08/2025 11:15

Yeah...we meed to be here, to stop the Hate no Hopers ! What a terrible attituse to life !

Browniesforbreakfast · 25/08/2025 11:16

LittleBearPad · 25/08/2025 10:56

But that’s not what I said. At no point did I say the BBC should be the only source of news. But it is balanced, it has a public duty to be. Far more than print journalism bd far more than internet news.

You’re making up an argument I haven’t made.

It is about as balanced as The Guardian is, and about as accurate too.

MrsBennetsPoorNerves · 25/08/2025 11:17

Nestingbirds · 25/08/2025 11:09

I am incredulous that you can not see the root cause of this issue, a child being gang raped by groups of men that shouldn’t even be here is the issue, not you. How are you safe in this environment? Why aren’t you demanding change? This has got nothing to do with the colour of people’s skin and everything to do with the security and safety of our country and EVERYONE that lives here.

The rape of a child is horrific, regardless of who the perpetrators might be, but the vast majority of migrants to this country are not child rapists, and they are no more responsible for those who do commit such atrocities than the average white British man. And it is fundamentally racist to hold them collectively responsible, simply because they share the characteristic of being "foreign".

Please stop using child rape and violence against women as a vehicle for expressing your racism. It doesn't legitimise your prejudices, it merely highlights them.

RingoJuice · 25/08/2025 11:18

Spiderx · 25/08/2025 11:13

Not naive in the slightest and when I mean ' travelled' I mean travelled , lived and worked among people of many different cultures. The worst I have met have been the white entitled British tourists. NOT ME being naive, think you had better do some soul searching yourself

Tibetans have become a minority in their own capital, and are being swamped by Han migrants.

Do you think it’s acceptable that they are becoming a minority in their own homeland?

Lilactimes · 25/08/2025 11:18

Piknik · 25/08/2025 10:56

This open hostility was IMO triggered by Brexit. Before that, people voted how they voted and you might not agree with your Tory neighbour or your Lib Dem mate, but you respectfully tried to keep politics away from social interactions unless someone's views were really abhorrent. And you normally, wouldn't know that because people weren't open in their unpleasant opinions.

Then the referendum was announced and almost overnight a whole swathe of people who were considering voting 'leave' - for 1000 different reasons - were labelled as racists. Some of those people were. Some were fooled by the Farage bus. Some genuinely believed that economically we'd be better off. Some were sick of Brussels. Some would financially gain from Brexit. Some had lost faith in the EU. Some didn't like brown people. Some didn't have capacity to think critically so just voted how their mate/mum/neighbour voted. And some just weren't sure but knew they had no work and the COL was spiralling and they hoped it might mean change.

But they were all demonised and called thick racists.

And that caused a lot of people to feel outcast from society. And that's how it starts.

I voted Remain but I was horrified by the way anyone who voted differently was treated. And it was perfectly opened a door for the Tommy Robinson's of this world to harness that hurt and shame and start twisting the narrative.

I think that’s a really interesting point which I hadn’t thought of @Piknik

My real anger with Brexit was the fact that those who campaigned for it - didn’t step in with a plan for it the minute they won. There was no vision for how we would exist outside the EU as a new independent country. Cameron resigned and we were in a vacuum.
I would have accepted it (miserably) if someone had inspired me and said this is what we are now going to represent.

I guess this led to a feeling that those who had voted leave had no vision other than wanting to close borders.

ImGoingUpstairsToTakeOffMyHat · 25/08/2025 11:19

It’s not racist to be concerned about the shocking number of board and asylum seekers coming into the country. We are a small island, there’s no room, and when in some deprived areas nearly half of children are living in poverty we should have other priorities

Phobiaphobic · 25/08/2025 11:20

GivingUpFinally · 25/08/2025 10:59

Wtaf? I can't believe I've just read that.

This whole thread is fucking frightening. The amount of misinformation and uneducated, unbased, biased and racist opinion is actually staggering.

I'm scared at what this future is going to look like, if this type of rhetoric is allowed to continue.

Being a brown immigrant has never been harder. The only thing I have to my advantage is that I'm born and raised English speaking from an English speaking country.

I hope more people will educate themselves on the whole immigration process. Many of us have had to pay thousands to immigrate here in application fees and visas. We have had to have thousands in savings to show we can support ourselves. We don't get given recourse to public funds or NHS treatment as a landing present. Those that do are in dire straights. In order to claim asylum in the UK it must be done on British soil from within the country. Hence, they apply when they land here.

I have paid for NHS trastment before getting my settlement Visa, I have paid taxes from the moment I put pen to fucking paper and paid for application fees and the day after I landed I was working and paying taxes. I am not unique in anyway shape or form.

Why should I not receive what I'm entitled to? Which is equality and freedom from prosecution because of my birth and colour of my skin. This is a basic universal human right.

There are so many positives to immigration and benefits to the economy. Without immigration systems that are already failing would completely collapse.

How about we see people as people and not their status, skin colour or whatever is the latest new hate is?

Thank you to those who raised their voices for equality and shout down misinformation, racism, antisemitism and hate.

The rest of you please educate yourselves because this immigrant and many like me are far more educated and cultured.

So asking questions is 'misinformation, racism, antisemitism and hate'? Why don't you just answer them?

Icebreakhell · 25/08/2025 11:21

Lilactimes · 25/08/2025 11:09

I can’t find your original post @Icebreakhell - but it was about looking around and seeing people looking different and not “British” and our right to protect our own Britishness.

btw - you seem like a nice calm rational personal @Icebreakhell -

I’ve copied and pasted my post below, clearly (again) says nothing in relation to what you’re alleging. You can apologise now.

Increasing the population by a million a year during endless austerity and economic decline was always going to have negative consequences. Especially when people are allowed to overstay visas etc. The boat people are obviously a tiny proportion of this. There are a significant proportion of people arriving here from very different cultures and this has changed the landscape in ways that would not be accepted in other countries. The successive governments ignore this at their peril, no lessons have been learned from Brexit. It paves the way for Reform to win votes from people who would be considered moderate.

Simonjt · 25/08/2025 11:22

ImGoingUpstairsToTakeOffMyHat · 25/08/2025 11:19

It’s not racist to be concerned about the shocking number of board and asylum seekers coming into the country. We are a small island, there’s no room, and when in some deprived areas nearly half of children are living in poverty we should have other priorities

What are the numbers of board in your post, what does that mean?

MrsBennetsPoorNerves · 25/08/2025 11:22

RingoJuice · 25/08/2025 11:18

Tibetans have become a minority in their own capital, and are being swamped by Han migrants.

Do you think it’s acceptable that they are becoming a minority in their own homeland?

I used to work with with Tibetan refugees. The situation in Tibet is not remotely comparable to the situation in modern Britain, and it's pretty crass to try to draw any equivalence.

HTH

Bumble6 · 25/08/2025 11:23

PaxAeterna · 25/08/2025 08:05

No I do not think that irregular arrivals via the boats is a good thing; it’s dangerous and haphazard.

However these people are not illegal. If you are in Somalia, you would have zero legal routes to claim asylum and you would have to travel illegally. But once you claim asylum, you have a legal right to be there until your claim is processed.

I don’t think vilifying these people is fair or a good thing. And I think that all this misinformation- that they are illegal, that they are invading, that they want to live on benefits, that they are all criminals ect.. is damaging and dangerous. They make up 4% of immigrants- they aren’t causing the housing crisis, they aren’t the reason you can’t see a GP.

I think we should deal with the problem but I don’t think we should demonise and dehumanise a group of vulnerable people. It’s laughable that people believe this group of people from countries with war and poverty literally carrying their belongings in a plastic bag are the reason that their systems aren’t working well. The last government must be delighted with themselves. Mud successfully avoided- the refugees took the flack.

It's not about vilifying people, it's about having common sense. Yes, we need to take in asylum seekers fleeing persecution and war but having people come across on boats, sometimes paying thousands to do it, lining the pockets of criminal gangs, (often involved with other crimes as well) and with no information about who they are, is not the way. And for people to say that anyone who doesn't agree with allowing it is racist, is quite frankly, absurd.
I don't think the people coming on boats are the cause of our systems failures by any means but the more people we continue to add, the more it is going to fail (amongst many other reasons). This is not just in this country, many European countries are becoming much tougher on immigration and asylum seekers.

You also say you think we should 'deal with the problem', if you think all the people coming over here on boats are hard working people who will contribute to society and that they don't add any stress to our services, why do you think we need to deal with it? And if your only issue is the criminal gangs making money from them, what do you propose? That we collect them ourselves from Calais via boats or have them flown here?

Nestingbirds · 25/08/2025 11:23

MrsBennetsPoorNerves · 25/08/2025 11:17

The rape of a child is horrific, regardless of who the perpetrators might be, but the vast majority of migrants to this country are not child rapists, and they are no more responsible for those who do commit such atrocities than the average white British man. And it is fundamentally racist to hold them collectively responsible, simply because they share the characteristic of being "foreign".

Please stop using child rape and violence against women as a vehicle for expressing your racism. It doesn't legitimise your prejudices, it merely highlights them.

I fundamentally disagree with you - many of these men do in fact come from countries with dreadful track record of mistreatment and abuse of women and girls.

I am going to ignore your silly insult and name calling. I know that I care about everyone in my country regardless of their ethnicity, I will not stand by and stay silent as children are raped and women are intimidated in their own towns and cities by packs of illegal men. Shame on you.

MrsBennetsPoorNerves · 25/08/2025 11:24

Nestingbirds · 25/08/2025 11:23

I fundamentally disagree with you - many of these men do in fact come from countries with dreadful track record of mistreatment and abuse of women and girls.

I am going to ignore your silly insult and name calling. I know that I care about everyone in my country regardless of their ethnicity, I will not stand by and stay silent as children are raped and women are intimidated in their own towns and cities by packs of illegal men. Shame on you.

You can try to claim the moral high ground if it makes you feel better, but I'm afraid your attempts fall rather flat. We can see what you're doing.

RingoJuice · 25/08/2025 11:24

MrsBennetsPoorNerves · 25/08/2025 11:22

I used to work with with Tibetan refugees. The situation in Tibet is not remotely comparable to the situation in modern Britain, and it's pretty crass to try to draw any equivalence.

HTH

And I was in Tibet itself and they are beyond pissed at the situation. As you well know if you truly worked with them.

Or are they happy that their homeland is being swamped by the Han?

Goldenbear · 25/08/2025 11:26

RingoJuice · 25/08/2025 10:34

I beg of you, please learn about per capita.

I thought you were American?

Lilactimes · 25/08/2025 11:26

Greenwitchart · 25/08/2025 10:44

I think there are two issues here:

  • The genuine concerns that as a small island we don't have the infrastructure to welcome such a high number of immigrants, especially illegal ones who come from countries with very different values, for example when it comes to how they relate to women and girls, and who have no interest in integrating in society. And I say that as an immigrant myself who has lived in the UK for 30 years but was born in an EU country.
  • The other side of the coin is far right politicians and the right wing media pushing not too bright men and women to protest by whipping fury on social media and newspapers with dodgy ''facts'' about luxury hotels and generous benefits. They have their own agenda and this is not about just illegal immigration but about being hostile to anyone who is not white and is pure racism and xenophobia. It started with Brexit and continued over the years and this is absolute poison to any decent democracy. Very sad that people are falling for this propaganda and Farage's ''man of the people'' act.

It is very easy for some politicians to scapegoat certain groups (immigrants, disabled people, pensioners, single parents, benefit recipients) because they can divert the public rightful anger about the cost of living in this country from useless, wealthy politicians and their equally wealth and entitled mates who have bleeding the country dry for years and have starved our infrastructure of funding for decades. Oldest trick in the book and people are falling for it.

Edited

Well said @Greenwitchart

MrsBennetsPoorNerves · 25/08/2025 11:27

RingoJuice · 25/08/2025 11:24

And I was in Tibet itself and they are beyond pissed at the situation. As you well know if you truly worked with them.

Or are they happy that their homeland is being swamped by the Han?

Of course they are not happy. But if you truly understand what has happened in Tibet, you will be aware of how crass it is to compare their situation with ours. It would be laughable if it wasn't so dismissive of their struggles.